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Hephzibah, 42

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About Me

It's a long commute, but I don't work a 40-hour week so, it's do-able. I love to laugh and I do it often. I love to travel. I love exploring around the Bay Area and beyond. I am a very active person so I'm always up for something fun. I love being outdoors. I'm easy-going. I enjoy spending time with my family, who live close-by. I have a good heart and like to give. I'm independent. I like sharing my time with people I really care about. I can take a joke even if it's at my expense (-: I like to talk and listen, if it's interesting conversation. I am fine not talking or listening--I'm not afraid of silence. I can be introspective. I'm also outgoing. I am very empathetic to others' plights and pride myself on keeping an open mind. I enjoy a challenge and thrive on the execution of a plan. I also love spontaneity and am a romantic at heart...For my date to feel right for me he would be: kind, considerate, happy, funny, sarcastic, interesting, interested, easy to laugh, secure, charming, comfortable, attractive, tall, warm, open, respectful, polite to the wait staff, sincere, masculine, easy to talk to and easy to please...Hmmm, sounds like a lot when it's listed out like this. What the hell, let's just start with chemistry first! The rest is negotiable (-: Meeting at a coffee house or local bar is good. Have a cup or a drink and introduce ourselves. If we hit it off=easy conversation and there is that spark of chemistry, we take a walk around the neighborhood and find a place to eat where we can continue to get to know each other. Dessert maybe?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Aviana

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I will try to sum up everything in a nutshell and not be too long winded, lolI'm a little shy in the beginning but pretty down to earth and certainly don’t judge a book by it's cover. My children, my family and friends are very important to me but I'd like to find that special someone. Someone to share hopes and dreams with, someone to say "it's going to be alright" I enjoy life and always try to have a positive outlook on things, I truly believe you can turn any negative situation around and make it positive if you choose to do so. It's all about your mind set. I really enjoy the simple things in life like going for long walks, cuddling by the fire or just sitting and talking. Anything can be enjoyable if you want it to be. I also enjoy going to the movies and playing pool, even though I'm not the best at it.....it's all about having fun. I believe laughter is the best medicine, so you must have a sense of humor and take things lightly, be able to joke and carry on and just have fun. Life is too short not to, so you have to make the most of every day.I'd have to say honesty, trust, communication and respect along with a good sense of humor are important qualities that I look for in a significant other/partner. As well being an overall good person who is willing to put themselves out there, someone who is sensitive to the needs of others and someone who is secure and confident with themselves.I certainly don't play games, so I'd appreciate the same in return. I'd ask that you please have a picture when you make first contact. It’s always nice to put a face to the person you are conversing with. Thanks :) Whatever we both decide.

  • Estelle

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello….straight forward, kind, educated, positive, romantic, loyal, fun loving woman here. I am looking to meet someone who is kind hearted, sweet, honest, laughs a lot and enjoys life.I enjoy camping, fishing and weekend get-a-ways …can pitch a tent but also enjoy being spoiled in a nice hotel. I'm a big movie lover, I love to BBQ, especially for others, I enjoy stimulating conversation, nature walks, a few good shows on TV (and a few bad ones), friends and family, passionate kisses (I have been told I am very good at kissing) country music, and I love to act silly when the mood strikes me. These are a few of my favorite things and would be happy to share more if you are interested send me a message.First meeting….keep it simple and open! I believe in that special chemistry between two people – let’s see if we have it!

  • Modesta

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Being a sports fan might be an understatement... I love Sports! Playing and a fan... It doesn't define me. Of course, (like most) I am lucky to have great family and friends. I'm delighted getting back in shape after knee surgeries. I've played volleyball and participated in athletic events my whole life. I've enjoyed getting back in pool swimming and gradually running a little more (does turtle mph speed count as running?).-climate ofNorth Coast Ranges here in Bay Area. I haven't met a trail head or regional park I haven't fell in love with!Baseball tops my list, and enjoy going to SF Giants games (among others...). One of the items on my bucket list is visiting every MLB Park sooner than later... well, that and a few other sporting events (err... In the same breathe, I easily have ability transitioning in to an evening dress and night out at the Theatre, Symphony, dining, music or any Art appreciation. When I have the resources, I enjoy travel. Exploring and experiencing new places, trying new activities is quite stimulating. Road trips are high on my list. I've been known to fill the tank and take off.; both are simply breathtaking with many hiking and boogie board opportunities. I am full-figured, tall, love heels, healthy, happy, and spectacular sense of humor... I'm an active person. I may not have the hard body I once dawned at 25, but I can kick majority of 20-something asses at most sports! Being skinny doesn't always translate in to being in shape, or reflection of 'health'. Of all my dainty female friends, I've had one make it through one of my workouts. I may be a wee competitive. Nothing sexier than pure laughter and wit... Sometimes a cliche truly says it all: A smile can cure anything!Don't let the curves fool you... Put me in, I am ready to play! Sky Diving! Okay.... How about breaking the ice with a friendly game of "Truth" or "Dare" over coffee or beverage of choice... Maybe get something to nosh on through the rounds of quirky jabs and observations... Required accessories: Smile... Hearty Laugh... Open Mind.

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