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Bessie, 45

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About Me

I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. The journey to something more is exciting and making memories together is our reward at the end of the horizon. I'm a laid-back, optimistic, drama-free, and easygoing country girl who enjoys the simpler things in life. I'm looking to start things off slow and see where the journey leads. Life has taken me on many twists and turns, with many exciting adventures along the way. I've had my share of valleys, but no regrets. My baggage has been dealt with, and I'm very happy with my current place in life. However, like all of us, I desire someone to share in my life, walking beside me, making new memories, and traveling the journey together. Physical attraction to me can mean someone's eyes or their smile. I'm past that point in my life where it's all about looks. Good looks fade, but a good heart, loving personality, and upbeat attitude last forever!I'm definitely looking to start off as 'friends first' since every relationship needs a solid foundation upon which to build. You must be respectful, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and affectionate. A positive, laid-back attitude with minimal drama would be appreciated. Disclaimer: I've adopted a new healthier lifestyle in that I'm trying to quit smoking, eating healthier, and exercising more, but it will take time to get to where I want. I'm doing this for me, not to get a man to like me. If this is a problem for you, I don't apologize. I am who I am, no matter my size. Something unique and casual where we can have fun and just be ourselves. The options are as various as there are people. No matter what we do, first date must be 'no pressure, no expectations' ... just two people spending time together, getting to know one another, having fun, and lots of talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joycelyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm attracted to people with a fairly high level of energy and "fun factor". I'm looking for someone with integrity, good communication skills, and respect and tolerance for others. I'd like someone who can challenge me, make me think, and show me new things. I promise to do the same for you! I want to be able to carry on a conversation with you about a wide variety of topics, and have it just feel easy. I'm well grounded and self-sufficient. I have a zest for life, and a smile comes pretty easily for me. I hope the same is true for you. I really enjoy participating in, and watching sports. Exercise is important to me, and I would need to be with someone who also values health and fitness. I would expect you to hop on a bicycle and go for a ride with me. I would want you to grab a tennis racquet and play a game with me. I would not ask you to participate in a Zumba class with me. As a matter of fact, I would probably ask you not to. (You could watch though) Although I generally eat pretty healthy, I usually don't go a day without some chocolate. It's all about moderation, right? We have a great time playing games and sports together. I have a pretty good spiral for a lefty. My 2 sons mean the world to me and I have to admit that I'm fairly busy with them, but I feel like it's important to have balance in life. They are getting to the ages where they'd rather be hanging out with their friends, not me. I've got family and terrific neighbors who are always volunteering to take the boys for a day/night/weekend. I'm single because of the sudden death of my husband 4 years ago. The boys and I are happy, thriving actually, but I do know that I'd prefer to have someone special in my life again. I'm looking forward to hearing from you!

  • Abegail

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a very caring & loyal person. My hobbies are playing on my computer, riding horses,I like to walk my dogs after I get home from work. My goal is trying to work on a nursing degree since I have already got my CNA. My kind pf music is country. I like the old country better than the new country they play today.; Martina mcBride. I love & enjoy life. U never know when it will be your last. First date should be two people getting to know one another. To c if there is any chemistry between us. Take it one step at a time..

  • Jimmie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First..if you have on your profile you want a relationship..then mean it. If you want someone to date til something better comes along then say so...I want to find someone who is honest about what they want. Let me make the decision from there if its the same as what I may want. Ok..enough said on that. .lol.Im not going to ramble on about myself ..Ill just say I am a caring person who has been threw alot and wants to meet someone who I can enjoy and who enjoys me. Im very playful and love to spoil my man ....Looking for a fun, outgoing person who doesnt like to just always sit around at home. I want to go out and live life and have a partner to do it with.I am open for anything really..if we meet and we are friends great, if we date more, even better, if it turns seriouse...well,..lets just start from step one...and go from thereIm just saying let things happen they way they should...If you go searching hard you wont find whats ment to be.....I am fun, outgoing, and dont let too much really stress me out. I learned to just let things be what they are....There is soo much more, but we have to save something for the first date...right? lol I want to meet someone who can be my partner in crime and just have FUN!! I just want to meet a nice guy who wants to go out and have fun and let whatever happen...happen!!!As far as a first date...lets get past the cliche "meet for coffee" I hate coffee anyways..lol Lets go for a drive, a picnic, a concert ! or just run around naked in the park and see how long it takes people to notify the police,..just kidding. Im just saying lets go have some fun....

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