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Chelsea, 43

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About Me

I was in a twelve year relationship and have been single for over a year. I just want to say that being single isn't bad but dating really sucks...I tried to come up with a classier way to say that but that word just works the best. I had forgotten what it's like to be "out there" not sure if your supposed to call them or let them call you...or how long should you wait before you meet them...or what do you do if your in the middle of a date, having dinner at their house and they go in the bathroom and come out completely naked (I was fully clothed by the way). A little about me physically: I'm TALL....I'm 5'9 without shoes! All my pictures are within the past 2 years and accurately represent me. I don't understand why women OR men put up old, deceiving pictures especially if they plan on meeting the other person. I enjoy traveling and do so often, whether it is other countries or weekend trips. I love good food and drinks (wine, beer, martinis, mixed drinks) I am not picky …..and that did NOT come out right. I just made myself sound like a drunk ;) What I MEANT to say is that I'm open minded and like to try different things. I don't like camping,four- I mean, my idea of camping is staying at a hotel that doesn't have a pool! I am mature enough to know that you guys like to have your time with the boys doing those guy things and that is great. I don't have to "like" everything you like to do but if your wanting your partner/girlfriend to do those things with you then I'm not your girl. On the other hand, if you don't like musicals or sappy chick flicks I won't make you go with me. I try to compromise ;)Good things about me:*I'm a good friend*I am a good girlfriend/partner. I don't lie, cheat, etc. This hasn't gotten me very far but I do believe in treating people how you want to be treated. I do believe in Kharma!*I'm smart but be prepared for occasional blonde moments*I like to joke around and have no problem laughing at myself ...or you...whoever deserves it.*I don't lie unless one of my friends ask me if their ex's new girlfriend is prettier then them.*I'm open to new experiences, life is short and I want to enjoy it.Bad things about me:*I tend to say exactly what I think*I have no problem leaving dishes in the sink overnight.*I have a thing about piles...no, I'm not a hoarder.*I don't like manual labor .....although I usually like the finished product if I do have to "work" (ex. yard work, house work, wash car, etc). It would depend on the person I'm meeting. I like to keep things open .......except please don't get naked unless I ask you too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeanene

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have been compelled to re write this profile and this time with not as much ANGER and negativity and someone reading into it something which is not present in my life. I have done this dating sight and others on numerous occasions and each time I find myself stuck getting *** guys/girls that are not something I want to read. I hate to be rude and not respond to each and every ***, but at times I find myself being rude and doing just that or the other extreme of answering and bringing myself to a level that I do not approve of. I wrote my last profile in the hopes to keep away certain types of people. It has worked for the most part, but I certainly do not want to come across as a beotch, although I have my days : ) I will continue this by saying I am not a religious person, do not believe in structured religion and do not care to be a part of it. If you are in search of a friend or mate that is into such things then read no further. Also read no further if you think you can somehow convert or save my soul. I am the captain of my ship and do not need anyone to try to guide or succor me. Please resist at this time of sending me *** me how I will rot in hell. The karma that people reap from actions of such are really not cool to deal with : ) I feel attraction is a huge part of a relationship and I feel that attraction starts with physical attraction especially on line. We do not have the ability from a computer screen (at least not some of us) to have a serious feel for another persons and their personality, how they vibrate with this universe or handle themselves sooo.. we are left with the obvious. Are they attractive to you? We all have different taste and likes in what we view with the eye, but you know as well as I do If you aren’t attracted, it isn’t happening, not even at 2am with 12 shots of poison of your choice, At least not for me. No I am not shallow, hardly even close to that, but I am real and I do not want to be with anyone I am not attracted to. This being said I do not date colored men. I am not attracted. Very simple and do not take it personal. I wouldn’t try to push liver and onions on you if I knew you didn’t care for the taste. So please avoid the hate mail and calling me racist because I assure you with every ounce of my being I am not. I am also not attracted to older men. Older meaning you are closer to my parent’s age then you are to mine. I just do not want to date anyone that is old enough to be my father. Friends are one thing, thinking there is a chance for more is highly unlikely. The same goes with young guys. I have a son that is soon to be 20 and I would never dream of dating someone close to his age. I feel I need to take this further and let whoever is reading this know that I am not a party girl. Sure I enjoy the occasional night out with friends or who ever, but I am not one to drink daily or even on the weekends. Hell I might not even drink when I go out if I feel like not indulging. I still have fun, I’m not stuffy. I am actually repulsed by people that have a need to drink or do drugs daily or weekly. So if you are a daily or serious weekend consumer please pass this profile by. Now onto a little more in depth about me and who you have come across. I believe whole heartedly in the power of the Universe. I am a spiritualist… No I am not a quack and if that crossed your mind for one brief moment you are reading the wrong profile. I shoot from the hip, so if you are the sensitive type I might hurt your feelings by being too honest with you. I believe in honesty and not sugar coating anything for anyone. I call it the way I see it and that has earned me the title of “Ice Princess” Strange really how so many say that they want nothing but the truth, but when it really comes down to it…. How many can really handle the cold hard truth of another?Take note.. I am an Aries, strong personality for a woman, but I have a Pisces moon that lightens that intense fire side of me and creates a wealth of depth. I am not easy to hold down and Universe forbid if you try,I am highly opinionated, seeker of truth, do not deal with many emotional giddy girl type people. Do not take that last part the wrong way. I am all woman, I am sensitive when I need to be, caring, sensual, loving and as always the list goes on. I require a man that can take the lead and constructively tell me when I am to over bearing as he so quietly observes from his bleacher. I do not seek another identical to me and the things I am into in life, but I do require an open mind and someone that can agree to disagree and actually give different view points.If you are still reading and feel a need to take a chance then I look forward to hearing from you. Never know what the future holds…. Or do we?Best of luck to all of you in your search on what you feel might complete you!

  • Aureole

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello I'd like to tell everyone a little about myself. Not too much because I really don't want to waste my time typing my life story. If someone is seriously interested in me they will go through the proper steps to make contact & find out things as we go along. If I'm worth the chance for you,you will know everything that matters long before we take the next steps in getting to know each other. That out of the way I am not looking for casual sex,a dating buddy etc. I am looking for serious connection with someone.;Hi or Hello" and then expect me to pick up off those two lazy written words & drag conversation out of you. I will not,it is a waste of my time. Because if a man or woman is looking for their love they will have to participate in the process equally. I am not interested in meeting a man that is ready to retire in the living of life or that is looking for someone to be their couch potato partner either,so don't waste your time. I am trying to start the next phase of my life,I want to enjoy doing things,being spontaneous,LIVING LIFE SOME! I have spent my life up until now raising my family,working all the time & never living or doing anything for my own happiness. Now that I'm starting from scratch I want a partner that wants someone to share their love of life with too just like me. Not to say I don't enjoy quiet evenings or just being at home sometimes,just that I want to be active & enjoy the things life has to offer while I still have some time left to do so. I love reading,nature outdoor activities. I am a one of a kind woman. You will not meet many people if any like me. I have wide range of music interests,I would really love to meet a friend &lover. I have a huge heart but I also have very little tolerance for the fakery & drama. Lets keep it real & be honest I want first dates to be simple. Something we can do that allows us to talk to each other. Start the process of seeing if there is some sparks or chemistry like a light lunch then a stroll through a park,near some water or even just sitting on a blanket & talking a bit. I am not a high maintenance gal,in fact I enjoy the simple things in life the best. Just want to share my life with good,loving man that wants the same things as me for their second part in the journey of life

  • Hilda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I am a very caring, positive and honest woman. Looking for a special someone who we can become friends first and enjoy each other's company, someone honest, outgoing, positive and has a sense of humor that would enjoy doing things together. Someone that takes care of himself also. This is the type of person that I am looking for. Also, less than an hour away from each other.I want to find my best friend, someone I can share things with, communication is so important in a relationship.I am happy staying home watching a movie or going out and doing things too.I work hard at work. I am not a lazy person. And I like to keep things neat and clean at home too. I have 2 children, my son is 18, in college and my daughter is 21, married and has a son. I would like to try ziplining and snorkeling, they would be fun to do, I might be a little scared to begin with but I think I would enjoy it if I find the right person to go along with :- The water and being outside, a great combination!Thanks for viewing my profile. Good luck in your search!

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