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Vivyan, 45

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About Me

I love trying new restaurants, lounges, coffee shops, bookstores, traveling...just about anywhere. Life is meant to be enjoyed and experiencing and learning new things is important to me. I'm very spiritual and believe in a healthy mind, body and spirit. I believe in being intuitive and listening to your intuition. Spending time on the beach and listening to the waves has to be one of my favorite pasttimes ever. Confidence, sense of humor, intelligence and knowing what you want in life and having a positive mind are essential for my partner in crime. You must also love animals and NOT hunt them! Looking to meet new people to make new friends at first. If there is chemistry between us then who knows. Take it one day at a time. Not looking for random hookups. First date would include drinks and interesting conversation....lots of laughter too is healthy for the soul.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Seona

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.

  • Elina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am really shy until u get to know me ,I am a fun and outgoing person. I am new to the single life ,U see I was married for 27 years married my high school sweetheart . .So everyone just be patient with me I am a fun loving good hearted woman .so men if u want a one night stand or just a roll in the hay keep on truckin .... I do not care for lairs so if u r just keep on going to the next person ...I love outdoors ,camping,fishing etc.I have 3 children all boys there ages are 19,14,11 the two youngest live with me.The oldest has moved out to start his own life, I work so i am not sitting in front of the computer so if u r interested let me know and we will see what comes of it ....I love listening to music I like most of all music country, rock its all good, God bless.....let's see if we click...,. To have a good time !!

  • Alexina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi, I am fun-loving, free-spirited, thoughtful, cheerful, energetic, and talkative. I have one son of 18 who lives with me. I don't want anymore kids of my own, but would welcome yours. I like to watch movies - horror, comedy, and action. Die hard "The Walking Dead" fan. I am all about fun and not afraid to try something new. I can cook, and I can sing. I work on an IT Helpdesk so I know computers. I like to laugh and make people laugh. I am generous and kind. I look for the good in all people.Negativity exhausts me. If you are about doom and gloom or conspiracy theories, you are not for me. I like good conversation and occasional debate. I love to take all things and make a positive experience out of it. We all have room to grow and no one knows it all. Communication and friendship are key to a strong relationship. Partnership, sharing, caring, significance, respect, encouragement, support. Those are the serious things. Fun, laughter, playfulness and creating memories are important to me. I prefer men that are well groomed, no shag, someone who loves to go play. I am not picky. I just would like to get to know you.

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