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Bessie, 45

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About Me

I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. The journey to something more is exciting and making memories together is our reward at the end of the horizon. I'm a laid-back, optimistic, drama-free, and easygoing country girl who enjoys the simpler things in life. I'm looking to start things off slow and see where the journey leads. Life has taken me on many twists and turns, with many exciting adventures along the way. I've had my share of valleys, but no regrets. My baggage has been dealt with, and I'm very happy with my current place in life. However, like all of us, I desire someone to share in my life, walking beside me, making new memories, and traveling the journey together. Physical attraction to me can mean someone's eyes or their smile. I'm past that point in my life where it's all about looks. Good looks fade, but a good heart, loving personality, and upbeat attitude last forever!I'm definitely looking to start off as 'friends first' since every relationship needs a solid foundation upon which to build. You must be respectful, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and affectionate. A positive, laid-back attitude with minimal drama would be appreciated. Disclaimer: I've adopted a new healthier lifestyle in that I'm trying to quit smoking, eating healthier, and exercising more, but it will take time to get to where I want. I'm doing this for me, not to get a man to like me. If this is a problem for you, I don't apologize. I am who I am, no matter my size. Something unique and casual where we can have fun and just be ourselves. The options are as various as there are people. No matter what we do, first date must be 'no pressure, no expectations' ... just two people spending time together, getting to know one another, having fun, and lots of talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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  • Alene

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello to all the single, Unattached, Committed to Having a Committed RELATIONSHIP, Non Psychotic, OVER YOUR PAST, Aspiring "MALES", Actively Seeking A "RELATIONSHIP", NO hook ups, Casual Dating, Hang Out, etc!!!!! I am a feisty red head yes, yes I am! I am enjoying my life,, missing that special person to share it with though!I am a easy going person, I love to explore and enjoy the outdoors! Nature is a beautiful thing! Camping, hiking, sailing, fishing, road trips! I enjoy soccer, swimming,Baseball, Dodgeball, campfires, nice home cooked dinner with a bottle of wine, snuggling on the couch watching a movie with a bowl of buttery popcorn!! Sharing an ice-cream cone!Music is a big part of my life! Love the 60,70,80's old rock!""Enjoy movies of all sorts!! Scarry movies are great!Spending time with my friends either a night in or out dancing, cards, board games,laughter, cooking up a new recipe!I am a very hands on girl, not afraid to learn or do new things example, working on cars, home renos, etc!! I like to keep busy, but in my downtime, I like to relax, live life on Life's terms, enjoying the day/night however it may unfold!I am genuinely an easy going person, unless provoked otherwise! LolVery passionate, caring, loving, giving, and a great sense of humor! Meet at a mutual place! Something casual, relaxed atmosphere! Drinks, Dinner,, Coffee, really is that all you can come up with? It was mentioned to me that it usually takes three times to meet someone, or to actually give that person a fair chance!First time both are nervous, trying to impress!Second feel more comfortable, opening up moreThird you let your true self be known!Of course sometimes you just know from the First that the Third has already shone through!! "Walk away!"Cheers,,

  • Zelia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a happy, content and successful business owner looking for someone who enjoys life in a positive way, every day like I try to do... Not saying that life is perfect, No one lives a perfect life. I try to keep positive people in my circle, had enough negativity, done with that, do what you can do, and go on. No worries. I am mom to four fantastic kiddos, one still living at home. I don't mind if you have kiddos, home or away.. The more the merrier! Faith, family, friends and SOONER Football are my life. I am NOT, looking for a fling.... Easy, fast, or loose. If that's what you are looking for, keep looking. I am independent, adventurous, happy, sweet, sensitive, secure, and sexy. You make time for me, I have the time for you.An awesome date for me:On the back of a bike with the wind in my hair. On the lake with some good tunes and an ice cold beverage. Football.. Enough said. Movie, dinner, walk,, get a little close. Concert Just quiet time... At home, kicked back. I am still friends with my ex, problem...? Move on. Still interested? Let's talk and see what we have in common. No games, no lies, no cheaters. We can both decide.. Or, surprises are really nice too.

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