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Gaye, 41
United States, Minnesota, Shakopee

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About Me

I'm a professional, outgoing, intelligent single mom looking for someone to date regularly and maybe lead to more. Sheer honesty here: would love to meet the man of my dreams but going into this with both feet on the ground. I like my life, cherish my free time, but I would like to find that balance between having my own space and sharing my life with someone. I think it's important to have your own identity and not be defined by someone else; that being said, life is always nicer when you have someone to share it with. I do things that are unexpected just for the experience. I like security but despise boredom. Love to travel but being home on the couch is nice too. Dinner out vs bottle of wine at home and dinner with a movie are both welcome ways to spend a Saturday night. There are no "rules" or "favorites" with me, I just enjoy spending time with someone who is outgoing, FUNNY and of course who I have chemistry with (yeah, I did it...I used the "c" word. It's completely overused but admittedly important). I enjoy the beach, local bar/restaurants for a drink outdoors, movies, amusement parks, golf, tennis, and working out (not married to exercise though, just do it because it can be fun). Cannot LIVE without my morning coffee, never read the paper (yawn) would rather have good conversation. Most important is this- I'm a very funny person and I need laughter. I'm telling you, I'm a trip. If you don't get a sense of humor or are offended by sarcasm please know we will not get along. If being silly is beneath you, if you would think it's odd to slingshot water balloons at the neighbors or ring doorbells and run, truly I am not for you...but best of luck! I can't think of anything better than to find a partner in crime to do all these things with, who is a best friend and more. Someone to talk to at the end of a long day, text sweet little pick me ups to throughout the day and of course have that level of intimacy with... Something very casual here; a drink somewhere we can talk and see if this is a fit...whether that is coffee at a Starbucks or meeting at a local bar/restaurant.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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