Total users: 59,547,566 Online users: 214,660
Jillie, 41
United States, Minnesota, Plainview

Offline, last seen Tue, 21 Oct 2025 18:29:13

About Me

About me:I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! I am fun loving and love to have a great time, and am someone that fully believes that laughter truly is the best medicine. I’m the first one to laugh at myself and my funny ways. I can be sarcastic and quick-witted, but never malicious or mean. I like it when we can banter back and forth and have fun. I tend to be a little flirty, but only with you. Even though I love to laugh and have a good time, I know when to be serious and responsible. I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach, a picnic, riding our beach cruisers, camping (I LOVE CAMPING).’t stop smiling on their desert ride and mostly enjoying the campfire with someone special at my side. But a hotel stay is amazingly glorious I can always camp with or without my man. I also love watching the kids play their sports. I consider myself to be open to new experiences and I’m hoping experience those with you. I love celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, HONEST, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make any time the best of times. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but if I think you are wrong I will tell you and I hope that you would do the same for me. About My PartnerI smile when I think of you. If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are also responsible and mature, things are off to a great start. I’d like to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore my wacky laughter & comments. I am looking for a man that is confident, a man who can be playful, but can keep it real when necessary. I'm looking for a man that is funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe. A man who can give amazing bear hugs just when I need them. A man who can send a quick note just because he thought of me. I want someone that knows where their priorities are and what true happiness is. I want to share both our passions, some of mine, some of yours, some new ones we find together. I want to eventually enjoy my children and or your children together, but only after a deep relationship is formed. I am looking for a guy that I can get lost in conversation with just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each other’s arms. I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. If you own a toolbox, and better yet, know what to do with it, or think it’s funny when I snort as I laugh, extra bonus points for you!My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit & watch your sporting event while I’m on ***'m entirely content. A warm and comforting cuddle are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. My Idea of a Perfect First Date:It doesn't involve a chain restaurant and it won't be a movie. It only needs to involve you and me and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night.Please be polite and a communicator. If we do meet, and you aren't feeling it, please let me know. Don't just disappear.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek Indian Middle Eastern Portuguese Biography Horror Ice Hockey
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Bridgette from Plainview | Woman | 41 years old | Leo
    Bridgette

    Offline

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Fun, loving, caring, compassionate, responsible, sexy, and friendly - What else could I say... I like myself. I have been told by my friends that I am "good for the soul". I am easy to talk to, listen attentively, have a wonderful relationship with my family, enjoy playing with my dog ***lb American Bulldog), and have the ability to really enjoy life. I do not have any kids, and have never been married. I am my best "me" when I am laughing and enjoying my life with the right person. I love hip/hop, old school R&B, jazz, oldies, some rock and alternative. I am currently working on my doctorate degree in clinical psychology. First dates are hard! Its usually an awkward situation, both people are a bit nervous, which usually results in me smiling a lot due to the anticipation! So, I prefer to keep first dates on a pretty low expectation and make them as casual as possible. I want to get to know you, sense how it feels to sit with you, look at you, etc., so the movies are out, the club (no way), some packed restaurant- uhmm no. Lets just go find a place to relax, get to know one another, and if we click - then we can start doing more activities and exploring our interests on the next date. But for the first date, yep its important to begin the process of knowing you. It sometimes feels like an interview, I hate that! Therefore, impress me with your character not your wallet.

    Chat
  • Torie from Plainview | Woman | 41 years old | Virgo
    Torie

    Offline

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I graduated as a nurse, realized that might not have been the right choice for me. Came to the States for vacation, somehow ended up as a nanny, and here we are 15 plus years later, still in L.A. Still a nanny. I have been blessed to have helped participate in raising some awesome dudes and dudettes, while allowing enough free time for myself to keep myself busy with my personal joys, like photography. I am more the kind of girl who crawls around the bushes to get the perfect shot of a bug, but at the same time will be up and running in 5 minutes to enjoy listening to some of my musician friends play at night. Or just as happy curled up on the couch, editing photos or watching a movie. I have a few close friends, whom I consider family. And in my home you will find the furry, tail wagging, meowing and rock diving kind of family. I also try to spend time helping out with pet rescue.What I am looking for....I don't have a list. I enjoy life and inspire to keep learning and growing. Hopefully you feel the same way. I have tried very hard to throw out ideas to the Universe as to how I figure my Zen life should play out. And I have to agree, though I whine and moan every time life throws me some curve ball, I know was NOT on my list of three wishes, it has always worked out in way better ways than I could have ever imagined. So I am going to try the same approach to the finding of the knight on the shining armored horse...or something like that :) Though I think the "you complete me", sounds really romantic. I always liked the idea more of, not standing face to face so much..but back to back, looking out to the world together. Everything else has a way of working itself out. Added note. Ultimately I would love to find that one special someone. But I also think these things grow naturally. No pressure, enjoy getting to know each other. See where the shiny armored horse takes us :)I think that sums me up a little bit. If you made it this far and are still interested, I would love to hear from you.Good luck :)Kat It might be boring, but coffee it is. If we survive that, all bets are off :)

    Chat
  • Shanna from Plainview | Woman | 41 years old | Leo
    Shanna

    Offline

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like to dance so naturally I like something with a beat. If your just lookin to get laid I'm sure there are PLENTY OF FISH (hahaha)on here for that. I If you can't handle the truth then I'm not your girl. I am looking for something serious and real. And if you don't like little dogs then I'm not your girl again, my boys are a very big part of me. I am not giving up the dogs for a relationship. I see it happen all the time and its just sad and its not me. So yeah there it is. And wow a lot of "interested" but nobody brave enough to *** yes I REALLY do like to do all the things I've listed the problem is finding the time and someone to do them with. If there is anything else you would like to know just ask....emails do work. Obviously I'm a bit of a smart ass.Also I like kids, just because I don't have any doesn't mean I don't like them. I have no idea that would depend on the person and the situation. Maybe coffee,a movie, a hike and a picnic, I don't know.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: