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Juli, 42

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About Me

First I am a mom, of 4 beautiful kids. Only one is home full time. My eldest and only daughter has started a family of her own and is in college. My eldest son is a Senior Airman, and my teen age son attends a military school out of state. At home is the baby at only 9. They have and always will be my first priority, so dating can be tough. I prefer to date someone whom has kids, and who is hands on with their kids. There is a lot of understanding that comes with knowing what being an active single parent entails because I am my children's only living parent.I am a happy person, the glass is always half full. I have a lot of compassion for people and the world around me. You'll find me actively helping people, I enjoy this part of me. Not enough caring people in the world and I believe in fairy tales. I love living life, I'm one of those rare single people who is comfortable at being single. I'm not lonely and won't settle for just anyone. You gotta be able to laugh and hold an intelligent conversation. I'm simple, silly and at times laugh at my own jokes. I enjoy a good night out where I can let my hair down, and relaxing at home with a good movie. If your tens years in either way, I won't respond. For some it's just a number, but for me it's a lifetime of experiences that need to be reached and learned by each of us. I also have value in me, so no, I don't do hook ups or one nighters. And no I won't share naked pics. I'm on here looking for a connection, a friendship first that can evolve into a relationship. A relationship where you can honestly share your dreams and fears. Where you stand behind each other, in good and bad times. I want someone who looks forward to seeing me, who misses me when I'm gone and who is willing to chase me down when I get scared and run. If I'm not worth waiting for, you not worth my time, my respect, my friendship or my passion. casual where we can talk and hear each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marg

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single Mom of two great boys and even though I lead a hectic schedule, I have time for someone in my life. My hours are not always 9-5, especially with being a Mom but I find it interesting not being on a never changing routine every day :-)I love sports!!! I work in the Soccer Industry and love it and enjoy going to all sporting events. I am a down to earth type of girl and would rather have it be Fall weather and wearing a hoodie and jeans, It has been a very very long time since I've really dressed up (dress, etc) for anything. I will if the occasion calls for it and love trying new places to go to but I have not needed to or been taken to places where that attire is needed.I get along good with my kids Dad and his wife and enjoy the simple things out of life. I want to live life every day and have someone to experience that with.I've always been attracted to athletic (football build) type of guys who are "; LOL but I dated someone for a while that was the exact opposite also (skinny cowboy).I've never really had a romantic guy and one that will be my rock or shoulder. I am a very independent girl, but a girl is a girl and sometimes we would love to have a guy feel needed and be "my guy" :-) I wouldn't mind meeting a lunch or a drink so that we can both see if the chemistry is there before any real money is spent on a big dinner, etc! :-)A sporting event would be amazing, even a college one or even something totally out of the "norm" for a date like a one time cooking, dancing or acting class or something that would be fun and make us laugh.I want to get to know you and you me, so anything where we both can relax and be ourselves in the moment.

  • Tana

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi, so, OK I am looking to meet someone new. Lets get together and talk a bit, have a drink or coffee and see where it goes from there. I am educated, self sufficient and have a good job that I love. I am looking for the same in a partner. I am not overly enthusiastic about the online dating thing. But there arent a whole lot of other options these days.OK time for the babble..- just as much as finding a great little local place; wineries and wine bars; trying a great new recipe or ordering in a pizza and a salad. I am not opposed to catching a band at a local pub. However, the bar/club scene is not my thing.I am not a big TV person, although I have been known in the past to spend a lazy Sunday afternoon watching Law and Order marathons. Not a fan of reality TV. However, I am often content spending a Friday night after a long work week on the couch watching a movie and cuddling with a nice bottle of wine... I am not a big sports fan, but have enjoyed the last season or two watching football and would love to find a guy that likes the game, but will also enjoy spending time with me in the kitchen during the commercials creating something fun to eat while teaching me more about the game. Its all about the compromise..Dogs, not cats. I am informed, but have no desire to debate politics or religion, I can agree to disagree. I love music, but I rarely get around to updating my iPod and often play the same songs over and over again. I have always wanted to be a part of playing a game of softball on the weekend, but be warned, I was always the one chosen next to last when choosing teams in grammar school, but hey, if you choose me, I will happily pack us a picnic lunch and a thermos of hot coffee...I do not do drama. If we go out a few times and it doesn't work out, at the very least I have put myself out there and have made a potential new friend. The last few years I have not really known what it was I am looking for in a relationship, and I am still not sure. It would be really nice to be with someone who wanted to be stuck in the house with me for the weekend when there is a hurricane coming. Or just coming over on a random Tuesday night, well, just because you want to see me. Chances are, I am looking forward to seeing you too.. Maybe there is someone out there that is capable balancing all of the important things in their life and maybe one of those things can be me. I have known great joy in my life and profound sadness as well. I say this because it has made me who I am today. I am flawed, and therefore understanding. I can be sarcastic, but never caustic. I am kind, but not weak. I am shy, as well as playful. I love to be silly and laugh. As far as I am concerned, laughter is lifes greatest aphrodisiac. Being comfortable enough with someone that I can let my hair down and sing bad karaoke with is an aspiration of mine. I like to talk about going to the gym but consider it a successful month if I make it there 3 times a month. Your welcome NYSC. It makes me happy that my puppies won't leave my side during a thunderstorm. Dogs love you unconditionally. Oh, and I recycle.

  • Lean

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am looking to try new things and have some fun, I have a busy active life but looking for something that is missing.Looking for a man to spend some time with for everything from curled up on the couch watching tv, sports or a good movie, to going out to check out things happening around us. I divorced in the last two years and have my 2 kids every other week. I am a dedicated Mom but also know that I need to be dedicated to me too I have electic taste in everything from music to sports but not interested in electic food - my food taste is simple and I am not one of those "I will just eat a salad" women! I don't think in a relationship you need to like the exact same things in every area although it is good to have some common interests to share also good to have your own interests and be able to enjoy each other's differences.I state my opinion and am not afraid to like something or not like something!I like to laugh, at myself, life's events or a good comedy. Life is too short! A good google image can brighten a dayI enjoy almost every water sport and activities, I like to try new sports and activities - have tried a lot of things at least once! Have a sense of adventure - willing to try stuff, although may need to be encouraged or at least have my hand held at first.Note I am not interested in spending life in the car, interested in those that live closer... Like to drink, Like to eat and enjoy some good laughter - open to suggestions from coffee to drinks or beyond - just get to know each other

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