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Marty, 45

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About Me

I am middle aged but have a young son still at home so I feel younger than most my age. I like to study, go to the beach, gamble and hang out with family and friends. I love all music but am most drawn to older R & B or soft rock, however I probably know some from every genre. I work and go to school and raise my child alone so at first someone would need to fit themselves into my life however as soon as I fall for them I can make time. I want to meet a nice person who is easy going and will make me laugh I am lonely but I am not looking for strictly a sexual thing (maybe 15 years ago) but now I want to have companionship. If you would like talk to me you never know what might come out of a little conversation. Side note: I have a child (however that child has a Daddy) so if you are not sure do not waste my time!! I should also mention that I am the most straight forward person you will ever meet so if you ask I will answer, I hide nothing. On a lighter note I just really want to get past all the pre relationship crap and act like we have been together for years ( you know comfortable) after like the first two dates, so if you are like me and can decide if you like someone and can handle most of their bull ***quickly then we might have a chance. I am not trying to scare anyone and I will not fall for just anyone, but I am tired of feeling like I am in an interrogation or on probation for weeks or even months to be in a relationship. Okay I promise I am a fun and friendly person and no more conditions but I really am lonely for a real relationship. Would say coffee but do not drink it so I will say maybe bar/restaurant so if a drink goes well maybe stay for a meal. If that is too heavy then a BBQ with all 70 of my family members is definately out right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    we all have a preference for who we are attracted to...for me it's a man taller than me and black.so for starters, i'm not interested in dating for $hits and giggles...i'm serious. and i hope you are, too. i work a lot and it can be taxing since i work odd days/hours, but i will make time for things and people that are important to me. i'm a pretty simple girl. i like to wear jeans and a t-sirt and be comfy, but i also enjoy playing dress-up for a hot night on the town! i'm super honest. and i expect honesty in return. i like to dance, bbq, go shooting, and play poker...not necessarily in that order. one more thing - holding hands and kissing are important.

  • Jillie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    About me:I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! I am fun loving and love to have a great time, and am someone that fully believes that laughter truly is the best medicine. I’m the first one to laugh at myself and my funny ways. I can be sarcastic and quick-witted, but never malicious or mean. I like it when we can banter back and forth and have fun. I tend to be a little flirty, but only with you. Even though I love to laugh and have a good time, I know when to be serious and responsible. I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach, a picnic, riding our beach cruisers, camping (I LOVE CAMPING).’t stop smiling on their desert ride and mostly enjoying the campfire with someone special at my side. But a hotel stay is amazingly glorious I can always camp with or without my man. I also love watching the kids play their sports. I consider myself to be open to new experiences and I’m hoping experience those with you. I love celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, HONEST, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make any time the best of times. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but if I think you are wrong I will tell you and I hope that you would do the same for me. About My PartnerI smile when I think of you. If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are also responsible and mature, things are off to a great start. I’d like to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore my wacky laughter & comments. I am looking for a man that is confident, a man who can be playful, but can keep it real when necessary. I'm looking for a man that is funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe. A man who can give amazing bear hugs just when I need them. A man who can send a quick note just because he thought of me. I want someone that knows where their priorities are and what true happiness is. I want to share both our passions, some of mine, some of yours, some new ones we find together. I want to eventually enjoy my children and or your children together, but only after a deep relationship is formed. I am looking for a guy that I can get lost in conversation with just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each other’s arms. I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. If you own a toolbox, and better yet, know what to do with it, or think it’s funny when I snort as I laugh, extra bonus points for you!My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit & watch your sporting event while I’m on ***'m entirely content. A warm and comforting cuddle are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. My Idea of a Perfect First Date:It doesn't involve a chain restaurant and it won't be a movie. It only needs to involve you and me and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night.Please be polite and a communicator. If we do meet, and you aren't feeling it, please let me know. Don't just disappear.

  • Eladia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm not one who likes to talk about myself, but here goes. I am a woman who loves to laugh and make others laugh. I can usually find something fun and positive in any situation. I have a playful, sassy, sarcastic side, but can be serious when it is needed. I love a good concert or a great movie. I enjoy Sundays curled up on the couch. Wanna join me?I am an independent woman. However, like most people on here, I'm in search of that special someone to spend my life with. With that said, I'm not the type of person that will demand all of your time. I have no qualms if you need/want "you" time and/or time out with the boys! I have a seven year old daughter that keeps me on my toes. We are a package deal so liking children is a must. I am not looking for a father for her. Her dad is very much a part of her life. In a relationship, I am looking for several things. First, I am looking for someone who is trustworthy. Communication is important as well. I want someone who is able to be open with me about how they are feeling and what is going on in their life. I am also looking for someone who is mature, but at the same time, can be fun and has a great sense if humor. I just want someone who is real and genuine and looking for a good person as well Depends on the person I'm with.

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