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Hilma, 45
United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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About Me

Please note I am SEPERATED. It won’t be final until End of January ***. So you and I have a little time to get to know one another.I am looking for a kind individual. If you are someone who can’t see how their own actions affect others… then I make no apologies but you are not for me.Not everything is as it appears to be at first glance. I seek someone who can look past the imperfections in life. Communication is important in any relationship. Not everyone shares the same beliefs, convictions and experiences.We all learn from one another. It’s good to be able to see something from another’s point of view... Sometimes it gives you a different perspective. I’m not a mind reader. I am going to warn you I have a vivid imagination…lolStimulate my mind… Please don’t mess with it!!Sometimes you have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and jump back in… Bon Fire’s on the beach, the smell of the ocean and someone to snuggle up to when it gets a little chilly… I learned to fish, shoot guns and how much fun camping can really be. I have a large family.…lolI am a ripped up pair of blue jeans with flip flops, high heels or let’s get dressed up and have a nice dinner out kind of girl. I enjoy both and can handle myself appropriately. I’m not the girl who would wander in a bar on my own. If you want to play darts, pool, bags that can be fun too. But…let’s turn up the Touch tunes and get to know each other.I like nice things but am not materialistic.Dating after being in a relationship of over 10 years is overwhelming. I am a one man kind of girl. I find it difficult to multitask in matters of the heart. I have had my heart ripped out and stomped on.... I’m not looking to hurt anyone! I AM a hopeless Romantic. I make no apologies for it either.I like a Good boy with a little bad boy mystery behind his eyes and smile. I really am looking for more…. The possession of knowledge does not kill the sense of wonder and mystery. There is always more mystery.Anais Nin

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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