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Bessie, 45

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About Me

I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. The journey to something more is exciting and making memories together is our reward at the end of the horizon. I'm a laid-back, optimistic, drama-free, and easygoing country girl who enjoys the simpler things in life. I'm looking to start things off slow and see where the journey leads. Life has taken me on many twists and turns, with many exciting adventures along the way. I've had my share of valleys, but no regrets. My baggage has been dealt with, and I'm very happy with my current place in life. However, like all of us, I desire someone to share in my life, walking beside me, making new memories, and traveling the journey together. Physical attraction to me can mean someone's eyes or their smile. I'm past that point in my life where it's all about looks. Good looks fade, but a good heart, loving personality, and upbeat attitude last forever!I'm definitely looking to start off as 'friends first' since every relationship needs a solid foundation upon which to build. You must be respectful, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and affectionate. A positive, laid-back attitude with minimal drama would be appreciated. Disclaimer: I've adopted a new healthier lifestyle in that I'm trying to quit smoking, eating healthier, and exercising more, but it will take time to get to where I want. I'm doing this for me, not to get a man to like me. If this is a problem for you, I don't apologize. I am who I am, no matter my size. Something unique and casual where we can have fun and just be ourselves. The options are as various as there are people. No matter what we do, first date must be 'no pressure, no expectations' ... just two people spending time together, getting to know one another, having fun, and lots of talking.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jilly

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a musician at heart and do sing professionally. I like being outdoors (let the sun shine). I don't care how hot and humid it can get, I love the beach. A good fire burning in the backyard in the fall is nice too. Meeting people is easy for me. People watching fascinates me and maybe that's why I like to be out and about at a coffee shop, park, on my porch watching neighbors and saying Hello.I have a wry sense of humor and love cracking jokes. I am looking forward to kicking cancers ass and am doing chemo right now. I expect new boobs in May...I'm thinking D's.I enjoy reading, writing, socializing, listening to rain, music (all kinds) and culture. I love zoos!

  • Zelia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a happy, content and successful business owner looking for someone who enjoys life in a positive way, every day like I try to do... Not saying that life is perfect, No one lives a perfect life. I try to keep positive people in my circle, had enough negativity, done with that, do what you can do, and go on. No worries. I am mom to four fantastic kiddos, one still living at home. I don't mind if you have kiddos, home or away.. The more the merrier! Faith, family, friends and SOONER Football are my life. I am NOT, looking for a fling.... Easy, fast, or loose. If that's what you are looking for, keep looking. I am independent, adventurous, happy, sweet, sensitive, secure, and sexy. You make time for me, I have the time for you.An awesome date for me:On the back of a bike with the wind in my hair. On the lake with some good tunes and an ice cold beverage. Football.. Enough said. Movie, dinner, walk,, get a little close. Concert Just quiet time... At home, kicked back. I am still friends with my ex, problem...? Move on. Still interested? Let's talk and see what we have in common. No games, no lies, no cheaters. We can both decide.. Or, surprises are really nice too.

  • Tamisha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Let me make this clear and simple. I am NOT interested in the following:1) Dating anyone outside of my race2) A guy who just wants sex without taking the time to get to know me and treat me with respectI would like a nice, decent guy who is funny, considerate, and willing to accept me for who I am. That includes faults and all. I intend to provide the same in return. Overall, I think I'm a pretty simple, straightforward, woman who likes to have fun and enjoy life when I get a chance. I enjoy traveling and experiencing new things. I can usually be content and find something interesting no matter where I go. My outlook is laid back and down to earth. Eventually, I would like an opportunity to fall in love and live happily ever after. Until then, I'll just be content with whatever hand life deals my way. If I've added you as a favorite, that means I have read your profile and am interested. Feel free to write back if the feeling is mutual. Thanks and good luck. My idea of a first date would be a casual meeting maybe for a simple lunch or snack. I would like to have a good conversation that sparks an interest in getting to know the other person better.

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