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Mei, 42
United States, Minnesota, Rushford

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About Me

Hello! I am a classy, open minded, intelligent, independent woman. I enjoy being around fun, outgoing, positive people. I am very passionate about life and have been told that I am a beautiful woman and have an old soul. I'm down to earth, modest and believe the key to any type of successful relationship is open, honest communication. I am respectful, sincere and passionate. I don't "artificially" take care of myself. I believe in yoga, pilates, some strength training and eating healthy to remain looking young and vibrant. Oh, and yes, I'm a real redhead (I seem to get that question a lot). The qualities that I look for when meeting men include intelligence, sophistication, a positive outlook on life, someone considerate, romantic, affectionate and family-oriented. I also prefer men with somewhat of an athletic background or those who are physically active and health conscious. Good communication skills and trust are obviously very important aspects as well. I hope to meet others who are open-minded and enthusiastic and can enlighten my life as I hope to enlighten and inspire that individual. I have a wonderful 19 year old son that I've raised alone for 17 years (by choice) and have spent that time developing an awesome relationship with him. I wanted to give him a life free of a revolving door of men and raise him in a secure and stable environment. I have dated over the years, but have always put my son first. Now that he's off to college I'm looking forward to focusing on myself and my love life! :) A glass of wine and excellent conversation would be ideal. The best end result would be an awesome connection with someone I’m attracted to that is just as attracted to me. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Camping / Hiking Craft Making Play Musical Instrument Canadian French Korean South American
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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

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