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Hello fellas,I'm just peeking in, curious, ready to get back out there - but NOT in "the" or any "game". I would be wonderful to connect with a special someone, via friendship and good old fashioned courtship, in good time. You don't have to throw your cape in the mud, but if you open my door, I will notice. And will reciprocate in possibly some new and wonderful ways, given this somewhat lacking (in manners) culture we live in.Born in So. Cal, my folks raised me with Midwestern values. I waive at passing cars, make eye contact (sometimes uncomfortably, I think, given I am let's say a "good reader of thoughts") and believe that the mom and pop shops are worth my extra hard-earned dollars. I like paper, but prefer a strong handshake from a person I can trust.I'm a single mother, so my priorities are straight and directed with deep intention to show my child what a mature loving partnership looks like. Do you love nature, animals and children under 6? Hope so.Mustn't be afraid of garlic as I am addicted to it. I will try to feed you kale, sorry, but I will. I'm curvy, a couple extra pounds but only because I don't have a hike mate and may have a glass of wine where I could be kissing someone deeply. They will go, promise. I am not an uber jock, though, and don't aspire to have a 6 pack (well, I wouldn't turn down yours) so if you are a triathelete looking for a running partner, that really isn't me. Horseback riding, dancing, Cowles Mt...?Taurus woman here, so if you are an airy-fairy worldwide traveler, ungrounded non-committal type, you may feel me ball and chainy. But I'm not. In fact, you must take me dancing 1x a month or I will let someone else. You can have your freedom, I am not attracted to a man who is clingy or underfoot. I have a life, a wonderful life. Attractive comes from the heart, so I am not going to say what you must look like, but I do feel that taking care of the body is a great way to show Love...love for your partner, of self, and gratitude for being given the incredible vehicle that you have. I prefer not to outweigh my man, ha.Oh, and you don't need to be a rocket-scientist (though I adore all things sci!) but please be super capable of catching blazing zingers. If they whiz overhead, I won't stick. Spirituality? Rumi, baby. Nature is my church. I'm sure I will tweak this profile a good many times before I land, but know, I am in no hurry. I have been married, loved it, and am now excited to see what other configuration Love can find me in. I am not certain I will ever marry again, and I am totally satisfied with my one, incredible child, so, no more out of my body. You may have kids and that will factor in somehow...I don't know how, yet.If you have good teeth, I find that irresistible. Odd, huh? Mine are pretty nice, though I don't use chems to turn them opaque like most. Guess I should mention I have been described as "crunchy, organic, earthy" so if you, say, ingest saccharin of any sort, I will assume your life to be abridged and probably choose to "attach" otherwise. Want to know when I hit "DELETE"?:Please also save the "gift" If you favorite me, but never send a note, I will just guess you are gathering courage to address scary, intimidating me, ha.If you offer simplistic greetings like "Hi, how are you?"; please offer some conversation to illustrate you have SOME genuine interest in getting to know me as opposed to broadcasting (who gets the pun there?).Sooper pour gramer meens wii realee won connect ***I love the male bod, don't get me wrong, but a strong mind is your hottest part. And mine. Whip out your 25 cent words, boys. Pushy, rushy, impatient, ugh. Thanks for checking in, gentlemen. I hope this search lands us all in the Loving spaces with the supportive partners we crave. "D"***IMPORTANT UPDATE***I don't know WHAT buttons I hit on the Personality Test that says I am LOW on Family Orientation (I am as HIGH as they come on that SCALE) and sorry, I also scored LOW on SELF-CONTROL which is simply NOT TRUE. You can leave an unwrapped gift in my closet for a year and I won't peek, ever. Pints of ice cream rot in my freezer. I am oddly HIGH in both of these arenas and am looking to correct it. Sheesh. At first, I appreciate some *** personal/free/alone time is precious to me and I don't want to spend it on preliminary chit-chat. Let's establish a mutual agreement that we even WANT to meet for coffee and go from there. Can we?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Deirdre

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I just want people to write me that are serious about getting to know me. If we start talking and you decide you DONT want to talk anymore then just tell me. Dont just stop talking out of the blue. It is hurtful and childish. Im a fun loving and very caring woman. Tired of getting hurt.I I think this is hard to describe myself! I am a single mother of two teenagers. One is in college and one is driving now. I love to do just about everything! From deer hunting, fishing, hiking, golfing, gardening, to staying in for movies, going to the theater, or maybe even art shows! I can listen to just about any kind of music, but not very fond of any rap hahaha Rock, bluegrass, Christian rock, country...its all good!I design jewelry for a living for a local jewelry store. I use a CAD CAM program and also do a lot of hand carving. Another job I enjoy is making quilts for friends and customers. Either starting from scratch, or if they have a quilt top done I can finish it with the quilting for them! I love to play poker, although Im alittle rusty at the moment! I want to learn to play my fiddle but havnt found a good teacher yet. I like to go out and hang with lots of friends. I have a few tattoos, and sometimes talk like a sailor haha (not too much) :)I just really love to have fun, and laugh A LOT. I want someone who is not afraid to act alittle crazy, and maybe even enjoy going to church sometimes! Scary movies, cooking at home, and having some wine! I own my own home and two cars and I dont need anyone to help me. Im just looking for someone to hang out with and maybe someday fall head over heals! I marked that I just want to date but who knows if it could turn into more! I dont know what a good first date is! Someone will have to show me!

  • Nancy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am easy going and enjoy trying new things. I can be shy at first but will open up more as I get to know you. I enjoy traveling and exploring new areas. I like hanging out and watching football. I like to spend a lot of time outdoors when the weather is nice. Wineries are one of my favorite places to check out. My friends say I am easy to get to know. If you want to know more about me, all you have to do is ask. Something about me that is interesting is that I do ride a motorcycle. I like to try a lot of things and sometimes I enjoy them so much I keep doing it - like riding the motorcycle.I am looking for someone who is honest and loyal. Someone who knows themselves and what they want. I am not into playing relationship games. I want someone to share my time with and to have great conversations with. I am looking for the gentleman that understands that little things are sometimes better than big things. Basically it comes down to laughter, adventure, trust and conversations. However, you must have a car and a job!Please understand that I am not on this site to "get busy" on the first date. I do not do one night stands therefore I am NOT looking for hookups. I am interested in finding someone that I can spend time with and get to know. Ah the first date! Since I like trying new places, I would like you to come up with something interesting. I am a go with the flow kind of person. I am not a coffee drinker so a date to Starbucks or any coffee shop would not interest me.Otherwise I am open to suggestions and look forward to hearing what we can do together.

  • Zaria

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'd love to meet someone who wants a great dating relationship. If it goes somewhere great. No pressure. I like hanging out with friends, going out to movies, staying in, and doing new things. I'm a talker....and a pretty lgood listener. Then again I can share a quiet night, also. Bonfires, long walks, working out, trips to Chi town, weekend getaways are things I enjoy. White Sox, too.I'm in the middle of a career change...almost done with my associates degree... Computer aided drafting. I love how life keeps changing! I love my kids, no doubt! I'm looking for a man with a great smile who uses it often! Public affection....kinda think that's sexy. Swearing in front of my mother...NOT! Meeting your friends...awesome! Helps to get to know you.....meeting my friends...great as long as you don't hold them against me! Love meeting new people. Can't have enough friends. I guess one of my goals here is to find the other half I'm supposed to be with. If you are really shy....I'm not your gal. If you love to laugh and are outgoing, sexy but family orientated, too...maybe you're the one? Drop me a note....no really.....drop me a note! Coffee, favorite hang out, dinner. Something with a little fun thrown in!

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