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Kali, 45

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About Me

hahaha!... took a break from this site over the summer... and have recently hopped back on... I'm enjoying the entertaining reads ... however...one of your favorite beefs is girls doing the duck face.... I'm surprised at how many of YOU guys do the duck face.... it's just too funny! a bit about me... was married... but that was a looong time ago... have been on my own for a while now... and have been doing juuuuust fine.... I'm a little bit of everything.... not perfect by any means.... I can be grounded and serious... sometimes a little ridiculous .....and I love being in, on and under water ( scuba diving) .... especially escapes to the warm clear waters of the Caribbean..... that covers earth, air and water. As for fire?.... well, I've got that too, but just because all the elements line up, it doesn't mean I'm complete.... There's that one thing missing... that special someone.... cause there's nothing more amazing than being together with someone you really click with... words can't describe how right it feels when conversation flows, and everything fits perfectly, from that simple kiss that you can feel right down to your toes, to snuggling up together as tight as physically possible, but somehow still wanting to be closer ..... and as to what I'm looking for in a man? ........who just wants to hang out, have fun and see where things go.... Laughing is essential ... And, please, please be honest about what you're looking for.... I promise to do the same for you... as in friends first! :o) Update: I may add you to my favourites list... it means that I read something in your profile that piqued my interest... I like to take my time with initial messages, and the list is a good way to keep track and to be sure about making contact...., but, if by chance I do send you a message, please respond with a "yes please" or a "no thank you", it's no fun being left hanging... and rest assured, if it's a "no thank you" I will NOT waste your time or mine.We should never chase love, affection or attention... If it isn't given freely by another person, it isn't worth having.... probably coffee or tea and a chat.... and if things go well... maybe drinks and a bite to eat....however, that first "meet" is just to get a better feel for each other.... after that, if we like each other... we can plan some shenanigans.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joan

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-50

    Lovingfrankie, message me at 952.994.***. Here's the dealio... Looking for my Mr. Right. Love to have fun and live life. Enjoy boating, motorcycles, dancing, Zumba, gymnastics, sand volleyball, the mountains, spontaneous road trips, kissing, hand holding, cuddling, movies, wine tasting... Oh, did I mention kissing.

  • Briar

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Here again, but only briefly, after swearing I wouldn't. Just looking, wanting, and hoping to find THAT PERSON who clicks with the many facets of me. I'm loving, loyal, sarcastic, silly, supportive, outgoing, down to earth, trustworthy, smart, sexy, romantic, passionate, respectful, religious/spiritual...and the list goes on. I love food, great restaurants and wineries. I will travel an hour or so just for that cozy booth at a great place. Wanting to find someone who is willing to take that dirt road and find a place that will eventually be called "ours". My family is my world and they probably rock more than yours (I kid). So family must be a priority of yours as well. My guy needs to be able to wear a suit/tux to escort me to a work event, a play, opera etc...and shorts, t-shirt, flip flops the next day to go to an outdoor concert, or the local dive bar with friends. Love live music and cookouts with friends.I'm brutally honest, and will tell you like it is without hesitation. Not sure if that's always a good thing though so I'm working on that. I'm sarcastic, so you need to roll with the punches and learn to punch back....gently of course. I'm kind and always giving more of myself than I ever receive. I'm a lady and always carry myself with class and dignity, and a girly girl, but the "F" word is my favorite and I tend to drop it often YIKES (I'm working on that too, well not so much). And please make me laugh ~ cause I will crack you up !!! When you have my love you will want for nothing more ~ I'll be the best friend you've ever had. Let's be creative please!! Even if there's no romantic connection between us, I want you walking away smiling and thinking, damn that was a good time!!

  • Nikita

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I was raised by free-thinking, hippie, artists who gave me the gift of self exploration and expression and a sense that anything is possible. I am hard working, self motivated and driven as well as being really good at relaxing and doing nothing :)I am open-minded, open-hearted, and ever evolving.I'm doing my best to live in the moment and experience and enjoy every interaction and situation as it comes without expectation or attachment to outcome.I'm not necessarily searching for my next partner right now. I do want to eventually be in another long term, exclusive relationship and I would like to let that evolve naturally. Right now I am having a blast dating and getting to know some wonderful people.After ending a 20 year marriage it's great to be experiencing myself in relation to men in various forms of friendship and intimacy.I tend to be drawn to people who are bold, open, intelligent, strong, funny and joyful with a little bit of edge or grit...I believe that everyone who comes into our lives is there to teach us something and I am very much looking forward to all that I will learn.I don't drink at all because it doesn't agree with my stomach. I will say though, that I am relaxed and silly enough without it...Being with people who are drinking moderately doesn't bother me one bit. In my opinion the glass is neither half full nor half empty. It's FULL with half air and half liquid. Ha! What I’m doing with my life:Being an awesome mom to three daughters (16, 18 and 20). Holy shit! I have a 20 year old...Running my own business that allows me lots of time to explore other things.I'm the chair of the stewardship and fundraising committee at a kooky, left wing church. I am not at all religious but quite spiritual.I volunteer at CAMH, co-facilitating a skills/support group for parents of teens with severe emotion dysregulation.In the next five years I hope to buy a place in the country and gradually get to a point where I spend half my time there.I recycle and compost but every once in a while, when the fridge gets really bad, I will just dump it all in the garbage...I read a lot of non-fiction. I really enjoy books about spirituality and also sex, I read a lot of books about sex. Both theory and practical... in terms of fiction I mostly read dramas...I also enjoy a trashy magazine (people, us) from time to time.I love going to small intimate performances (cabaret, plays, music, comedy shows)I like all kinds of food and I'm a pretty great cook. I don't eat out very often and I try to focus on eating mostly fresh and healthy food.I don't like eggplant!I think that meeting in person is the best way to really get a sense of each other so let's do that right away :) Just a casual face to face to see if we want to get to know each other a bit more. Coffee or tea, a walk in the park...

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