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Toshiko, 42
United States, Minnesota, Prior Lake

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About Me

"If you want to come into my life the door is open. If you want to walk out of my life, the door is open. Just one request. Don't stand at the door, you are blocking traffic." ~UnknownWalk through that door and you will find a strong, passionate, active person who gives everything to those that matter. No drama, no games, no act, what you see is what you get.So about me..I believe in:- Being Honest; we are adults here (well some more then others) if your into each other great if not then we tell each other and move on....simple right? - Deep passionate kisses; if we kiss I expect to be kissed back..- Having my partners back; trust, moving mountains together, stand with and for what we believe in. I will always be your biggest fan, and keep you true to yourself.- Acting silly; I like to have fun, I can be quick witted and enjoy doing things completely out of the norm.- A strong physical connection (yes that means passion, heat, call it what you want it is important in any relationship). - Physical well-being; I take care of myself, workout regularly, eat clean. I am in the best shape of my life. I refuse to get or feel old, ever.- Working hard; I take pride in what I do and enjoy doing it. I can handle the daily grind as well as role up my sleeves and get dirty.- Playing harder; I live life, I do not watch it pass me by. Wanna play ;)So what am I looking for?In short, I am looking for a partner with some of the same beliefs that I have. Someone who I know has my back and I have theirs. Someone to laugh with, have fun, and live life. I want someone to act silly with, someone who treats me well and enjoys spending time with me. Said another way, makes me feel wanted, desired, important in their life.... You do not need to be into the gym, however you should take care of yourself, respect your body. Of course I would enjoy having a workout partner.The door is open and I am open to all possibilities and seeing what is on the other side if that is where the path leads us. Dating starts it off, where we go from there is entirely up to us. If you decide to walk out the door I will let you go. I want some one who wants to be in my life and will make the effort to be there. Something low key, coffee or drinks, just to see if we have a mutual spark that we would both like to explore.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Salsa Playing Cards Canadian French German South American Vietnamese Drag Racing Volleyball Play Sport Games
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

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