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Arely, 45
United States, Minnesota, South Saint Paul

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About Me

I hope to meet a man and have a relationship that turns into this: we love each other without reserve and without condition. Talking about our day as we make dinner together, laughing and enjoying a glass of wine as we unwind...I grin when I think of you and you tell me I'm beautiful...you tell me you love me...we call or text just to say "I'm thinking of you"...we kiss goodbye and we kiss hello, I can feel you touch the small of my back as we walk...you are playful, winking at me from across the room or swatting me on the butt when passing by...both of us knowing what will come later...appreciating when times are good because we've both been through bad....we are faithful without question but also have fun on boy's/girl's night out...we respect each other, working through conflicts, we don't say things in anger that can't be taken back...we use our words to build each other up, not to take one down...you recognize that men and women are different and are ok with it...you fix things when they are broken, open the car door, and hug me if I cry...even if you don't understand why ;-)...we spend holidays with family and have friends over to watch football...we talk about religion, politics, sports, work, current events, the neighbors (ha ha), we don't always have the same opinion and that's ok...we've both made mistakes and that's ok too...we look forward to going to church together on Sundays...I try my best to make your favorite dinners and always bake a cake on your birthday, I take care of you when you're sick and remind you about doctor visits...we are financially responsible and don't live beyond our means, you know I like working and don't expect you to support me......I workout and do all the "girly" things like shopping, hair and pedicures, telling myself it's for me, but it's mostly to look good for you...I want you to be proud of me...you are the most handsome man I've ever seen...I love it when you hold me as we fall asleep at night, your strength makes me feel safe and protected...in the morning we wake up and start another day.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk English Drama Sci-Fi
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