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Jocelyn, 44
United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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About Me

I am an extremely curious person, which sometimes gets me into a bit of mischief. I use humor in all aspects of my life whether dealing with a client at work or with friends and family. I am a country girl born and raised but love to travel, explore, see plays and musicals, go to museums, etc. I am independent and assertive. I do have an opinion but express it in an appropiate way. Trust me one's h***'9") has nothing to do with their personality or the way they can handle themselves. I believe in compromise and kissing your partner good night because you never know if that will be your last opportuntunity to express yourself. I believe in romance. Does anyone understand the concept anymore? I am a passionate person whether it's an idea or concept, or a relationship. I am silly, sensual, adventurous, like to cuddle, and seems to be a magnetic to just about any type of critter. I love flowers, butterflies, and most animals.I'm looking for a man who is open-minded, excepting of others, funny, curious, adventurous, and honest. I'm looking for that special person who makes me smile with a random thought and lets me know he's missed me by the way he looks at me. A man who makes me feel special in simple ways. Someone who likes to cuddle, take walks, or spend a weekend exploring new areas or just each other. I'm not looking for a game player or someone who needs a certian type of woman to make him feel good. Family and friends are important and so is sharing those important to me with a special someone. I WILL NOT respond to you if you live too far away. IN ADDITION: If you have been communicating with someone by messages, chat, and/or phone and then just disappear without an explaination it is game playing. I don't need it and don't want it.Please don't add me to your favorites if you have no intention of contacting me. If all you're interested in is a hook-up don't bother, not interested. This is a process so please don't except me to meet you on the first message because I won't. It is important to me that we get to know each other a little bit through online messages, texting, phone, etc before we have our first meet. This process doesn't have to take months but it is necessary and required. If I sound like a bossy, **** I'm sorry because I'm not. I'm just wanting to make things clear so you understand what is important to me. Wow, describe a first date. Let's see. IF it was the right time of year I think I would plan a day at Hidden Lake Gardens. We would spend time walking the gardens and trails, talking and sharing stories so we can get to know each other. We could sit next to thhe pond and watch the swans and other wildlife enjoy their day. At some point find a secluded spot to have a picnic. Then if we choose to stay after dark we could enjoy the sunset and the night sky through an opening in the trees. Some nights the Gardens even provides telescopes for more up close viewing.This I would not necessarily consider a first meeting but a first date. I believe there is a difference.The first meeting would be in a public places/ The location would depend on where you lived. A mall, restaurant, coffe shop, etc are all choices.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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