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Bridgette, 41

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About Me

Fun, loving, caring, compassionate, responsible, sexy, and friendly - What else could I say... I like myself. I have been told by my friends that I am "good for the soul". I am easy to talk to, listen attentively, have a wonderful relationship with my family, enjoy playing with my dog ***lb American Bulldog), and have the ability to really enjoy life. I do not have any kids, and have never been married. I am my best "me" when I am laughing and enjoying my life with the right person. I love hip/hop, old school R&B, jazz, oldies, some rock and alternative. I am currently working on my doctorate degree in clinical psychology. First dates are hard! Its usually an awkward situation, both people are a bit nervous, which usually results in me smiling a lot due to the anticipation! So, I prefer to keep first dates on a pretty low expectation and make them as casual as possible. I want to get to know you, sense how it feels to sit with you, look at you, etc., so the movies are out, the club (no way), some packed restaurant- uhmm no. Lets just go find a place to relax, get to know one another, and if we click - then we can start doing more activities and exploring our interests on the next date. But for the first date, yep its important to begin the process of knowing you. It sometimes feels like an interview, I hate that! Therefore, impress me with your character not your wallet.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Elizbeth

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Separated Mom of two teenagers, seeks a mate to enjoy quality time with. I'm coming off of a long marriage and miss the butterfly stage. A perfect date would be packing a picnic lunch at the park or traveling up to the wine country and tasting some fabulous wines.. so picturesque and breath taking!!! I am the epitome of Scarlett O'hara in personality, but awkwardly shy when you first meet me. I love the Fifty Shades of Grey Trilogy, that I just finished and have so many angles to me that Freud could never figure me out. I am a tall woman and prefer my men at least 5'***that's pushing it) or taller. I like wearing heels and looking up to my dates. Now that I've scared all you men off, my music preference is Damien Rice, Adele (although she needs to come up with some new material), 80's rockers like Knight Ranger, Whitesnake, Aerosmith, Van Halen, etc. and '90's dance mix. That's me in a nutshell! Ciao! Yes, I'm Italian with all the hot blood, sass and .passion to go with it. I'm studying to be a stenographer so I'm a bit of a bookworm with tons of homework and about 2 years of completion ahead of me but its great money in the end and I'm in the 95%tile of my class (FYI). It's not an easy degree. It has a 90% dropout rate. Think of all the career paths you can take and this one has the highest drop out rate of all! There is a reason why. Also, it's the highest paid associates degree out there and I know why...you have to be one smart cookie to get through this. I WILL get through this. Ooops. Think I already put this in the earlier paragraph. Lol.

  • Torie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I graduated as a nurse, realized that might not have been the right choice for me. Came to the States for vacation, somehow ended up as a nanny, and here we are 15 plus years later, still in L.A. Still a nanny. I have been blessed to have helped participate in raising some awesome dudes and dudettes, while allowing enough free time for myself to keep myself busy with my personal joys, like photography. I am more the kind of girl who crawls around the bushes to get the perfect shot of a bug, but at the same time will be up and running in 5 minutes to enjoy listening to some of my musician friends play at night. Or just as happy curled up on the couch, editing photos or watching a movie. I have a few close friends, whom I consider family. And in my home you will find the furry, tail wagging, meowing and rock diving kind of family. I also try to spend time helping out with pet rescue.What I am looking for....I don't have a list. I enjoy life and inspire to keep learning and growing. Hopefully you feel the same way. I have tried very hard to throw out ideas to the Universe as to how I figure my Zen life should play out. And I have to agree, though I whine and moan every time life throws me some curve ball, I know was NOT on my list of three wishes, it has always worked out in way better ways than I could have ever imagined. So I am going to try the same approach to the finding of the knight on the shining armored horse...or something like that :) Though I think the "you complete me", sounds really romantic. I always liked the idea more of, not standing face to face so much..but back to back, looking out to the world together. Everything else has a way of working itself out. Added note. Ultimately I would love to find that one special someone. But I also think these things grow naturally. No pressure, enjoy getting to know each other. See where the shiny armored horse takes us :)I think that sums me up a little bit. If you made it this far and are still interested, I would love to hear from you.Good luck :)Kat It might be boring, but coffee it is. If we survive that, all bets are off :)

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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