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Marty, 45
United States, Minnesota, Plainview

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About Me

I am middle aged but have a young son still at home so I feel younger than most my age. I like to study, go to the beach, gamble and hang out with family and friends. I love all music but am most drawn to older R & B or soft rock, however I probably know some from every genre. I work and go to school and raise my child alone so at first someone would need to fit themselves into my life however as soon as I fall for them I can make time. I want to meet a nice person who is easy going and will make me laugh I am lonely but I am not looking for strictly a sexual thing (maybe 15 years ago) but now I want to have companionship. If you would like talk to me you never know what might come out of a little conversation. Side note: I have a child (however that child has a Daddy) so if you are not sure do not waste my time!! I should also mention that I am the most straight forward person you will ever meet so if you ask I will answer, I hide nothing. On a lighter note I just really want to get past all the pre relationship crap and act like we have been together for years ( you know comfortable) after like the first two dates, so if you are like me and can decide if you like someone and can handle most of their bull ***quickly then we might have a chance. I am not trying to scare anyone and I will not fall for just anyone, but I am tired of feeling like I am in an interrogation or on probation for weeks or even months to be in a relationship. Okay I promise I am a fun and friendly person and no more conditions but I really am lonely for a real relationship. Would say coffee but do not drink it so I will say maybe bar/restaurant so if a drink goes well maybe stay for a meal. If that is too heavy then a BBQ with all 70 of my family members is definately out right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Gardening English Mexican Thai
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