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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Beatris

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I hate that I'm back on here but what the hell....lol. I have mainly dated black men, but I am attracted to other races... It's just a preference like someone who prefers red heads....For me, I'm not really interested in what color u are or ur financial status, I'm more interested in u as a person, if we have a connection and how u make me feel. I'm not trying to rush into anything, but I would like to get to know u and move towards something meaningful and long term at some point. I love to laugh and have a good time. Love is not a color! We should all be free to love who makes YOU happy! God loves us ALL and created us all EQUAL...PERIOD! And if for some reason u have a problem with it please don't be rude and immature and message me mean and unkind statements, just find a way to get over it and move on. Thank u...God bless and happy fishing!!! :) Thanx for listening to me ramble on...lol! :-P Coffee, dinner, or drinks....whatever sounds fun....

  • Jesica

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Black Men Only Please - don't send hate mail it's just a preference and we all have them.I'm back to give this another shot and to see if I can find someone with similar interests and goals. Just looking for someone real who knows what he wants and is past the game-playing stage in life.Good person just looking for the same, prefer someone local. I believe first dates come after initial meetings to see if two people have the right vibe to move forward in getting to know each other.

  • Cuc

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mother in which my children live with there dad. My parents live here as well and I very into my family. I want to eventually have a committed relationship but for now want to date and enjoy the single life and meet new people. I love to dance any type of music. I am a member in a biker group, I just ride I have no bike yet! I go out mostly with my parents and love people and lots of conversation.. Just a NOTE: I am not on this site to meet and greet with benefits for you nor, me! So if you are interested in online or even in person want to dirty talk or use this to prospect for sex, PLEASE DO NOT message me because I am not on here for that reason and I will report you!! End of Story!! On a first date I would like to maybe go have dinner and a few drinks. Maybe even dance a little and just learn more about one another.

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