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Jamesina, 43

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About Me

Update-just because I may not be your 'type', it doesn't give you right to be rude or disrespectful. The last time I checked, we are all adults. If that is the way you treat people, perhaps that us why you are still single. My rant for the day. I have been on and off this site for a few years. I am looking for a mature, funny, intelligent, drama-free, good smelling man who likes to have fun, hang out with friends or just stay in for a quiet evening. And isn't afraid to be romantic! I like to kiss, hold hands, cuddle, all the good stuff. I am a loyal and honest person. I will not cheat on you or lie to you. If I am dating you, I am not dating anyone else. I love to watch movies, play board games, spend time with my friends, read when I can find the time and sometimes just plan a day trip somewhere. I am willing to learn if you have the patience to teach me. Learning new things makes you a better person. One thing I am hoping to learn in ***is how to shoot. I hear it is a great stress reliever. Update: got to try this and I am looking forward to doing it again. I am shy and quiet until I get to know you. I do have a brain and can hold a conversation. I sometimes find myself knowing useless trivia. Obscure categories on Jeopardy, not a problem. I love to laugh and I have a great sense of humor. Sometimes sarcastic.I am looking for a someone to spend time with, get to know and hopefully it will turn into a long term thing. I am not impressed with things. You could have the finest things in the world and still be horrible person. I have 2 boys ***and 14. While they are very important to me, I do need a personal life. It isn't always easy for me to get away to meet or talk as I have full custody of them (their father lives out of the country - no baby daddy drama). Don't take that as disinterest. I don't mind chatting online, *** messaging. As I said above, it isn't always easy for me to chat on the phone or in person. I would prefer to find someone close to my area. Being spontaneous is fun, but not always practical in my current situation. If you are looking for someone to be at your beck and call, then please move on to another profile.Thanks for reading my profile. I hope to hear from you soon.**Update - I appreciate the interest, but I am not interested in dating or having a relationship with black men.**DISCLAIMER: Looking for a Relationship does not mean looking for a one night stand or a booty call when the mood strikes you. If that is all you are looking for then you need to move on. Something casual, semi-quiet and public. Coffee, drinks, trip to the gun range, surprise me....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Seona

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.

  • Dido

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I\'m one cool person that is caring, loving and most of all confident. I love to go camping in the summer and look up at the stars at night. I want to find a romantic partner who believes in true love.

  • Aura

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a happy & outgoing person who is enjoying life. I like most anything outdoors, biking, hiking, camping, float trips, BBQs, bon fires and lounging by the pool. My favorite activity is listening to live music. I am a child of the 80s and still love big hair, loud music and fast cars! I love to travel and explore new places. I also enjoy very simple things like sitting on the porch with good friends. I like the sun on my back and the wind in my hair. I don't mind planning things (some things require it) but I am more of a spontaneous person. I might follow a dirt road just to see where it goes. I am a true southern girl. I was raised with manners and believe in being kind and respective to everyone (unless you prove I shouldn't be). I try to live by the golden rule. I am very laid back and easy to please. Looking for someone to hang out with and see where the road takes us. Anyone up for a new adventure? Meet for coffee or drinks and see if we have any interest in meeting again for a real date.

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