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Bessie, 45

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About Me

I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. The journey to something more is exciting and making memories together is our reward at the end of the horizon. I'm a laid-back, optimistic, drama-free, and easygoing country girl who enjoys the simpler things in life. I'm looking to start things off slow and see where the journey leads. Life has taken me on many twists and turns, with many exciting adventures along the way. I've had my share of valleys, but no regrets. My baggage has been dealt with, and I'm very happy with my current place in life. However, like all of us, I desire someone to share in my life, walking beside me, making new memories, and traveling the journey together. Physical attraction to me can mean someone's eyes or their smile. I'm past that point in my life where it's all about looks. Good looks fade, but a good heart, loving personality, and upbeat attitude last forever!I'm definitely looking to start off as 'friends first' since every relationship needs a solid foundation upon which to build. You must be respectful, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and affectionate. A positive, laid-back attitude with minimal drama would be appreciated. Disclaimer: I've adopted a new healthier lifestyle in that I'm trying to quit smoking, eating healthier, and exercising more, but it will take time to get to where I want. I'm doing this for me, not to get a man to like me. If this is a problem for you, I don't apologize. I am who I am, no matter my size. Something unique and casual where we can have fun and just be ourselves. The options are as various as there are people. No matter what we do, first date must be 'no pressure, no expectations' ... just two people spending time together, getting to know one another, having fun, and lots of talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a single mother. Two of my children have grown and flew the coop. My youngest daughter just turned 18 and I'm blessed to have such sweet children. I've been divorced from their dad for 15 years and have yet to remarry. But now at that time in my life to meet someone special.I receive a lot of messaging and no follow through. I bore easy when I'm doing all of the "getting to know". If I show interest, it's important if you're interested, to learn about ME. And be honest about you. I'm fun to be around, outgoing and very fair. I'd prefer to be around someone who is not easily tempered and who wants to enjoy life. It would be nice to just meet a gentleman these days. Good people with no major issues on either end are hard to find. I'm a bit old school when it comes to a date i.e. holding the door, a flower... Etc.

  • Marg

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single Mom of two great boys and even though I lead a hectic schedule, I have time for someone in my life. My hours are not always 9-5, especially with being a Mom but I find it interesting not being on a never changing routine every day :-)I love sports!!! I work in the Soccer Industry and love it and enjoy going to all sporting events. I am a down to earth type of girl and would rather have it be Fall weather and wearing a hoodie and jeans, It has been a very very long time since I've really dressed up (dress, etc) for anything. I will if the occasion calls for it and love trying new places to go to but I have not needed to or been taken to places where that attire is needed.I get along good with my kids Dad and his wife and enjoy the simple things out of life. I want to live life every day and have someone to experience that with.I've always been attracted to athletic (football build) type of guys who are "; LOL but I dated someone for a while that was the exact opposite also (skinny cowboy).I've never really had a romantic guy and one that will be my rock or shoulder. I am a very independent girl, but a girl is a girl and sometimes we would love to have a guy feel needed and be "my guy" :-) I wouldn't mind meeting a lunch or a drink so that we can both see if the chemistry is there before any real money is spent on a big dinner, etc! :-)A sporting event would be amazing, even a college one or even something totally out of the "norm" for a date like a one time cooking, dancing or acting class or something that would be fun and make us laugh.I want to get to know you and you me, so anything where we both can relax and be ourselves in the moment.

  • Garnette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I work a lot and free time is precious so I try to make the very best of it. I'm ready to get back out there and see how it goes. I'm not looking for love but if love finds me then that's awesome. Honesty is very important and loyalty is most important. I'm too old to play games and too young to settle for less than I deserve. Ill treat you the way I want to be treated and I'll not ask for more than I'm willing to give. To be determined later...

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