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Hello fellas,I'm just peeking in, curious, ready to get back out there - but NOT in "the" or any "game". I would be wonderful to connect with a special someone, via friendship and good old fashioned courtship, in good time. You don't have to throw your cape in the mud, but if you open my door, I will notice. And will reciprocate in possibly some new and wonderful ways, given this somewhat lacking (in manners) culture we live in.Born in So. Cal, my folks raised me with Midwestern values. I waive at passing cars, make eye contact (sometimes uncomfortably, I think, given I am let's say a "good reader of thoughts") and believe that the mom and pop shops are worth my extra hard-earned dollars. I like paper, but prefer a strong handshake from a person I can trust.I'm a single mother, so my priorities are straight and directed with deep intention to show my child what a mature loving partnership looks like. Do you love nature, animals and children under 6? Hope so.Mustn't be afraid of garlic as I am addicted to it. I will try to feed you kale, sorry, but I will. I'm curvy, a couple extra pounds but only because I don't have a hike mate and may have a glass of wine where I could be kissing someone deeply. They will go, promise. I am not an uber jock, though, and don't aspire to have a 6 pack (well, I wouldn't turn down yours) so if you are a triathelete looking for a running partner, that really isn't me. Horseback riding, dancing, Cowles Mt...?Taurus woman here, so if you are an airy-fairy worldwide traveler, ungrounded non-committal type, you may feel me ball and chainy. But I'm not. In fact, you must take me dancing 1x a month or I will let someone else. You can have your freedom, I am not attracted to a man who is clingy or underfoot. I have a life, a wonderful life. Attractive comes from the heart, so I am not going to say what you must look like, but I do feel that taking care of the body is a great way to show Love...love for your partner, of self, and gratitude for being given the incredible vehicle that you have. I prefer not to outweigh my man, ha.Oh, and you don't need to be a rocket-scientist (though I adore all things sci!) but please be super capable of catching blazing zingers. If they whiz overhead, I won't stick. Spirituality? Rumi, baby. Nature is my church. I'm sure I will tweak this profile a good many times before I land, but know, I am in no hurry. I have been married, loved it, and am now excited to see what other configuration Love can find me in. I am not certain I will ever marry again, and I am totally satisfied with my one, incredible child, so, no more out of my body. You may have kids and that will factor in somehow...I don't know how, yet.If you have good teeth, I find that irresistible. Odd, huh? Mine are pretty nice, though I don't use chems to turn them opaque like most. Guess I should mention I have been described as "crunchy, organic, earthy" so if you, say, ingest saccharin of any sort, I will assume your life to be abridged and probably choose to "attach" otherwise. Want to know when I hit "DELETE"?:Please also save the "gift" If you favorite me, but never send a note, I will just guess you are gathering courage to address scary, intimidating me, ha.If you offer simplistic greetings like "Hi, how are you?"; please offer some conversation to illustrate you have SOME genuine interest in getting to know me as opposed to broadcasting (who gets the pun there?).Sooper pour gramer meens wii realee won connect ***I love the male bod, don't get me wrong, but a strong mind is your hottest part. And mine. Whip out your 25 cent words, boys. Pushy, rushy, impatient, ugh. Thanks for checking in, gentlemen. I hope this search lands us all in the Loving spaces with the supportive partners we crave. "D"***IMPORTANT UPDATE***I don't know WHAT buttons I hit on the Personality Test that says I am LOW on Family Orientation (I am as HIGH as they come on that SCALE) and sorry, I also scored LOW on SELF-CONTROL which is simply NOT TRUE. You can leave an unwrapped gift in my closet for a year and I won't peek, ever. Pints of ice cream rot in my freezer. I am oddly HIGH in both of these arenas and am looking to correct it. Sheesh. At first, I appreciate some *** personal/free/alone time is precious to me and I don't want to spend it on preliminary chit-chat. Let's establish a mutual agreement that we even WANT to meet for coffee and go from there. Can we?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lula

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am ME...which makes me unique!!! I'm silly, outgoing, corky, fun, and love to make new friends wherever I go. I love to laugh and make others laugh...I feel a nice smile warms the heart and soul. Absolutely love music of all genres, i simply love to dance especially 80's new wave/dark wave!!! I enjoy going to concerts/shows, going to movies or BBQ with family and friends. I work with toddlers/children with special needs and very much enjoy my job but at the end of the day I can be a little goofy...definitely in need of adult conversation. I like a first date to be simple and not to over the top...you want to be able to look forward to the next date if all goes well. It should definitely be somewhere where two people can hear each other talk and see if there is any chemistry!!!

  • Abbye

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    BIG BOOTY WHITE GIRL... I can be shy initially, but once comfortable with someone, I can open up & be a goofball. Looking for someone who can make me laugh a LOT! I'm loyal and if I believe in something strongly, I fight for it. That's the passionate Scorpio in me. I am looking for my "soulmate". Chemistry is the key. That thing that is hard to explain but you know it when you've got it kind of thing. I have six tattoos. I have two boys, ages 24 & 19 who do not live with me. I have a weird sense of humor, & well it can be raunchy at times. My favorite color is purple, I love to work on crossword puzzles & sudokus. I am a leftie, my eyes are two different shades & I have an outie belly button. LOL. Is that TMI??; open to relocating to any warm climate area for Mr. Right.! I prefer to do outdoor activities & would love to do things like swimming, boating, water skiing (must learn how first), camping, chilling on the beach & enjoying the sunset. I love to shoot pool, bowling, movies, dancing, or just hanging out at home watching a movie together in bed. I also like playing cards, dominoes, miniature golf. Used to play volleyball and softball on a church league. We lost every game but we had fun so it's all good!I LOVE LOVE LOVE music, Favorite song right now is Simply Amazing by Trey Songz. See?Looking for a SINGLE HONEST man that is done playing games. I would love to find an intelligent, faithful, loving God-fearing man that LOVES to cook! I'm looking for that ONE guy. The one I connect with. The one I can talk to all day about anything and loose track of time. The one that can put me in my place when I'm wrong. The one that can take charge and BE the man. That is very sexy...My match would definitely be outgoing, to compliment my natural quiet nature. Looking for someone to have stimulating conversation with. It's okay that we don't see eye to eye on every subject as that would just be boring! I am interested in someone who is not afraid to discuss their feelings & thoughts. Someone who can be romantic at times, someone who loves to show affection & receive it. I want a man who likes to go on ADVENTURES!!! Any kind will do! Maybe at the drop of a hat go away for the weekend and do something fun or travel overseas & EXPLORE!!! Very importantly he has to LOVE a woman with meat on her bones. I would love to go to a football game or basketball game or hockey game or boxing match or whatever. I love sports and very willing to do those things with my man!I'm not looking for someone to solve all my problems. I'm looking for someone who won't let me face them alone.";. Bob MarleyThe strength of a man isn't in how many women he's loved. It's in how true he can be to the ONE woman he's trying to love.Finding someone who's worth waking up to is better than finding someone to sleep with.Every man needs a woman when his life is a mess, because just like in a game of chess; the QUEEN protects the KING. Anything fun!

  • Ursella

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a down to earth lady that works hard, but still likes to play like a kid. I enjoy all kinds of music, and can easily get caught up in the "feel" of music. It's not so much the lyrics...but the mood of the music that usually captures my attention. I like reading, hanging out by a lake, camping and hiking. I'm the type of person that would rather be outdoors, *** indoors. Laughter is so important, as well as family and friends. I can say with confidence, and pride, you probably haven't run into many that think like me. I keep claiming that my warped personality is hereditary...I HAVE to get some better pictures to post! This is a tough one. I truly can't specify what a "first date" should be, since it would depend on the person...but casual is a MUST. I know that's not helpful, but it's accurate. Before any date, I'd like a chance to talk...whether over the phone or face-to-face.

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