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Shamika, 42

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About Me

Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Claramay

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I've tried this before. I am a hopeless romantic .not sure what will happen out this I just know I'm not into games..o my god are we serious I've redone this so many times but my phone has a mind of its own lol ok here it is I don't cheat,I don't lie,I don't do drama, I don't want ur money and yes I don't just want sex .I was married for 23 years divorce now for 6,7 years I'm not counting..my kids are grown I have two grandkids that are my world I work hard and my heart is full of gold family and honesty is the biggest with me.I laugh allot I don't know if anything comes of this but time will tell I and haven't gotten on here much so if it takes me a minute to respond don't take it personally.. Well I was on this site 2 years ago got so frustrated that I deleted it. And at this moment I'm deleting this from my phone now .guys in here don't want anything more than to have sex will I can do that fine all on my own without the lies and bull sh*tsomething how every says give this a chance all men are not short version dogs no one wants someone loyal,honest a heart of gold someone that would hold her man on the highest of her world so many of u mess it up for the guy that just could be the one so as of today Oct.***I'm deleting from my phone I think if something is meant to happen it will I guess a part of me doesn't want to delete this account just yet .so the only way I get a message is if I get that wild hair up my ass to long on to my computer but as far as now u guys are a piece of work.(Just saying) good luck on all of u searches.

  • Lorrine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a mother of two great kids who are both grown. My daughter is in her first year of college and my son is in his 3rd, so while they are out building their own lives. It gives me a little more time to focus on me. What I'm looking for is pretty simple, someone that I just enjoy spending time with. That's doesn't sound so difficult but apparently it is!!! However, I still remain cautiously optimistic of the online dating world. Good Luck !! Something where we would both feel comfortable and be able to show our true selves, and if we hit it off great if not hey maybe we make a new friend.

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