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Garnette, 45
United States, Minnesota, Red Wing

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I am looking for a long-lasting relationship. Not dating around, not multiple guys on the hook, not a hook-up. I want a connection, chemistry and compatibility in one relationship. I really want to find someone who is somewhere close to the stage of life I’m in (which, after plenty of dates with plenty of good guys of various ages I’ve come to see is related to age…lol…duh!) Hence the profile rewrite.I have to admit I’m a little hung up on age, but only because I work hard to stay fit and current and I’ve found that a lot of people (men and women) close to my age have sort of given up. I’m aging and it shows, but that’s not a free pass to quit caring about my health and appearance. I feel good about who I am right now. I’d like a similar attitude in my partner. You don’t have to be a triathlete, just practice healthy living habits.Both my kids are still living with me. My daughter is 20 and my son is 15. So, I’m still very committed to being a good mom, (and I find it really attractive if you’re into being a dad) but as they’ve gotten older I find myself with more time available to develop a social life…yay! :) I just rewarded myself with a birthday vacation in Vegas and loved it! (Posted some pics to my profile.) I want to do more traveling, but have always felt like the kids or the home should come first. I see that changing a lot in the next few years. I say this so you know I have time for you and that I want to make room in my life for the right man. I realize I can’t get a complete picture of who you are from a few paragraphs and some pictures, but I’m probably not going to respond to a guy who only posts one pic and doesn’t take the time to write more than, “Hit me up if you wanna know the rest.” C’mon…you have to at least try!There’s a lot more to me than what I’ve written here so please don’t think you know me just yet. If after reading my profile you think we are on the same page, please reach out. I promise not to be rude or stupid...unless you are…and even then, probably not. Lol. Thanks for reading. I think the first date is actually the second date. I mean, really, the first time you get together it's usually for coffee or a drink. Does that count? Well, maybe if it lasts longer than an hour or you kiss each other goodbye. I think a date is when you actually make a plan to do something together...like take a drive with no destination on a misty autumn morning when the sun is still trying to break through with a hot mocha in my hand, music in my ears, my hand on my guys thigh. No talking, just breathing it all in. You in?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Hardcore American Canadian Korean Thai Drama Sci-Fi Soccer / Football
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