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Wesley, 41
United States, Minnesota, Shakopee

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About Me

Love me for who I am! I can't and WONT change to be something I am not. If you dont like me the way I am, keep fishing! I am honest, trustworthy, kind, considerate... I love romance, affection, cuddling, holding hands.... and looking for the same in a partner. I was taught to never take life for granted, to live a little, to love with everything I have, to never give up, and always fight for what is right!I can be romantic and loving but also stern and tough when needed. I am easy to get along with. I like to try anything once. I like fishing, camping, canoeing, biking, -too many things to list. I work out after work at least 3 times a week to keep in shape. I love the theater. I am just as comfortable sitting at home watching movies as I am going out to an expensive restaurant for dinner. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and hope for someone who can appreciate it and laugh with me. I am very dedicated to my family, friends and that special someone.... but also to my job. I work hard to be able to enjoy more of what life has to offer. I am tired of all the games some guys play! Don't lie or cheat. Don't tell me you feel something you don't. I will not play games and don't want you to. If it is not working out, please say so. I want a sweet BUT STRONG man who can make his own decisions...We don't need to spend every waking minute together. I want you to have your life and let me have mine. I need "ME TIME", but dont get me wrong... I want to spend lots of time with that special someone as well...If you are needy, please find someone who wants to be a babysitter... I only do that for my sister. I am not a drug user - if you enjoy that type of thing, please enjoy it with someone else. I am not interested! I am not looking for sex or a one-night stand! I like to have a good time but do not party hard. If you are psycho, possessive or a stalker, please do not respond! I have enough of those! You must like kids, since I have 3 boys who are 24, 22 and ***and cannot have any more).... They are my life and will always come first!!!I also do not want to be the one who ALWAYS has to keep a conversation going. Please, add your input and talk a little, at least!If I have to carry the whole converstaion, it gets boring quickly. They say a picture is worth a thousand words....but a picture can't exactly tell you about a person's personality.... Think about that when you are looking at peoples pictures on here... They might not be a fashion model (just as I am not), but they might just be the most wonderful person on earth! You never know until you get to know them. Give them all a chance! If you are still reading and find me interesting, please send me a message. Can't wait to hear from you! I would probably start the evening with a nice quiet dinner in a dimly lit restaurant. Then I would like to go to a park where we could take a long walk to talk and get to know each other more. If all goes well, maybe there will be a second date!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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