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Chelsea, 43
United States, Minnesota, Sartell

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I was in a twelve year relationship and have been single for over a year. I just want to say that being single isn't bad but dating really sucks...I tried to come up with a classier way to say that but that word just works the best. I had forgotten what it's like to be "out there" not sure if your supposed to call them or let them call you...or how long should you wait before you meet them...or what do you do if your in the middle of a date, having dinner at their house and they go in the bathroom and come out completely naked (I was fully clothed by the way). A little about me physically: I'm TALL....I'm 5'9 without shoes! All my pictures are within the past 2 years and accurately represent me. I don't understand why women OR men put up old, deceiving pictures especially if they plan on meeting the other person. I enjoy traveling and do so often, whether it is other countries or weekend trips. I love good food and drinks (wine, beer, martinis, mixed drinks) I am not picky …..and that did NOT come out right. I just made myself sound like a drunk ;) What I MEANT to say is that I'm open minded and like to try different things. I don't like camping,four- I mean, my idea of camping is staying at a hotel that doesn't have a pool! I am mature enough to know that you guys like to have your time with the boys doing those guy things and that is great. I don't have to "like" everything you like to do but if your wanting your partner/girlfriend to do those things with you then I'm not your girl. On the other hand, if you don't like musicals or sappy chick flicks I won't make you go with me. I try to compromise ;)Good things about me:*I'm a good friend*I am a good girlfriend/partner. I don't lie, cheat, etc. This hasn't gotten me very far but I do believe in treating people how you want to be treated. I do believe in Kharma!*I'm smart but be prepared for occasional blonde moments*I like to joke around and have no problem laughing at myself ...or you...whoever deserves it.*I don't lie unless one of my friends ask me if their ex's new girlfriend is prettier then them.*I'm open to new experiences, life is short and I want to enjoy it.Bad things about me:*I tend to say exactly what I think*I have no problem leaving dishes in the sink overnight.*I have a thing about piles...no, I'm not a hoarder.*I don't like manual labor .....although I usually like the finished product if I do have to "work" (ex. yard work, house work, wash car, etc). It would depend on the person I'm meeting. I like to keep things open .......except please don't get naked unless I ask you too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Vietnamese Drama Fantasy Martial Arts Baseball
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