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Shamika, 42
United States, Minnesota, Rosemount

Offline, last seen Sat, 28 Feb 2026 02:36:31

About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Claramay from Rosemount | Woman | 44 years old | Gemini
    Claramay

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I've tried this before. I am a hopeless romantic .not sure what will happen out this I just know I'm not into games..o my god are we serious I've redone this so many times but my phone has a mind of its own lol ok here it is I don't cheat,I don't lie,I don't do drama, I don't want ur money and yes I don't just want sex .I was married for 23 years divorce now for 6,7 years I'm not counting..my kids are grown I have two grandkids that are my world I work hard and my heart is full of gold family and honesty is the biggest with me.I laugh allot I don't know if anything comes of this but time will tell I and haven't gotten on here much so if it takes me a minute to respond don't take it personally.. Well I was on this site 2 years ago got so frustrated that I deleted it. And at this moment I'm deleting this from my phone now .guys in here don't want anything more than to have sex will I can do that fine all on my own without the lies and bull sh*tsomething how every says give this a chance all men are not short version dogs no one wants someone loyal,honest a heart of gold someone that would hold her man on the highest of her world so many of u mess it up for the guy that just could be the one so as of today Oct.***I'm deleting from my phone I think if something is meant to happen it will I guess a part of me doesn't want to delete this account just yet .so the only way I get a message is if I get that wild hair up my ass to long on to my computer but as far as now u guys are a piece of work.(Just saying) good luck on all of u searches.

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  • Faviola from Rosemount | Woman | 45 years old | Sagittarius
    Faviola

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I do have photos to share, just had a bad experience, I totally understand you would like to see who you are chatting with :) Goes both ways :)This is what I am looking for;Balance, Communication, Someone that can just look at me and know what I need, either just a hug or a kissHe does the little things, like laugh at my own made up jokes, or me at hisHe has a soft sensitive side and appreciates the littles thingsWe can cook together having funHe does the shopping I make the lists lol (as I dont like to shop, would rather do the cleaning)He is not cheap but likes to look for bargains and spend in the right areasHe doesnt yell but like to sit down and talk and is willing to listenHas a romantic sideLoves those who are special to him and animalsAppreciates a lady for her feminine side as well as her Tom Boy sideHolds me when I need to cry Holds hands when we go out and not afraid to show affectionLets make this very simple, honestly have not done the dating thing much, was attached for a long time, I am not looking to waste anyone's as I am sure you don't want yours wasted either, chemistry is either there or not, dating for me is stressful, lets keep it simple and go from there, I have been on my own for 4 years, I gotten a chance to know what I do want and need, I am intelligent educated sexy and funny , just me, don't want to change you either, if we click lets just see what happensI am attracted to men that smell sexy, can communicate, are sensual, know what they like and need. A good kisser, who loves to hold hands and not afraid to show affection. I am willing to make my special someone feel special and wanted, just want the same in return. I amnon judgemental, as we all have our own experience teaches us the lessons we need to move forward. Bald men are sexy too, nice lips and romantic, an open heart is very attractive to me, someone that can laugh and be mooshy at the same time. Someone I can laugh with be my best friend lover and partner.Also if you don't love animals, family or kids you are not for me I prefer pubs over clubs, and not looking to be a booty call, although I do believe sexual compatibility is just as important as everything else. :) I am funny can laugh at myself, and wake up happy every morning, no drama and stress just very simple. I am a lady, smell nice, but dont mind being a tom boy when it comes to being in the outdoors. Fishing Camping walks, romance and appreciate the little things, I am simple non materialistic and looking for a low maintenance man. I have two daughters, not with me as they are older, its my time now, , I don't want to have any more kids but don't mind if you have kids :)Open to more if its there :) Open Minded Considerate, Affectionate, Giving and a Warm Heart!!!!!Happy Fishing Everyone!!!! I am willing to wait for the right one for me, life is too short to waste time or too settleQuote I received from a friend today oh so true:My response to Life will show,What emotions need to go,So on my path the Light will shine,The fear of failure no longer mine! Lets decide that together

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  • Alisa from Rosemount | Woman | 41 years old | Gemini
    Alisa

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im a lil bit country and a lil bit rock and roll. if ur in need of finacial support ,need a momma, or consider yourself the center of the universe. cruise on. This is relative to individual. Never Know!

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