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Hello fellas,I'm just peeking in, curious, ready to get back out there - but NOT in "the" or any "game". I would be wonderful to connect with a special someone, via friendship and good old fashioned courtship, in good time. You don't have to throw your cape in the mud, but if you open my door, I will notice. And will reciprocate in possibly some new and wonderful ways, given this somewhat lacking (in manners) culture we live in.Born in So. Cal, my folks raised me with Midwestern values. I waive at passing cars, make eye contact (sometimes uncomfortably, I think, given I am let's say a "good reader of thoughts") and believe that the mom and pop shops are worth my extra hard-earned dollars. I like paper, but prefer a strong handshake from a person I can trust.I'm a single mother, so my priorities are straight and directed with deep intention to show my child what a mature loving partnership looks like. Do you love nature, animals and children under 6? Hope so.Mustn't be afraid of garlic as I am addicted to it. I will try to feed you kale, sorry, but I will. I'm curvy, a couple extra pounds but only because I don't have a hike mate and may have a glass of wine where I could be kissing someone deeply. They will go, promise. I am not an uber jock, though, and don't aspire to have a 6 pack (well, I wouldn't turn down yours) so if you are a triathelete looking for a running partner, that really isn't me. Horseback riding, dancing, Cowles Mt...?Taurus woman here, so if you are an airy-fairy worldwide traveler, ungrounded non-committal type, you may feel me ball and chainy. But I'm not. In fact, you must take me dancing 1x a month or I will let someone else. You can have your freedom, I am not attracted to a man who is clingy or underfoot. I have a life, a wonderful life. Attractive comes from the heart, so I am not going to say what you must look like, but I do feel that taking care of the body is a great way to show Love...love for your partner, of self, and gratitude for being given the incredible vehicle that you have. I prefer not to outweigh my man, ha.Oh, and you don't need to be a rocket-scientist (though I adore all things sci!) but please be super capable of catching blazing zingers. If they whiz overhead, I won't stick. Spirituality? Rumi, baby. Nature is my church. I'm sure I will tweak this profile a good many times before I land, but know, I am in no hurry. I have been married, loved it, and am now excited to see what other configuration Love can find me in. I am not certain I will ever marry again, and I am totally satisfied with my one, incredible child, so, no more out of my body. You may have kids and that will factor in somehow...I don't know how, yet.If you have good teeth, I find that irresistible. Odd, huh? Mine are pretty nice, though I don't use chems to turn them opaque like most. Guess I should mention I have been described as "crunchy, organic, earthy" so if you, say, ingest saccharin of any sort, I will assume your life to be abridged and probably choose to "attach" otherwise. Want to know when I hit "DELETE"?:Please also save the "gift" If you favorite me, but never send a note, I will just guess you are gathering courage to address scary, intimidating me, ha.If you offer simplistic greetings like "Hi, how are you?"; please offer some conversation to illustrate you have SOME genuine interest in getting to know me as opposed to broadcasting (who gets the pun there?).Sooper pour gramer meens wii realee won connect ***I love the male bod, don't get me wrong, but a strong mind is your hottest part. And mine. Whip out your 25 cent words, boys. Pushy, rushy, impatient, ugh. Thanks for checking in, gentlemen. I hope this search lands us all in the Loving spaces with the supportive partners we crave. "D"***IMPORTANT UPDATE***I don't know WHAT buttons I hit on the Personality Test that says I am LOW on Family Orientation (I am as HIGH as they come on that SCALE) and sorry, I also scored LOW on SELF-CONTROL which is simply NOT TRUE. You can leave an unwrapped gift in my closet for a year and I won't peek, ever. Pints of ice cream rot in my freezer. I am oddly HIGH in both of these arenas and am looking to correct it. Sheesh. At first, I appreciate some *** personal/free/alone time is precious to me and I don't want to spend it on preliminary chit-chat. Let's establish a mutual agreement that we even WANT to meet for coffee and go from there. Can we?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Meriwether

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hard to choose just one type of personality to describe myself. But I will choose adventurer because I think it can pertain to all the other types I could have chosen. Second would be artsy. Wrote song lyrics for many years and pull out the paint on occasion. I would like to take more pictures but don't know much about a good camera. I am more of a nighthawk than a morning person, as I find the solitude then is more conducive to creativity. I think I'm intellectual but still think I am more street smart than book smart. Although I read in spurts and love discussing the places only a book can take u in your mind. I think it's very romantic to read aloud in bed with a partner. I started a book, perhaps one day it will be finished but still lots of life to go into that.I am pretty open-minded and liberal but still value tradition.I enjoy the arts and culture. Going to live theatre, art shows but mostly do live music. Nothing like a good jam.I enjoy the city and dressing up to go out but am happiest walking or hiking in nature. I don't do this enough cause I don't have some big strong man with a gun haha and I have never shot one. I would prefer archery I think.I also like to go fast, love snowmobiling or motorbike. But just ride on the back of a bike. I could learn right??? Well I'm not sure if there is possibly someone who hits all these areas as well as golfs and skis but just figured I would put it out there. Other than that I have a daughter in grade 7, who I am very proud of and am gladly raising her for the next 6 years but after that if I'm still single I will be travelling this world you can bet on it. Cheers well hopefully we would have talked enough to find an activity to do.

  • Vivan

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi everyone! :D I am an easy going, romantic person. I may be blonde, but I am an intellectual tending to get along well with men that have an education working in a professional career. I am educated to the level of Master degree. I have two children that I love with all of my heart at home with me. I am not a rich person but I am accomplished and successful in most things that I have tried to accomplish. I am a published book author, screenwriter, public speaker, and so creative, and courageous that there is no stopping me once I start working on a project. I am not religious, but spiritual. I believe in God and Jesus however believe that the Bible is a long man made document or novel of sorts. I am not picky about many things but fresh breathe and taking care of your teeth are important to me. If you are a player, please move on, I will not take heartbreak well. I love Earth/environmental things. I am a very independent person that needs time to do what I do and want to do but I am also very affectionate as well to the person that I want to share my time. I am not a fan of the male ego so if you are not a kind and loving person I do not need to hear from you. If you have any questions, please don’t be afraid to ask me. I am just being honest. ~Christy Somewhere quiet so we can talk.

  • Lyndsey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Ok, this is me in a nut shell....my friends describe me as kind hearted, polite, understanding, and devoted, reliable friend. I am a single mother of a beautiful girl. My interest include: walking, riding motorcycles, live music, movie buff, camping, BBQ's, hang out with my friends and family. I am content with my life, I'd just like someone to spend it with. Keep it simple....dinner and a movie, a few drinks, or anything where we can get to know each other.

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