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Helga, 42

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About Me

I'm a mental health and substance abuse therapist. Dont be afraid to message me because you think I'm going to diagnose you haha! My work is the main focus of my life. It's not that I'm a workaholic or anything, its just that my work gives my life meaning and purpose. My friends would describe me as nice, kind, friendly, respectful, compassionate, patient, tolerant, trustworthy, intelligent, and funny. I tend to be kind of shy at first, but as I get more comfortable, I can be silly and goofy :-) Other "personalities" I could have chosen to describe me are: animal lover, artsy, bookworm, class clown, film/tv junkie, gamer, free-thinker, humanist, professional, and traveler. In a relationship, I am very affectionate (I thrive on affection). I have ADD, so sometimes I.....ooo look, a squirrel!! I am not a big sports fan, but I do enjoy watching football (both pro and college), MMA, and basketball. I promise, I won't try to have a relationship talk while you are watching the Super Bowl or whatever lol. I'M NOT INTO COUNTRY-WESTERN CULTURE OR GUYS MORE THAN A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!! I eventually want to be in a long-term, monogamous relationship, but you have to date to get there, right? So, here I am. If you are reading this before messaging me, thank you! PLEASE do not message me if you are looking for a hook-up! I'm sure there are plenty of women that are on this site for that. Although, I am finding that men who are looking for a hook-up don't read profiles lol.**Update: I cut my hair, so its real short now. I've left my other pics up because they are all recent pics and I still look like that except for my hair :-) Also, sorry, but I am not a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model. I see that many men on here are looking for that. Just about anything, dinner, bowling, coffee, etc, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Laila

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Looking for a great guy... a guy who knows he has a good thing when he has it... AND most of all put a smile on my face when he walks in the roomLife is what you make it...The optimist sees the rose and not its thorns; the pessimist stares at the thorns, oblivious of the rose ..... Kinda like the half empty half full glass ;)Right now I am just out to meet new friends and if something is meant to be it will be. I'm an easy going, what you see is what you get kind of woman. I'm a passionate and sensitive woman. I enjoy the simple things in life and embrace new experiences. and adventures. I think of life as a journey with no regrets. I'm a very independent person, but would love to share my life with someone special. My match should be a genuine, easy going, romantic, likes to travel, independent, healthy, grounded, and just likes to have fun. I give ***% in a relationship and would like a partner that can also give me 100% as well.I am honest and an open-minded person. I am a busy mother (with no time for games), a trusted friend and devoted partner, a free and independent soul, non-judgmental, and not a "princess". I am a people person but need my quality "alone" time for myself.I don't have any addictions, no mental disorders, never used antidepressant drugs. By now I know who I am. I am not interested to pretend to be someone else. I am a positive person with healthy attitude. I have a good sense of humor, blunt at times, often sarcastic. I am not easily offended and like good, witty jokes. I avoid confrontations, control, jealousy, and drama. I don't need to hear how much you hate your ex. We want to start from a clean page therefore you should leave your painful past behind and move on .In my partner I am looking for a strong, mature personality, peaceful nature, positive outlook, mental balance, mutual respect, sense of humor. Clear communication is a must to build the trust. Negotiation, reasoning, and friendly exchange of opinions should be the key points of a lasting relationshipAnd we also can not forget passion... It is huge to share that with your partner... And what girl doesn't like passion... Snuggling etcI enjoy going to sports events... Concerts... Restaurants... Long walks...beach... Love going to wineries and especially like getting in. car on a Sunday and just drive to no where... But also like to stay home with a special someone and cook and watch a good movie snuggled on the couch... Well hope you like what you read.. If so send me a MSG life is too short to think "what if" Low key

  • Vivan

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi everyone! :D I am an easy going, romantic person. I may be blonde, but I am an intellectual tending to get along well with men that have an education working in a professional career. I am educated to the level of Master degree. I have two children that I love with all of my heart at home with me. I am not a rich person but I am accomplished and successful in most things that I have tried to accomplish. I am a published book author, screenwriter, public speaker, and so creative, and courageous that there is no stopping me once I start working on a project. I am not religious, but spiritual. I believe in God and Jesus however believe that the Bible is a long man made document or novel of sorts. I am not picky about many things but fresh breathe and taking care of your teeth are important to me. If you are a player, please move on, I will not take heartbreak well. I love Earth/environmental things. I am a very independent person that needs time to do what I do and want to do but I am also very affectionate as well to the person that I want to share my time. I am not a fan of the male ego so if you are not a kind and loving person I do not need to hear from you. If you have any questions, please don’t be afraid to ask me. I am just being honest. ~Christy Somewhere quiet so we can talk.

  • Hillary

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi there!!! I am a fun loving person who is simple and easy going. I am honest and have respect for others. I can enjoy a night on the town or just curling up on the couch with a good movie. I love my family and friends, they are the most important to me!I love being outdoors and having BBQs. I am a christian and i love church activites. I love to listen to all kinds of music and my favorite drink is COFFEE :) I have some amazing kids and they all very crazy and fun loving with great personalities and they are my world. Hoping to find someone who has similar interests for a long term relationship :) A nice first date would just to meet somewhere quiet like a coffee house and talk to see if we are compatable. You cant judge a book by its cover so communication is the first best step!

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