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Helga, 42

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About Me

I'm a mental health and substance abuse therapist. Dont be afraid to message me because you think I'm going to diagnose you haha! My work is the main focus of my life. It's not that I'm a workaholic or anything, its just that my work gives my life meaning and purpose. My friends would describe me as nice, kind, friendly, respectful, compassionate, patient, tolerant, trustworthy, intelligent, and funny. I tend to be kind of shy at first, but as I get more comfortable, I can be silly and goofy :-) Other "personalities" I could have chosen to describe me are: animal lover, artsy, bookworm, class clown, film/tv junkie, gamer, free-thinker, humanist, professional, and traveler. In a relationship, I am very affectionate (I thrive on affection). I have ADD, so sometimes I.....ooo look, a squirrel!! I am not a big sports fan, but I do enjoy watching football (both pro and college), MMA, and basketball. I promise, I won't try to have a relationship talk while you are watching the Super Bowl or whatever lol. I'M NOT INTO COUNTRY-WESTERN CULTURE OR GUYS MORE THAN A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN ME!!! I eventually want to be in a long-term, monogamous relationship, but you have to date to get there, right? So, here I am. If you are reading this before messaging me, thank you! PLEASE do not message me if you are looking for a hook-up! I'm sure there are plenty of women that are on this site for that. Although, I am finding that men who are looking for a hook-up don't read profiles lol.**Update: I cut my hair, so its real short now. I've left my other pics up because they are all recent pics and I still look like that except for my hair :-) Also, sorry, but I am not a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model. I see that many men on here are looking for that. Just about anything, dinner, bowling, coffee, etc, etc.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lally

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Easy going, no drama loves the outdoors, cooking for two or ten, love entertaining and enjoy family, schooled formally in Europe, love to travel Intl : Bali, Fiji, Thailand, Japan, India hoping to goto Africa next, seeking a gentlemen who is optmistic, healthy in all aspects, mindful, adventourous, kindhearted, intelligent and affectionate, i love picnics on the beach , bonfires, live music, art galleries, and soft, slow, warm kisses that last three days xxxAppreciate the simple pleasures in life; enjoy adventure travel, scuba diving, sailing, skiing, golf, cooking, movies and the arts, live music, fine dining.Nature is my medicine. Anything outdoors is calming and nurturing. A first rite of passage was living on a sailboat one summer in the islands, survivng mostly on the freshfish, lobster or conch we could catch each day. Second rite of passage; living with a Burmese hilltribe on the northern thailand border, another more recent was camping in a pup-tent with a Rajastani desert tribe in central India. I love to study and take photographs of indigenous cultures and share their story. I am a water baby at heart, have a love for the ocean and mother nature.I Respect a man who is mindful, healthy, passionate and devoted, with a working moral compass and sense of personal integrity. Must be a positive person with a passion for life, see the glass as half full not half empty. Someone who is affectionate, mentally and emotionally stable, (non drug user please). Ideally he would be athletic, striving to learn and grow in life, a spiritually centered individual who is intellectually curious and appreciates that in others.I love to learn with an open mind and try to maintain a hopeful heart in my daily life. Im spiritual and prayerful. I prefer a man who is kind, compassionate, strong, healthy, funny, and a non-smoker. Im easy like a sunday morning; love playdates for two, enjoy the water, nature, cooking for two or ten, wine by the bonfire, intellectual conversation, live music, hottub for two and long, slow, warm, soft kisses I treasure most: family, and true friends and long term life relationships. Enjoy growing tomatoes and tending to my little herb garden and cooking from the daily findsEnjoy the fishing!! Something casual, then lets see if it leads somewhere......perhaps a tiki bar atmosphere with music or a wine tasting or art gallery or beer and a burger at a sports pub is fun too, it dosnt really matter where its the company that counts

  • Meriwether

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hard to choose just one type of personality to describe myself. But I will choose adventurer because I think it can pertain to all the other types I could have chosen. Second would be artsy. Wrote song lyrics for many years and pull out the paint on occasion. I would like to take more pictures but don't know much about a good camera. I am more of a nighthawk than a morning person, as I find the solitude then is more conducive to creativity. I think I'm intellectual but still think I am more street smart than book smart. Although I read in spurts and love discussing the places only a book can take u in your mind. I think it's very romantic to read aloud in bed with a partner. I started a book, perhaps one day it will be finished but still lots of life to go into that.I am pretty open-minded and liberal but still value tradition.I enjoy the arts and culture. Going to live theatre, art shows but mostly do live music. Nothing like a good jam.I enjoy the city and dressing up to go out but am happiest walking or hiking in nature. I don't do this enough cause I don't have some big strong man with a gun haha and I have never shot one. I would prefer archery I think.I also like to go fast, love snowmobiling or motorbike. But just ride on the back of a bike. I could learn right??? Well I'm not sure if there is possibly someone who hits all these areas as well as golfs and skis but just figured I would put it out there. Other than that I have a daughter in grade 7, who I am very proud of and am gladly raising her for the next 6 years but after that if I'm still single I will be travelling this world you can bet on it. Cheers well hopefully we would have talked enough to find an activity to do.

  • Ursula

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a Christian mom of three teenagers that make me proud daily . They are my life. I am quiet at first, but then you can't shut me up. I enjoy life. I am a glass half full kinda girl. I love to be around people that make me laugh. Honesty and integrity is very important to me. I enjoy lots of types of music, but country is probably my favorite. I would want to it to be quiet enough that we could talk and get to know each other...dinner, walk in the park, coffee.

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