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About Me

Hello?? TESTING..... TESTING.... is this thing on???(giggle giggle) K... I realize my profile states that I'm looking for a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP .... but you can't get there without DATING. Now, saying that, I'm NOT , nor am I looking for a SERIAL DATER. I'm just looking for that special someone who will make me laugh and be there for the good and the bad days... you know... a real RELATIONSHIP!!!LOL... are you still there? LOL ...I'm actually a Capricorn (Jan ***...LMAO... but it won't let me change it.I am very much a DOG person , you don't need to own a dog... but you have to LIKE dogs.... BIG dogs and small dogs... nice dogs and not so nice dogs....My Boy... my Dog, has a BIG place in my life, he's my Best Friend, my rock!My Boy passed away on April 9th/12.... Cancer.... but can't bring myself to remove him from My profile... He is STILL a big part of my Life.I have recently opened my Heart to a New Dog , shes taking some getting used too.......lolI enjoy photography (nothing special)...have recently started up my own small business creating Shadow Boxes.I'm far from being a GIRLY GIRL...LOL ... like being in sweats or jeans but clean up real nice... so I've been told...lolI don't need mani/pedis... don't need to gush over fashion magazines and jewels.... MANG, I don't even own... never have... owned a cell phone...lol.I think I'm a pretty simple, low maintance CHIC....lolI like most types of music but not a fan of RAP or Country.... I like the History Channel, National Geographic, OLN, one of my FAVE TV Shows...*M*A*S*H... Big Bang... My month of July is dominated by the Tour de France....lol...not that I own a bicycle...lolI have an addiction...very bad one...*CHOCOLATE*...but they say the first step is admitting you have a problem....I'm better now...but chocolate is still considered a food group in my life.I have a sence of humour....maybe you hadn't figured that out yet.... and I enjoy being silly every now and then...HATE is a strong word so lets say I dislike stupid people and people with no common sense...... liars...theives....cheats... I would like to meet someone that I can put my trust in... and that just seems harder and harder to find now a days. So, lets see, I'm pretty down to earth, animal lover, recovering chocolate addict, a little on the good crazy side, employed .... and all round cool chic!!Goodluck out there!PS.... sorry if I don't get back to you right away.... but I don't come on here all that often.check my web page for my business pcoeshadowbox.com/ Not to sure....guess we shall have to wait and see.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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