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Oscar, 45

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About Me

Well I am going to give this a try and see if my special someone is on this website...A couple of years ago i decided to better myself and went back to college; I am at a point in my life where I really want to enjoy life, be happy, but I'm missing someone to enjoy life with.I'm the mother of Three Amazing Kids. 2 boys, 1 girl. My girl is my Baby, 17 and growing into a beautiful young lady. My oldest is my Pastor, he is 22 and on fire for God and my middle child 19 and aspiring comedian who is wonderful.Looking for a gentleman, who knows how to treat a woman right.. Trustworthy, honest, faithful, stable and secure. Someone who is ready to enjoy life. Men, I am not a booty call and don't want the games.. If that is what you are interested in or on here to just to play around.. keep looking.. I am not interested. First dates are always so stressful and nervous, so maybe something simple where we can talk and get to know each other.. Lets talk and go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Payton

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am contradiction ... I am a sophisticated lady and still a playful child, angelic yet devilish. I'm kind, sweet, stubborn and sarcastic. I'm quiet and shy but seldom meet a stranger. I hate not knowing but I love surprises. I'm a city chick and a country gal, I have a fiend for shoes but I love to be barefoot. Easygoing but opinionated, drunk but sober, care too much what others think yet not afraid to be myself. I carry myself with grace and confidence, some days I can be a total klutz. I am a girly girl that doesn't mind if I get dirt under my manicured nails. I don't believe in the fairy tale but I do know my happily ever after is out there waiting!I am an absolute contradiction... It can be hard for people to get a good read of who I am and I don't mind this at all. I do not let people into my life very easily, but the people I do I am friends with forever. I share very little yet I share quite a lot. I look innocent but always seem to surprise people. I'm very serious, yet laugh all the time. I am contemplative yet verbal. I love being outside yet can curl up inside with a book for days. I forgive easily but I never forget. I am like two sides of a coin, the dark and the light. Both are completely and legitimately me, it's just that one does not necessarily give any indication of the other. I don't deny any part of myself, I just don't share it with everyone.... but you're darn lucky if you see it! Thoughts change, I am changing person, I am a breathing chameleon, there is more to me than just one color, one thought, one track. So I contradict all the time. I may sound complicated or wishy washy but I'm actually very straight forward and simple. None of us wear the same mood, personality, or energy ***...we all contradict. I am looking for... Someone who is kind and honest. A good man with strong morals and values. Must be fit and active to keep up with me! A gentleman that appreciates getting dressed up on occasions and always takes pride in his appearance. I want a man that is adventurous and intelligent, playful and serious. Someone who will keep me on my toes and challenges me to be better. Someone who is like minded as me, that shares the same heart and falls for me from the inside out. Someone with a great sense of humor that keeps me laughing and knows that the smile on my face is just for him. I want to know unconditional love, untamed passion and a never ending friendship. I want a relationship that is emotionally intense, yet I want a relationship that is easy-going and relaxed. I want a person that loves me and can't live without me, I want to feel the same for him, however I don't want either of us to feel chained down or lose our individualism. I guess a lot of us settle for the safe kind of love, where you know you will have someone’s arms to return to at the end of the day. Where you know your heart is safe. I'm not settling. Deep down inside (somewhere we avoid going to), I think all of us crave for the type of love that tears us apart and messes with our mind. No, I am not talking about the emotionally destructive sort of relationships (or am I?) . What I mean is... I think all of us secretly want to push our limits, test our boundaries and lose ourselves in the intensity and passion of here and now because we only really have the NOW don't we? We want to be kept on the edge. (Yet we want to feel safe and secure in the knowledge that we will not spend the rest of our lives lonely and brokenhearted.) It is so hard to strike a balance. because why would I want a relationship that doesn’t bleed me dry? Then again, why would I want a relationship that bleeds me dry?All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope. All the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, there's someone perfect who might be searching for us. Love heightens our senses..reminds us that we are still alive, keeps our heart beating and longing as well as completely vulnerable. In the end, our body will age, our soul will be bruised and can't take the roller coaster ride anymore. For me, I am looking for an experience that is intoxicating, constant, changing, chasing, exploring and very similar to two *** a beautiful song together...Because it is a song, it is not safe, it can't be relaxed and you have to keep up with each other, and with a direction. Something outdoors would be great! Quiet dinner, ball game, lunch at my favorite winery, red dirt roads and a cold beverage... Basically anywhere that we can talk, listen, learn, share, laugh... see if we connect. Good luck to everyone I hope we all find what we are seeking.

  • Cuc

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a single mother in which my children live with there dad. My parents live here as well and I very into my family. I want to eventually have a committed relationship but for now want to date and enjoy the single life and meet new people. I love to dance any type of music. I am a member in a biker group, I just ride I have no bike yet! I go out mostly with my parents and love people and lots of conversation.. Just a NOTE: I am not on this site to meet and greet with benefits for you nor, me! So if you are interested in online or even in person want to dirty talk or use this to prospect for sex, PLEASE DO NOT message me because I am not on here for that reason and I will report you!! End of Story!! On a first date I would like to maybe go have dinner and a few drinks. Maybe even dance a little and just learn more about one another.

  • Devona

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a very simple person. I enjoy all outdoors activities, camping hiking fishing. I like most types of music but I have to say I love my country. I love to go line dancing. I like to laugh and just enjoy life, I have no time for drama , games or BS. I am looking for someone who is stable,knows what they want in life,someone who likes to laugh and have fun you only live once. I am very romantic I believe all the little things you do make a big difference. If you would like to know more about me send me a msgAnd please don't call me baby or sweetheart. Its a cheesy way to get my attention. Be more respectful. And if you're gonna hit the meet me feature. At least talk when a msg is sent to you. Just sayin... Somewhere, where both of us can enjoy eachothers company....

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