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Helga, 42

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About Me

I'm a mental health and substance abuse therapist. Dont be afraid to message me because you think I'm going to diagnose you haha! My work is the main focus of my life. It's not that I'm a workaholic or anything, its just that my work gives my life meaning and purpose. My friends would describe me as nice, kind, friendly, respectful, compassionate, patient, tolerant, trustworthy, intelligent, and funny. I tend to be kind of shy at first, but as I get more comfortable, I can be silly and goofy :-) Other "personalities" I could have chosen to describe me are: animal lover, artsy, bookworm, class clown, film/tv junkie, gamer, free-thinker, humanist, professional, and traveler. In a relationship, I am very affectionate (I thrive on affection). I have ADD, so sometimes I.....ooo look, a squirrel!! I am not a big sports fan, but I do enjoy watching football (both pro and college), MMA, and basketball. I promise, I won't try to have a relationship talk while you are watching the Super Bowl or whatever lol. I'M NOT INTO COUNTRY-WESTERN CULTURE OR GUYS MORE THAN A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!! I eventually want to be in a long-term, monogamous relationship, but you have to date to get there, right? So, here I am. If you are reading this before messaging me, thank you! PLEASE do not message me if you are looking for a hook-up! I'm sure there are plenty of women that are on this site for that. Although, I am finding that men who are looking for a hook-up don't read profiles lol.**Update: I cut my hair, so its real short now. I've left my other pics up because they are all recent pics and I still look like that except for my hair :-) Also, sorry, but I am not a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model. I see that many men on here are looking for that. Just about anything, dinner, bowling, coffee, etc, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ailse

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Like to have fun !! Life is too short to be anything but happy :) Im very much an optimist and don't spend a lot of time worrying about things. I put my faith in the man upstairs to take care of me. I'm looking for a gentleman with a great sense of humor who doesn't take life so serious and can laugh at himself !! Not looking for something real serious right away. I believe in developing a friendship and trust first, see how it goes from there. I'm staying hopeful that God is going to bring a man in my life that gives me that butterflies in ur stomach kinda feeling :)) I appreciate the little things in life, so whatever is ok with me !!!

  • Kasi

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am interested in beginning the "next chapter of my life" as they say. I am a hopeless romantic and enjoy the "little things" that being in a relationship can bring. I am looking forward to meeting someone who is vested in the future and what a relationship can bring to his life. I am a firm believer in treating others the way you want to be treated. I think positively and am outgoing. Friends and family would describe me as: sincere, caring, helpful, and hard working.I have 2 children. My son is almost 16 and my daughter is 13. I enjoy attending their sporting events and seeing them grow into young adults. I own/rescued three dogs, all black Labrador mixed breeds. I enjoy my job and have been teaching for 20 years. I enjoy being a mom, friend, and teacher but am missing the significant other in my life. I love the beach and hope to retire there some day. I enjoy spending time with friends and family. I also enjoy a variety of music and mostly listen to country music and a fan of Kenny Chesney. My favorite quote:Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away. Nice lunch/dinner/meet and them see if there's a mutual connection.

  • Jamila

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Thanks for stopping by, I guess this is the tough part telling you a little about me, huh? Okay, first I am picky and set in my ways, that can be a good thing, but some may be a little put off, and that is okay. After all, there is no sense in wasting either of our time... right? Don't think you can change me, it won't happen, it will just give you a lot of headaches. A little about me. I am very genuine, I am a what you see is what you get. I am a very caring person, who cares deeply for her friends and family.So what am I looking for in a guy? I am looking for someone that knows who he is and is happy with himself, he is not looking for me to make him happy with who he is. I want a faithful, fun, dependable and of course good looking man, who wants a true lasting relationship, sorry guys, don't care for men with the facial hair, why hide that handsome face. He doesn't do drugs, he's not married, not into sharing my guy! He doesn't drink alcohol, not even occasionally or socially, if you do, No, I don't think you are a bad guy, just not the one for me, that even means that occasional glass of wine. Yes I know most of you men out there want your alcohol, it is just not something I want in a man. He must have means of supporting himself, I am old-fashion and do not believe that I should support the man.What if he had kids?That is great! I am all for having children, after all I'm in education. I'm not in the classroom anymore, but I still have lots of contact with children. What about me having kids? Did you notice my age, I'm too old to have them, so if you still want children, you must be open for adoption. That is okay with me.Why am I single? Good question! I have been so busy with my professional life that one day I woke up and can you believe it, I had hit 40! Where did the 20's and 30's go? Not sure what happened here, I think I must have been put into a time travel machine and went ahead in life a couple of decades. Now that life has slowed down some, I found that I am missing that special someone in my life. But where do people go and meet others today? I don't do the bars, since I don't drink or want a guy who does. Church, the good ones seem like they are all married. So I thought I would give this a try. I have an aunt who told me about this and thought, let's see. Am I close to my family? Absolutely, my family means the world to me. I have two adorable nephews that I send a week with during the summer, and then I don't want them to go back. They grow up so fast. I also spend a lot of time with my parents, who have been married for over 40 years. I speak to my mom a couple of times a day.... does that answer how close I am? Oh what about holidays... I believe that holidays are times where all of the family gets together. Oh ya, two deal breakers for me…Smoking and drinking.....No mean no...it doesn't mean occasionally, from time to time....it means no, zero, notta, zilch. If you ever smoke or drink on any occasion I'm just not interested. Would have to be in an open place, safety first of course. Dinner, movie, fairs, all that sounds goods.

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