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SeonaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I have decided to update my profile. We should all do that every once in a while shouldn’t we? Reexamine ourselves…So first let me tell you a little bit about myself. I am a single mother of two wonderful teens that live with me 100% of the time ***cats). I recently went back to school and now work with special-needs children, which I really enjoy. However, I am contemplating going back to school in the fall to work towards a diploma. I am happy and in good spirits 99% of the time regardless of what life throws my way. I still consider myself a ‘happy endings’ type of person. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I have been described as quirky and like the fact that, at times, I can be a big goof. I don’t mind laughing at myself and love to make others laugh. I am not afraid to make an ass of myself and consider myself a pretty confident person. I still sing Christmas Carols badly, eat chocolate, snore, and dance around the house (without good dance moves). I love to read, am a movie fanatic, enjoy cooking, and am trying to find the motivation to be a more active person. I am still very curious about life and think I look and act younger than I am.Here’s the main reason I wanted to update my profile. I’ve noticed a lot of people state that they don’t want someone with scars or emotional baggage. But doesn’t that just mean that you haven’t really lived or loved? I have scars, how can I not? At 42 I can say that I have loved and I have been hurt. This doesn’t mean I don’t want to try again, and it certainly doesn’t mean that I am not a trusting person. I still believe in true love. What I have noticed is that, as we get older, we tend to think our perfect match will be perfect from the get go and I’m not sure that’s realistic. We all have faults, no one is perfect. I have blue days, I don't yell often but it happens, my ass is bigger than I'd like it to be. Basically, I'm human. There are going to be things about me that annoy you. The question is, does the good outweigh the bad? Can you look past those idiosyncrasies, even get a chuckle out of them? I’m looking for a partner that will compliment me, not complete me. I am hoping for a mutually supportive, fun relationship full of romance, caring, tenderness, and laughter.I have been divorced for over ten years. While it was crushing at the time it was the best thing to happen to me. I have become a confident and capable woman in that time. It made me the woman I am today and a great mother. I am a catch (excuse the fishing reference)! So, all those scars and baggage help make us the person we are – and propel us to become the person we wish to be.I’m going to end with a quote by Marilyn Munroe, “I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.” And my best is pretty damn good!I don’t mean for this to sound materialistic but it has been an issue in the past so I will address it. I am a single mother supporting two children on my own. Finances are always an issue and I live on a very modest budget. I cannot afford fancy trips or expensive dates, not that I wouldn’t enjoy them. I just feel guilty that I cannot reciprocate. Many in my age range seem to be at a more comfortable place financially while I see myself as just getting started, or starting over. Hmmm, I'd like to start with a few *** phone calls and then we can chat about a get together, maybe a walk or coffee/tea?... We all know there has to be some kind of physical spark.
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MelissaOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Well let me start off by saying I am a very proud mother,and I am going to school for the medical field, that and my job take up a lot of my time. I am getting to old for the drama and BS that come with some men. Just be honest and don't try to take me for a fool, because it wont work! I am not a biotch, but.. well you know. I LOVE sports especially baseball and football since my boys both play. I dont really have any hobbies other than shopping and spending time with my kids. I love children and that is a must for you! I love getting out as much as I can. I am a country girl and LOVE Country music mainly, Top 40's, Classic Rock, some Rock, and dance music of course, I love to shake my moneymaker! I am unique in that I am NOT like most girls, I DONT cheat, LIE or steal. I am honest and upfront, but it keeps the BS at a minimal right? I am NOT out for your money or your things or better yet even a piece.. I want someone who is REAL, down to earth, honest, faithful, and loves to go out and have fun and explore new things. If you want to know anything more maybe you can send a message and ask. I am an open book and will give the best answer I possibly can! I would love to be taken care of and I am a bit old fashioned in that I think the man should open doors, pay and be able to hold down a decent conversation of something more than sex.. good company will get you more dates and more for me too LOL
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BillieOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I asked my friends to describe me and this is what I got back...'easy going, friendly and someone who wishes she could sing but can't... Not even in the shower!' Ouch... But it's true. I've learned to hum... To myself:)My hope is for me to meet someone simple, someone who will camp with me even if it means just pitching a tent in my back yard. I'm low maintenance, very independent, and I disdain drama! I recently purchased a home that has 'good bones' but needs a bit of updating. I'm excited to learn how to do most of this myself... With a bit of help from a few friends. Road trips are fun- especially cool mornings, no destination, no map, just the open road. I have an awesome family, great nieces and a nephew, but no kids of my own. However if you ask me I got the better end of this deal.. I spoil them rotten, I'm 'cool', and when they get a bit whiny I send them home to mom and dad. Best of both worlds;)