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Helga, 42

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About Me

I'm a mental health and substance abuse therapist. Dont be afraid to message me because you think I'm going to diagnose you haha! My work is the main focus of my life. It's not that I'm a workaholic or anything, its just that my work gives my life meaning and purpose. My friends would describe me as nice, kind, friendly, respectful, compassionate, patient, tolerant, trustworthy, intelligent, and funny. I tend to be kind of shy at first, but as I get more comfortable, I can be silly and goofy :-) Other "personalities" I could have chosen to describe me are: animal lover, artsy, bookworm, class clown, film/tv junkie, gamer, free-thinker, humanist, professional, and traveler. In a relationship, I am very affectionate (I thrive on affection). I have ADD, so sometimes I.....ooo look, a squirrel!! I am not a big sports fan, but I do enjoy watching football (both pro and college), MMA, and basketball. I promise, I won't try to have a relationship talk while you are watching the Super Bowl or whatever lol. I'M NOT INTO COUNTRY-WESTERN CULTURE OR GUYS MORE THAN A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!! I eventually want to be in a long-term, monogamous relationship, but you have to date to get there, right? So, here I am. If you are reading this before messaging me, thank you! PLEASE do not message me if you are looking for a hook-up! I'm sure there are plenty of women that are on this site for that. Although, I am finding that men who are looking for a hook-up don't read profiles lol.**Update: I cut my hair, so its real short now. I've left my other pics up because they are all recent pics and I still look like that except for my hair :-) Also, sorry, but I am not a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model. I see that many men on here are looking for that. Just about anything, dinner, bowling, coffee, etc, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Janie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a nice person that loves her family and friends, I am looking for someone with morals and good values. I love most music and love the water. I am a thrill seeker and love to take road trips. I moved around alot as a kid but my family was not military or CIA, or we weren't placed with witness protection.. Lol. I love to laugh, drink, bbq, and dance. I wouldn't mind meeting for drinks/dinner to discuss likes, dislikes and current events. I love movies, but better seen at home then in a theatre that has uncomfortable chairs.

  • Leticia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well here goes...Here I am.....Hi, I'm Annette. I'm a cool, down-to-earth mother of two fabulous, beautiful teenagers. One in college and the other in her senior year of high school. I have been divorced for two years now. Man, this whole dating thing has changed in 20> years. But gotta go with it.I consider myself to be caring, compassionate, loyal, and dedicated to the ones I care about. Honesty and openness/communication is very, very important to me. Having total and complete trust is SO SO IMPORTANT in a relationship. I'm a firm believer in chemistry. Your heart beats a little bit faster when they walk in the room. Get goose bumps when you get close. Its either there or its not.My life in general...uumm....Its okay. I try to stay busy and active. I cant really complaint too too much. I just take it day by day and deal with what life throws at me. I do wish that I could find that special someone. I miss all the advantages of having and being with someone you care about. Cuddling on the couch, holding my hand while watching a movie, hug me tight and make my worries go away, kiss me under the moon and stars on a cool fall evening......ect....Just knowing I have someone that loves me, enjoys being with me, and misses me when their not.What do I like to do? Ugh....that's such a hard question. Now that I'm single and my kids are older, I am re-learning what I like to do. I love to go to my son's baseball games. He's awesome!! Anything outdoorsy. Going to the lake/camping, picnics, the beach, even going to the zoo. I think, I try to have fun with everything. I love to laugh and make others laugh. It is possible to make every situation a comic relief. I like all kinds of music and all kind of movies, depends on the mood. I like to shop, of course. I'm all about some road-trips and seeing new things. I do enjoy "going out". To a nice dinner and movie, a bar to get a drink and listen to a band. Maybe some dancing. I also enjoy staying at home, rent a movie and a frozen pizza. (I get to hold the remote tho)Any question???Or just wanna say Heeyy!!Don't hesitate.

  • Chelsea

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    PLEASE DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE UNDER 36 OR OLDER THAN 50! FAITH~FAMILY~FRIENDSLIVE~LAUGH~LOVESingle mom of two boys! Have a very close family! Love my job!Enjoy going out with friends!Bon fires & cook outs!Camping, canoeing, & fishing!Playing cards (no good... or am I?)Listen to mostly country music, but won't forget the 80's!Live music and festivals!Like going to church!Enjoy the outdoors! (Warmer weather more)Love to smile, laugh, hug & kiss!Outgoing!I'm attracted to nice smiles and eyes! Meet in a public place for drinks/sodas and see where the conversation/vibe takes us. Might there be a second date? Or is it the end of the road? Won't know unless we try!

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