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Chelsea, 43
United States, Minnesota, Sartell

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I was in a twelve year relationship and have been single for over a year. I just want to say that being single isn't bad but dating really sucks...I tried to come up with a classier way to say that but that word just works the best. I had forgotten what it's like to be "out there" not sure if your supposed to call them or let them call you...or how long should you wait before you meet them...or what do you do if your in the middle of a date, having dinner at their house and they go in the bathroom and come out completely naked (I was fully clothed by the way). A little about me physically: I'm TALL....I'm 5'9 without shoes! All my pictures are within the past 2 years and accurately represent me. I don't understand why women OR men put up old, deceiving pictures especially if they plan on meeting the other person. I enjoy traveling and do so often, whether it is other countries or weekend trips. I love good food and drinks (wine, beer, martinis, mixed drinks) I am not picky …..and that did NOT come out right. I just made myself sound like a drunk ;) What I MEANT to say is that I'm open minded and like to try different things. I don't like camping,four- I mean, my idea of camping is staying at a hotel that doesn't have a pool! I am mature enough to know that you guys like to have your time with the boys doing those guy things and that is great. I don't have to "like" everything you like to do but if your wanting your partner/girlfriend to do those things with you then I'm not your girl. On the other hand, if you don't like musicals or sappy chick flicks I won't make you go with me. I try to compromise ;)Good things about me:*I'm a good friend*I am a good girlfriend/partner. I don't lie, cheat, etc. This hasn't gotten me very far but I do believe in treating people how you want to be treated. I do believe in Kharma!*I'm smart but be prepared for occasional blonde moments*I like to joke around and have no problem laughing at myself ...or you...whoever deserves it.*I don't lie unless one of my friends ask me if their ex's new girlfriend is prettier then them.*I'm open to new experiences, life is short and I want to enjoy it.Bad things about me:*I tend to say exactly what I think*I have no problem leaving dishes in the sink overnight.*I have a thing about piles...no, I'm not a hoarder.*I don't like manual labor .....although I usually like the finished product if I do have to "work" (ex. yard work, house work, wash car, etc). It would depend on the person I'm meeting. I like to keep things open .......except please don't get naked unless I ask you too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello, I have been on here on and off, and now back on...hoping some of the goons are gone, scary. My blocked list was longer than my number of messages, lol. I enjoy doing fun things outside, summer is my favorite season. I like camping, swimming away from the boat and to take it all in. I enjoy spending time with my girls, they are first and foremost in my life. I am a simple girl. I enjoy going out when I have studies up to par, I am going to school studying business and being the best I can be. I have children that mean the world to me just need someone in my life to enjoy it all plus the alone times. I have been on the same job for 12 years, so retirement is 18 years away!!! An accomplishment I consider. I have dreams of writing a book of my life, no time like the present, but not time yet or haven't scheduled time to start. I have things I want to learn and do one is learning to play the guitar. I need someone to help but can entertain myself if that "has" to be the case. I am not a materialistic person by no means, so material things do not impress me. Good conversations, and funfilled laughs are always good ;). I appreciate men that are respectable, considerate and knowledgeable of what makes a woman happy, I don't do very well with not much to say. I like to go out and run into friends I haven't seen in awhile. I have every other weekend without my children and one is raised and on her on. The kid free weekend is my time that I like doing spontaneous things, going out with friends, this is my time to date or be with friends. Finding a good match is important to me. I look at pictures, but more so of what is in the back ground. I respect myself and and expect the same. I want to know you first and let you know me to see if it is okay to bring the important factors in the equation, not a rush there at all. I work full-time days and go to school part-time.I am looking for someone that is looking to find a relationship not a hook up. I feel that friendship is important and to have that you must take time to get to know someone to like someone, once you like someone you can take it to another level, if not you have made a friend with no strings. I want to find my male best friend. I want to be someone's remarkable not replaceable. I have been divorced for quite awhile and am ready to spend time with someone. I am pretty independent. Looking to change some of that and "eventually" if the right one comes along grow and make a life with someone special one day. If there is more you would like to know just ask.**********Heads up, if you are not caucasion, I will not respond, please I am very firm on this. I do not have a problem with friends, but I date my own race only.***************************************************Another heads up. PLEASE do not add me as a favorite if you have not even sent me a message. .I feel like your next pin up..and I am not here to be anybody's that.And I do not care to see pictures of your hairline that is not on your noggin. K? Thanks. You can't respect me if you don't respect yourself. Dinner and conversation, or coffee on a Saturday morning. It will not be hanging at your house, sorry I have a few morals:)

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  • Aimey from Sartell | Woman | 45 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi, I am 45 years young! I love to laugh, be silly & have lots of fun. Laughing keeps us young!! I am a free spirit & easy to get along with. I am an honest person, sometimes to honest. I don’t like stress & I don’t wanna deal with liars! I’m not into playing head games. If you are a player, just pass me by!! I love amusement parks, go carts, mini golf, anything exciting really. I work full time, own my own home & car. Family is very important. My mom & sister are my best friends!I love all kinds of music, but, I’m a big 80's fan. lol. I like horror, comedies & suspense movies. I am also a big "supernatural" fan. Anything ghostly, I wanna watch it!!! I am looking for someone who can make me laugh. Someone who is outgoing, who wants to be my best friend. Someone I can talk to & trust. Are you him? So if you are up for an adventure, *** & lets see where it goes. Talking & getting to know each other & we will see where it goes.

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  • Steffanie from Sartell | Woman | 41 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy the outdoors, sports, travel, movies, music, and family time. I am easy going. movie, dinner, walk in the park. just about anything ..as long as conversation there

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