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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Black Men Only Please - don't send hate mail it's just a preference and we all have them.I'm back to give this another shot and to see if I can find someone with similar interests and goals. Just looking for someone real who knows what he wants and is past the game-playing stage in life.Good person just looking for the same, prefer someone local. I believe first dates come after initial meetings to see if two people have the right vibe to move forward in getting to know each other.

  • Kathleen

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    This site is begining to piss me off!! Just because I am not a size "0" does that mean I am not active!!! I walk 3-! I am not superficial or materalistic. Your toys do NOT impress me!! I am a damn good woman with a big heart and I know how to take care of my man! If you do not have a car/job or your looking for a women to support you...Please, do not waste my time. I've raised my children and now I'm looking for someone for me.. I'm looking for someone who is not afraid to try something new/different. Someone I feel comfortable around. I love to fish:) I can fish for hours(I suck at it but I try). I like all genres of music with R&B being my fave. I have learned over the years it's just as important for men to receive compliments, a kiss out of the blue or a nice compliment. Women tend to forget that and that is why I feel marriages fail..but that's me! I want a "crash my party" kinda relationship(both parties) I want a relationship that never dulls or becomes repetitious. . Honestly... I would love to try Dave and Busters,lol..Hey it's open and if we don't hit it off, we can still have fun. I'm the kind of women who pretty much makes herself at home wherever I am...

  • Meagan

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a fun loving person. I have not had any luck in past relationships cause I just havent met the right one yet. I like going out to eat an a movie and enjoy staying indoors to cuddle an watch movies. I don't travel a lot never had a reason to but I would love to start. I love to read and I love sports inside and outside. I spend lots of time with my oldest 2 granbabies my youngest one lives out of town so not able to see him everyday. I love R&B, classic rock, some country. Go out to the movies an eat. I am open to anything reasonable. I just want to meet someone that likes sports, walks in the park, just stay at home with a movie or just set an talk. I am a very shy person till you get to know me.

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