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Thanks for stopping by, I guess this is the tough part telling you a little about me, huh? Okay, first I am picky and set in my ways, that can be a good thing, but some may be a little put off, and that is okay. After all, there is no sense in wasting either of our time... right? Don't think you can change me, it won't happen, it will just give you a lot of headaches. A little about me. I am very genuine, I am a what you see is what you get. I am a very caring person, who cares deeply for her friends and family.So what am I looking for in a guy? I am looking for someone that knows who he is and is happy with himself, he is not looking for me to make him happy with who he is. I want a faithful, fun, dependable and of course good looking man, who wants a true lasting relationship, sorry guys, don't care for men with the facial hair, why hide that handsome face. He doesn't do drugs, he's not married, not into sharing my guy! He doesn't drink alcohol, not even occasionally or socially, if you do, No, I don't think you are a bad guy, just not the one for me, that even means that occasional glass of wine. Yes I know most of you men out there want your alcohol, it is just not something I want in a man. He must have means of supporting himself, I am old-fashion and do not believe that I should support the man.What if he had kids?That is great! I am all for having children, after all I'm in education. I'm not in the classroom anymore, but I still have lots of contact with children. What about me having kids? Did you notice my age, I'm too old to have them, so if you still want children, you must be open for adoption. That is okay with me.Why am I single? Good question! I have been so busy with my professional life that one day I woke up and can you believe it, I had hit 40! Where did the 20's and 30's go? Not sure what happened here, I think I must have been put into a time travel machine and went ahead in life a couple of decades. Now that life has slowed down some, I found that I am missing that special someone in my life. But where do people go and meet others today? I don't do the bars, since I don't drink or want a guy who does. Church, the good ones seem like they are all married. So I thought I would give this a try. I have an aunt who told me about this and thought, let's see. Am I close to my family? Absolutely, my family means the world to me. I have two adorable nephews that I send a week with during the summer, and then I don't want them to go back. They grow up so fast. I also spend a lot of time with my parents, who have been married for over 40 years. I speak to my mom a couple of times a day.... does that answer how close I am? Oh what about holidays... I believe that holidays are times where all of the family gets together. Oh ya, two deal breakers for me…Smoking and drinking.....No mean no...it doesn't mean occasionally, from time to time....it means no, zero, notta, zilch. If you ever smoke or drink on any occasion I'm just not interested. Would have to be in an open place, safety first of course. Dinner, movie, fairs, all that sounds goods.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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