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Bridgette, 41
United States, Minnesota, Plainview

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About Me

Fun, loving, caring, compassionate, responsible, sexy, and friendly - What else could I say... I like myself. I have been told by my friends that I am "good for the soul". I am easy to talk to, listen attentively, have a wonderful relationship with my family, enjoy playing with my dog ***lb American Bulldog), and have the ability to really enjoy life. I do not have any kids, and have never been married. I am my best "me" when I am laughing and enjoying my life with the right person. I love hip/hop, old school R&B, jazz, oldies, some rock and alternative. I am currently working on my doctorate degree in clinical psychology. First dates are hard! Its usually an awkward situation, both people are a bit nervous, which usually results in me smiling a lot due to the anticipation! So, I prefer to keep first dates on a pretty low expectation and make them as casual as possible. I want to get to know you, sense how it feels to sit with you, look at you, etc., so the movies are out, the club (no way), some packed restaurant- uhmm no. Lets just go find a place to relax, get to know one another, and if we click - then we can start doing more activities and exploring our interests on the next date. But for the first date, yep its important to begin the process of knowing you. It sometimes feels like an interview, I hate that! Therefore, impress me with your character not your wallet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae British Canadian Caribbean German Spanish Documentary History Horror Sport
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