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Malisa, 43
United States, Minnesota, Shakopee

Offline, last seen Sat, 25 Oct 2025 18:07:16

About Me

Greetings! Thanks for stopping by....:)I LOVE Music (Abba-ZZTop and more), my band, dance, art, singing, piano, photography, travel, exploration, being silly with dogs...and other animals AND my Angel of a daughter! I also enjoy drawing/painting, writing poems/songs/short stories/reviews/articles, web-;..sometimes I can even pull that one off, haha!.. if you care to find out ;)As far as what I'm looking for in a mate goes, I tend to get along best with an intelligent, creative, soulful, intuitive, ambitious, passionate, loving man who enjoys sharing life with their 'partner in crime' and who is not afraid to be 'emotional/open' with/in front of me ;). I'm also attracted to those who continually 'grow and improve' while on this short term visit on this fine planet and I do my best at that as well. I am seeking a beautiful mind...and soul...-loving, easy-going, sensual, sassy Aries. People usually describe me as an intelligent, independent (but not 'closed off'!), nutty (in a good way!), empathetic, sensitive, strong (but still a 'softie little girl' at times, lol), daring, open,creative, patient, silly-sometimes-sarcastic, considerate kinda gal. I can also be a bit shy when I first meet people but I get comfy pretty quick depending on the 'chemistry' :)I treat my mate with utmost respect, compassion and understanding. I love to share in my partner's hopes,dreams, interests and encourage him along his 'journey' in every way possible. I'm not a judgemental person and I seek the same in him. True, unconditional love within a 'couple' is rare and beautiful...and usually takes time...(but I'm open to love at first sight if it comes along, lol) and to me, should last forever...If you got this far, thanks for taking the time! I wrote a lot simply because I want to be clear! If any of this rings true for you, please feel free to drop me a line...:) Cheers and good luck to all out there! ***Side Note: It seems some people get the impression because I'm in a band (s) , I like to 'party'. Sorry, that is far from reality! I have never tried drugs or a cigarette and I do not drink. Music and all the other 'interests' I have listed above, are many of my 'highs'! I don't have anything against those who do 'partake' though! :) I am very spontaneous so the idea of completely planning a date is not typically my thing. But, for a first date, I usually enjoy just meeting, keeping things low-key, probably do lunch/dinner, have good conversation/food and see where things go. Friendship is always first of course and who knows what may transpire from there. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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