SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Payton
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I am contradiction ... I am a sophisticated lady and still a playful child, angelic yet devilish. I'm kind, sweet, stubborn and sarcastic. I'm quiet and shy but seldom meet a stranger. I hate not knowing but I love surprises. I'm a city chick and a country gal, I have a fiend for shoes but I love to be barefoot. Easygoing but opinionated, drunk but sober, care too much what others think yet not afraid to be myself. I carry myself with grace and confidence, some days I can be a total klutz. I am a girly girl that doesn't mind if I get dirt under my manicured nails. I don't believe in the fairy tale but I do know my happily ever after is out there waiting!I am an absolute contradiction... It can be hard for people to get a good read of who I am and I don't mind this at all. I do not let people into my life very easily, but the people I do I am friends with forever. I share very little yet I share quite a lot. I look innocent but always seem to surprise people. I'm very serious, yet laugh all the time. I am contemplative yet verbal. I love being outside yet can curl up inside with a book for days. I forgive easily but I never forget. I am like two sides of a coin, the dark and the light. Both are completely and legitimately me, it's just that one does not necessarily give any indication of the other. I don't deny any part of myself, I just don't share it with everyone.... but you're darn lucky if you see it! Thoughts change, I am changing person, I am a breathing chameleon, there is more to me than just one color, one thought, one track. So I contradict all the time. I may sound complicated or wishy washy but I'm actually very straight forward and simple. None of us wear the same mood, personality, or energy ***...we all contradict. I am looking for... Someone who is kind and honest. A good man with strong morals and values. Must be fit and active to keep up with me! A gentleman that appreciates getting dressed up on occasions and always takes pride in his appearance. I want a man that is adventurous and intelligent, playful and serious. Someone who will keep me on my toes and challenges me to be better. Someone who is like minded as me, that shares the same heart and falls for me from the inside out. Someone with a great sense of humor that keeps me laughing and knows that the smile on my face is just for him. I want to know unconditional love, untamed passion and a never ending friendship. I want a relationship that is emotionally intense, yet I want a relationship that is easy-going and relaxed. I want a person that loves me and can't live without me, I want to feel the same for him, however I don't want either of us to feel chained down or lose our individualism. I guess a lot of us settle for the safe kind of love, where you know you will have someone’s arms to return to at the end of the day. Where you know your heart is safe. I'm not settling. Deep down inside (somewhere we avoid going to), I think all of us crave for the type of love that tears us apart and messes with our mind. No, I am not talking about the emotionally destructive sort of relationships (or am I?) . What I mean is... I think all of us secretly want to push our limits, test our boundaries and lose ourselves in the intensity and passion of here and now because we only really have the NOW don't we? We want to be kept on the edge. (Yet we want to feel safe and secure in the knowledge that we will not spend the rest of our lives lonely and brokenhearted.) It is so hard to strike a balance. because why would I want a relationship that doesn’t bleed me dry? Then again, why would I want a relationship that bleeds me dry?All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope. All the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, there's someone perfect who might be searching for us. Love heightens our senses..reminds us that we are still alive, keeps our heart beating and longing as well as completely vulnerable. In the end, our body will age, our soul will be bruised and can't take the roller coaster ride anymore. For me, I am looking for an experience that is intoxicating, constant, changing, chasing, exploring and very similar to two *** a beautiful song together...Because it is a song, it is not safe, it can't be relaxed and you have to keep up with each other, and with a direction. Something outdoors would be great! Quiet dinner, ball game, lunch at my favorite winery, red dirt roads and a cold beverage... Basically anywhere that we can talk, listen, learn, share, laugh... see if we connect. Good luck to everyone I hope we all find what we are seeking.
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Deirdre
Online
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I just want people to write me that are serious about getting to know me. If we start talking and you decide you DONT want to talk anymore then just tell me. Dont just stop talking out of the blue. It is hurtful and childish. Im a fun loving and very caring woman. Tired of getting hurt.I I think this is hard to describe myself! I am a single mother of two teenagers. One is in college and one is driving now. I love to do just about everything! From deer hunting, fishing, hiking, golfing, gardening, to staying in for movies, going to the theater, or maybe even art shows! I can listen to just about any kind of music, but not very fond of any rap hahaha Rock, bluegrass, Christian rock, country...its all good!I design jewelry for a living for a local jewelry store. I use a CAD CAM program and also do a lot of hand carving. Another job I enjoy is making quilts for friends and customers. Either starting from scratch, or if they have a quilt top done I can finish it with the quilting for them! I love to play poker, although Im alittle rusty at the moment! I want to learn to play my fiddle but havnt found a good teacher yet. I like to go out and hang with lots of friends. I have a few tattoos, and sometimes talk like a sailor haha (not too much) :)I just really love to have fun, and laugh A LOT. I want someone who is not afraid to act alittle crazy, and maybe even enjoy going to church sometimes! Scary movies, cooking at home, and having some wine! I own my own home and two cars and I dont need anyone to help me. Im just looking for someone to hang out with and maybe someday fall head over heals! I marked that I just want to date but who knows if it could turn into more! I dont know what a good first date is! Someone will have to show me!
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Jacqulyn
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Let me say right from the get go, if you are extremely sensitive, easily offended and/or can't take a joke you will NOT want to talk to me. If there is something below that offends you, you don't need to send a message and tell me...why waste your time?If I won the lottery I'd go take some of those extreme driving classes. Driving stupid fast is SO appealing...right? Smash-!! Be-still my beating heart! I have a few incredible friends who have held my hand through some seriously challenging life events. I am grateful. My friends are important to meI am looking for an honest to goodness relationship. Don't worry though, I won't fall into obsession with you or ask you to buy me stuff on our first meeting nor will I want to move in with you after 3 dates. You'll do me the same courtesy.I'm smart, funny, and a total individual. My sense of humor is SHARP. I'm quick with the comebacks. And I can take a joke. I'm also pretty sarcastic.I'm not perfect, never will be and I don't try anymore. That said, I still have preferences when it comes to physical attraction (like yourself, I'm sure). I like a thin build and I like guys who are taller than me.Oh yeah....I started smoking again...sigh. Hit the "reset" button (if only). 4 days, no smoking. After work drink(s). We can arrange our possible "emergency phone call" ahead of time.