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About Me

I am more attracted to tall black athletic men, just my preference......I have dated men from meetville before long term, it can work, just be honest . I am single because I am picky. I am told that I am much prettier in person, very laid back and direct. Very rarely do I even find anyone who interests me enough for a second date. I am hoping it is time for that to change :) I dont think we have perfect matches. I think we have chemistry, conversation and the rest is what we make of it. I am really looking for my best friend. My best friend that I call when I have great news, need to cry or just to vent. Is it too much to ask to get butterflies, goosebumps???I need the guy who can show me new things, test my limits, push me harder, someone who can tell me to shut up if my mouth gets out of control...Someone who shows me new views, teaches me new things that I have never experienced.I am looking for a long term relationship, lots of romance.I want a gentlemen, someone who opens the door all the time not just the first few dates, someone who is protective of what they want and have, someone who believes taking care of there family is number one job. I was married 13 years... I know it takes more courage to leave looking for wow than it does to stay and settle for okay.My friends would say that I am fiesty, fun, love to laugh,very passionate, loyal and have no filter. Laughing is so important:)I do not like people who are disrespectful, judgemental or talk down to others. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Pay things forward. Yes I have children however please do not ask about them at first. But...it is important to know the basics of what your getting into. I have a big family by choice.Having a big family is not crazy, busy, stressful or hard, it is a true blessing.I have no Daddy baby drama, we wrote our divorce together. I am not looking for a father for my children but a positive role model. Lastly,I hate drama and I am not here to play games. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Say what you mean and do what you say,even it is simple as a phone call. It is not about the phone call it is about your word. I believe men do the pursuing..old fashion yes but my beliefs. I need the guy who is going to step up and set himself aside from the rest.If you want to know something, then ask. I dont believe in a pre-conceived "this is who I am." I am alot of things and I could tell you but I would rather show you.MUST BE BETWEEN ***I HATE BS, THUGS OR PLAYERS - DO YOURSELF A FAVOR MOVE ONNO BABY DRAMANO JEALOUSY ISSUES OR CONTROL FREAKSMUST HAVE A JOB, CAR, OWN PLACEMUST NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP, SEPERATED OR THINKING ABOUT LEAVING CURRENT GIRLFRIEND Establish chemistry, move forward. Chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Essie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a honest fun loving, loyal hard working person. I have been in the medical field for 25 yrs. I am a very independent person. I have two great kids ages 15 and 17. I am just looking for happiness. I prefer the country life but currently living in the city! I like anything outdoorsCamping, bbqing, going to the lake, walking the dogs at the park, riding horses.I am a very simple person, not high maintenancebut my nail and toes are always painted! Lol Drinks, coffee, bowling, dinner

  • Nancy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am easy going and enjoy trying new things. I can be shy at first but will open up more as I get to know you. I enjoy traveling and exploring new areas. I like hanging out and watching football. I like to spend a lot of time outdoors when the weather is nice. Wineries are one of my favorite places to check out. My friends say I am easy to get to know. If you want to know more about me, all you have to do is ask. Something about me that is interesting is that I do ride a motorcycle. I like to try a lot of things and sometimes I enjoy them so much I keep doing it - like riding the motorcycle.I am looking for someone who is honest and loyal. Someone who knows themselves and what they want. I am not into playing relationship games. I want someone to share my time with and to have great conversations with. I am looking for the gentleman that understands that little things are sometimes better than big things. Basically it comes down to laughter, adventure, trust and conversations. However, you must have a car and a job!Please understand that I am not on this site to "get busy" on the first date. I do not do one night stands therefore I am NOT looking for hookups. I am interested in finding someone that I can spend time with and get to know. Ah the first date! Since I like trying new places, I would like you to come up with something interesting. I am a go with the flow kind of person. I am not a coffee drinker so a date to Starbucks or any coffee shop would not interest me.Otherwise I am open to suggestions and look forward to hearing what we can do together.

  • Jacqulyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Let me say right from the get go, if you are extremely sensitive, easily offended and/or can't take a joke you will NOT want to talk to me. If there is something below that offends you, you don't need to send a message and tell me...why waste your time?If I won the lottery I'd go take some of those extreme driving classes. Driving stupid fast is SO appealing...right? Smash-!! Be-still my beating heart! I have a few incredible friends who have held my hand through some seriously challenging life events. I am grateful. My friends are important to meI am looking for an honest to goodness relationship. Don't worry though, I won't fall into obsession with you or ask you to buy me stuff on our first meeting nor will I want to move in with you after 3 dates. You'll do me the same courtesy.I'm smart, funny, and a total individual. My sense of humor is SHARP. I'm quick with the comebacks. And I can take a joke. I'm also pretty sarcastic.I'm not perfect, never will be and I don't try anymore. That said, I still have preferences when it comes to physical attraction (like yourself, I'm sure). I like a thin build and I like guys who are taller than me.Oh yeah....I started smoking again...sigh. Hit the "reset" button (if only). 4 days, no smoking. After work drink(s). We can arrange our possible "emergency phone call" ahead of time.

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