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About Me

I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elisabeth

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    **I don't respond to *** users without photos**Avid scuba diver and world traveler. I love diving, exploring and adventure!I'm moderately successful, stable and responsible. I love nice things and going nice places. I love to go out and have a good time with my friends, they're very important to me (although, actually, most of mine don't live here). Family is a priority and I visit them as often as time allows (because, of course, they aren't here either).I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. I love finding new places to eat and drink at. I have animals, please love animals. I'm not a big fan of you tolerating them, but really liking them would be fine. I am a kind and polite person and I appreciate that very much in someone. I like thoughtfulness in a man, it's a sure way to keep my attention. I also like taller men. I'm 5'8" and wear heels often so I'd like to meet someone my height or taller. I dislike facial hair immensely, but if it's generally a temporary thing, or five o'clock shadow, I'm fine with that. Please note: I do NOT date men younger than ***or older than ***. Please don't write to me if you aren't between those ages. Thank you. I also don't answer *** just say 'hello,' 'hi,' or 'how are you?' This is ***, not text messaging. Please let me know a little about you, a sentence or two is all I need. :)I like intelligent, quick witted and sarcastic (not in a mean way) men and am drawn to chivalry and the protective types. I can take care of myself, but it's nice to have someone behind me backing me up. I am a busy person, but make time for the people I care about. I travel a lot and it cuts into personal time, I apologize in advance, but when I am here I have much more time to spend hanging out. I'd like to find someone who understand this. I generally like places where there aren't crowds of people to have a drink and get to know each other.

  • Domitila

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ;I have a good job and I pay my own bills. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy or someone to take care of me or control me.I love traveling, music, movies, reading, family, laughter, passion and spending Sunday evenings cuddling.If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

  • Camelia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am just me! I want to find someone who enjoys life and what it has to offer. I want to work on every part of life as a team. I know everyone has to have time alone, just don't forget about each other when we are not together. I enjoy all kinds of music,my hobbies are well, I love photography and I enjoy going place I have never been, I really enjoy about any type of movie! I love to get out and enjoy the day, but staying home is nice too. I hope to find someone who understands that I am a mom of a 17 year old and I enjoy being with my son and if they don't like him then they don't like me. I do have time on my own, but I am a mom who loves doing the mom stuff! I am back in college, I have a busy life but I find time to have a life! Not much longer till my son will be in college and I will have a better job. So send me a message and let's get to know each other. Firts date would be getting to know each other with no stress on a kiss. If it happens it happens, if not that is fine too. We would maybe see a movie and have a nice dinner, but not too nice. Just a comfortable setting for both of us. We would talk about us and who we are. Just get to know each other and laugh.

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