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Hephzibah, 42

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About Me

It's a long commute, but I don't work a 40-hour week so, it's do-able. I love to laugh and I do it often. I love to travel. I love exploring around the Bay Area and beyond. I am a very active person so I'm always up for something fun. I love being outdoors. I'm easy-going. I enjoy spending time with my family, who live close-by. I have a good heart and like to give. I'm independent. I like sharing my time with people I really care about. I can take a joke even if it's at my expense (-: I like to talk and listen, if it's interesting conversation. I am fine not talking or listening--I'm not afraid of silence. I can be introspective. I'm also outgoing. I am very empathetic to others' plights and pride myself on keeping an open mind. I enjoy a challenge and thrive on the execution of a plan. I also love spontaneity and am a romantic at heart...For my date to feel right for me he would be: kind, considerate, happy, funny, sarcastic, interesting, interested, easy to laugh, secure, charming, comfortable, attractive, tall, warm, open, respectful, polite to the wait staff, sincere, masculine, easy to talk to and easy to please...Hmmm, sounds like a lot when it's listed out like this. What the hell, let's just start with chemistry first! The rest is negotiable (-: Meeting at a coffee house or local bar is good. Have a cup or a drink and introduce ourselves. If we hit it off=easy conversation and there is that spark of chemistry, we take a walk around the neighborhood and find a place to eat where we can continue to get to know each other. Dessert maybe?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Wisdom

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where to start...So I'm told I have an infectious smile. Whether or not that's true, I do smile often and hopefully that speaks to the way I live my life. I'm blessed with a fantastic family, surrounded by amazing friends and truth be told, my kid is amazing. Now I've also been told I can be a bit feisty...but that's open to interpretation. Am passionate in my endeavors and known for my energy and enthusiasm. I'm warm, confident, independent and can hold my own in most situations I get thrown into... but am all girl and embrace everything that comes with that! I completely subscribe to the "what goes around, comes around" (both good and bad) approach to life and am still ever the optimist when it comes to people, which shockingly does not always serve me well. I believe in playing by the rules (usually) and that choosing right over wrong is usually JUST that simple. I love living at the beach for more reasons than I have time to list or you probably want to hear about. But if you do, just ask :) I live for sun and when those warm balmy beach days kick in, you can find me on the sand. I love to entertain and do so often because literally, there is nothing better than a house filled with friends, music and laughter. I'm fit and I workout...run and paddle whenever I can these days weather permitting and might even possess a tiny competitive streak, which for the most part I keep in check. I am a huge fan of the written word and as you can see, brief may not be my strong suit. But what I lack in concise communication, I make up for with direct and from the heart.Let's see, what else...~am a great swimmer & awful snowboarder (plan to improve that this winter!)~admittedly, I'm a hideous trivia pursuit contender, but I play Bananagrams with a vengeance~~hate horror movies (enough tragedy in the real world) and prefer anything in print or on screen with a life lesson and a happy ending.... ~NO, I didn't play basketball or volleyball and YES I'm sure it's a shame at my height, but when you see me bowl you'll understand why :) ~do most likely have an emoticon addiction but it's well balanced with a vast appreciation for great vocabulary words~Captain Crunch cereal and the Electric Light parade....still love 'em!As for you...Intelligence is alluring, confidence is fascinating and tall is a necessity. I am a girl that loves her heels and direct eye contact!Emotionally & physically healthy...integrity at your core. Sense of fun and adventure intact still, regardless of your age. Grounded & fulfilled, you are able to find more reasons to laugh than complain in life. You are willing to take a little time and effort to look your best whether it's time put in at the gym or for a night out. Family relationships and friendships are a priority. Have direction, know what you want and how to get it and hopefully not walking around with a "bag of bitter" about your ex. Seriously, it's an energy suck! A great smile and a wicked sense of humor are hard to resist. I believe in keeping it easy....please don't ask me to climb a mountain or play Scrabble I find a drink soothes those first meet nervesAnd go from there....you never know

  • Jaynie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to cook and bake. I keep a clean house. I enjoy time alone with my significant other. I like movies, having a drink or two. I'd like to go back to school at some point but right now work and children have most of my time. I like spending time with family and friends, bbq'n or hanging out. Enjoy my camping trip once a year. Go to Starbucks and talk until we've had enough. Have a casual dinner then maybe a walk.

  • Estelle

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello….straight forward, kind, educated, positive, romantic, loyal, fun loving woman here. I am looking to meet someone who is kind hearted, sweet, honest, laughs a lot and enjoys life.I enjoy camping, fishing and weekend get-a-ways …can pitch a tent but also enjoy being spoiled in a nice hotel. I'm a big movie lover, I love to BBQ, especially for others, I enjoy stimulating conversation, nature walks, a few good shows on TV (and a few bad ones), friends and family, passionate kisses (I have been told I am very good at kissing) country music, and I love to act silly when the mood strikes me. These are a few of my favorite things and would be happy to share more if you are interested send me a message.First meeting….keep it simple and open! I believe in that special chemistry between two people – let’s see if we have it!

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