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About Me

Fun, loving, caring, compassionate, responsible, sexy, and friendly - What else could I say... I like myself. I have been told by my friends that I am "good for the soul". I am easy to talk to, listen attentively, have a wonderful relationship with my family, enjoy playing with my dog ***lb American Bulldog), and have the ability to really enjoy life. I do not have any kids, and have never been married. I am my best "me" when I am laughing and enjoying my life with the right person. I love hip/hop, old school R&B, jazz, oldies, some rock and alternative. I am currently working on my doctorate degree in clinical psychology. First dates are hard! Its usually an awkward situation, both people are a bit nervous, which usually results in me smiling a lot due to the anticipation! So, I prefer to keep first dates on a pretty low expectation and make them as casual as possible. I want to get to know you, sense how it feels to sit with you, look at you, etc., so the movies are out, the club (no way), some packed restaurant- uhmm no. Lets just go find a place to relax, get to know one another, and if we click - then we can start doing more activities and exploring our interests on the next date. But for the first date, yep its important to begin the process of knowing you. It sometimes feels like an interview, I hate that! Therefore, impress me with your character not your wallet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kalysta

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Where to begin... I'm tender hearted, kind, and sincere. I try to be the best person I can be and seek God's will for my life. I'm very honest and expect honesty in return, even if it's not what I want to hear. My life is great, but I would love to meet someone, get to know them and for them to put forth the effort in getting to know me. My IM feature doesn't always work so if I don't respond, you'll know why.Now, to get to the very truth of the matter. My life is not typical. My schedule, my job is not typical. I work long hours. Sometimes it's 7 days a week. I will admit to being a workaholic because I truly enjoy it. I have to have some space. So, with that, in the beginning stages of getting to know someone I'm not going to be able to see you everyday nor will you be able to come over every day. Talking each day - yep I can do that. Just be considerate of the fact I still have a child at home that also needs my attention.Is it going to be difficult to find someone who will fit into my life and me in theirs? Yes, I know it will. I've been single for eight years now so believe I know. But I felt the truth should be told before any more of you contact me. So if you can handle an unconventional relationship then write me. If you can't, I truly understand. By unconventional I do not mean "Open". I am by no means into an open relationship. I don't share. I mean I'm not the female that's gonna be home every afternoon cooking dinner for you. Sometimes I will, and maybe sometimes, you could cook for me. :) Anything fun that will give me the opportunity to get to know someone better.I don't like movies on the first date because you can't talk during the movie.

  • Jillie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    About me:I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! I am fun loving and love to have a great time, and am someone that fully believes that laughter truly is the best medicine. I’m the first one to laugh at myself and my funny ways. I can be sarcastic and quick-witted, but never malicious or mean. I like it when we can banter back and forth and have fun. I tend to be a little flirty, but only with you. Even though I love to laugh and have a good time, I know when to be serious and responsible. I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical walk on the beach, a picnic, riding our beach cruisers, camping (I LOVE CAMPING).’t stop smiling on their desert ride and mostly enjoying the campfire with someone special at my side. But a hotel stay is amazingly glorious I can always camp with or without my man. I also love watching the kids play their sports. I consider myself to be open to new experiences and I’m hoping experience those with you. I love celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, HONEST, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make any time the best of times. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but if I think you are wrong I will tell you and I hope that you would do the same for me. About My PartnerI smile when I think of you. If you like to have fun and consider yourself to be spontaneous yet are also responsible and mature, things are off to a great start. I’d like to meet someone who will introduce me to new things, adore my wacky laughter & comments. I am looking for a man that is confident, a man who can be playful, but can keep it real when necessary. I'm looking for a man that is funny, handsome, patient, responsible, loyal and that makes me feel safe. A man who can give amazing bear hugs just when I need them. A man who can send a quick note just because he thought of me. I want someone that knows where their priorities are and what true happiness is. I want to share both our passions, some of mine, some of yours, some new ones we find together. I want to eventually enjoy my children and or your children together, but only after a deep relationship is formed. I am looking for a guy that I can get lost in conversation with just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each other’s arms. I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. If you own a toolbox, and better yet, know what to do with it, or think it’s funny when I snort as I laugh, extra bonus points for you!My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit & watch your sporting event while I’m on ***'m entirely content. A warm and comforting cuddle are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. My Idea of a Perfect First Date:It doesn't involve a chain restaurant and it won't be a movie. It only needs to involve you and me and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night.Please be polite and a communicator. If we do meet, and you aren't feeling it, please let me know. Don't just disappear.

  • Marty

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am middle aged but have a young son still at home so I feel younger than most my age. I like to study, go to the beach, gamble and hang out with family and friends. I love all music but am most drawn to older R & B or soft rock, however I probably know some from every genre. I work and go to school and raise my child alone so at first someone would need to fit themselves into my life however as soon as I fall for them I can make time. I want to meet a nice person who is easy going and will make me laugh I am lonely but I am not looking for strictly a sexual thing (maybe 15 years ago) but now I want to have companionship. If you would like talk to me you never know what might come out of a little conversation. Side note: I have a child (however that child has a Daddy) so if you are not sure do not waste my time!! I should also mention that I am the most straight forward person you will ever meet so if you ask I will answer, I hide nothing. On a lighter note I just really want to get past all the pre relationship crap and act like we have been together for years ( you know comfortable) after like the first two dates, so if you are like me and can decide if you like someone and can handle most of their bull ***quickly then we might have a chance. I am not trying to scare anyone and I will not fall for just anyone, but I am tired of feeling like I am in an interrogation or on probation for weeks or even months to be in a relationship. Okay I promise I am a fun and friendly person and no more conditions but I really am lonely for a real relationship. Would say coffee but do not drink it so I will say maybe bar/restaurant so if a drink goes well maybe stay for a meal. If that is too heavy then a BBQ with all 70 of my family members is definately out right?

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