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United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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About Me

I'm just looking for a great guy. Plain and simple. Looking to find a guy who will treat me good, be my best friend and partner, who ultimately wants a family and wants to grow old together...I am an independent, career focused woman who knows who she is and what she wants out of life. I am close to my parents & they are an important part of my life. I have 2 dogs that are a bit high maintenance but have amazing personalities. I am settled, financially secure, and have a great deal to offer to the right person. I am well traveled and enjoy exploring the world and ideally would love to find someone who also enjoys that. I love exploring the history of Europe and have many more places on the list I want to see and visit. I am a happy, healthy, and well-balanced person. I’m not a big drinker and find that I don’t spend my weekends at bars…instead you could probably find me at Home Depot or doing projects around the house. I have a good sense of humor, a bit sarcastic but love a guy who can make me laugh. I make life happen for me vs. waiting around for it to happen to me. Ultimately, I am searching for a great guy to develop a long term relationship over time. Chemistry is a must...preferably insane chemistry. I want to be so excited every time I see him and at some point I want to just love waking up next to him every morning and have him be the last thought on my mind at night. I'm not in a rush for anything...the most important thing is that I'm spending time with the right person...that's worth everything.You are secure, financially stable, have passion for your career, settled down, mature, a good communicator, committed to resolving conflict, loyal, and most of all...a good kisser. You possess a good sense of humor and are looking for the right person to spend your life with. You are open to having a family. If you're still reading this...Message me. I prefer coffee or meeting for a drink on the first date. Keep it casual.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap British Japanese Thai Vietnamese Adventure Comedy History Romance Dirt Bike Racing Soccer / Football Tennis
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