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About Me

Let me add...if u live with ur baby mom, dont contact me...Hey guys...I am 39 years young and looking for someone to be my best friend. I'm from NY...and yes have the attitude...but am also a genuine no bull kind of girl. I have 2 kids and they run my world! I'm looking for a man...a real man...that doesn't play games and knows how to treat a woman.!! I'm not a big go-out girl...but I do like to once in a while. I prefer to hang at home..cook out..swim..and go to bed early to share a lot of quality time. I hope I can find a good honest man to squeeze onto! Please do not contact me if your looking for a sex partner...lol I'm saving myself for that special someone!!! ***Seriously...only hit me up if your interested in a forever relationship... I'm tired of the serial daters!***Note to the men of the world: Just be honest!!! A strong woman can handle anything and should have the right to decide what is acceptable.... Stop lying... U wont get anywhere in life... past a first or second date...lol I like to go to a game/bowling/movies/dinner....pretty much i think first dates are over rated. It does not have to be spectacular! Just as long as we can spend a little time together...I haven't really dated in a long time...and I don't like that 1st time pressure...lifes tooooo short! All I really want out of a date is for a man to be himself! I don't get impressed easily...but I do appreciate!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Felicitas

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Update:I had this section filled out, then changed it and didn't write a lot, but wanted to give it another try. I'm on this site because I would like to meet someone special that I can get to know and, hopefully, build a relationship with. I have been on here for a few months and have a better feel for this site now. I am looking for someone who is honest, caring, intelligent (please be able to write more than a few words...it's hard talking to complete strangers, but easier if they include something about themselves) and who is truly looking for a relationship. I am not adverse to making friends on here either though. I completely understand that not all matches will work out, but please let me know honestly what is going on. I will do the same in return. I also do not like to feel like, if we have talked a couple of times that we are in some unspoken relationship. I do my best to get back to everyone, but I'm sure I've missed a few. Please also understand that, as a woman, I don't feel comfortable giving out my phone number in the first couple of messages as a general rule. I guess that men probably feel the same way. Also, while I totally understand that some people do not want to continue messaging on here forever, I also think that both people should be comfortable when getting in touch off of the site. I try to be sensitive to the needs of others and hope for the same. While I understand that some people become frustrated and, sometimes, even bitter by their experiences with online dating, I believe that for it to work out, they need to let go of those thoughts if they want a positive outcome. I hope this all makes sense. I judge each person on their own merits, not on what has happened with anyone else who I have talked to. A little bit about me: I'm a single mother with two beautiful daughters. I've been blessed to have been able to be home most of the time. They are now 16 and 20 and I have more flexibility. I have worked in the healthcare profession and, in the past few years, have had the opportunity to work with animals. Currently, I am building a home based business with my sister and would like to continue to work with animals in some regard. I enjoy being around most any type of animal. I've also done rescue work. There are so many unwanted animals out there with no home and I do what I can to help out. I'm confident, outgoing, laid back, kind, honest and treat others with respect. I don't hold grudges, have no drama going on in my life and enjoy life. I'm not looking for a relationship to fill any type of void. I'm looking for someone to share life with, but I'm not needy and believe in giving people their own space as well as together time in a relationship. For that to work, there has to be trust. I trust people until they give me a reason not to. I ask for the same in return. As much as I enjoy spending time together as a couple, I also enjoy time with my children, my family and some time with my friends...some alone time is nice also. Thank you for taking the time to read this and, if you are interested, please drop me a line. A first date should be somewhere both people feel comfortable enough to get to know each other and enjoy each others company.

  • Jazlyn

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a very good person who is easy going and loving nature. I love horses I use to compete. I am a 44 yr old hot, fun chic haha. I'm to old to play games and I know what I want. A True Equal Partner, lover, and best friend. I enjoy outdoor activities, competition events, sports, dancing, concerts, campfires, riding the river, and just about anything adventures and spontaneous. I love my family and I try to see them as often as I can. I Work a lot and I also play a lot. If your serious and you know what YOU want, hit me up. PLEASE, NO GAMES Ps Not Bi or Blacks !! Keep it Simple

  • Karyna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i love to read and spend time with my family and friends. I have learned over the years that not all family has to be blood it's the people that care about you the most. i am a fun loveing person that likes to have fun and always trys to make everything fun and an adventure. anything else you want to know just ask i have no secrets. dinner getting to know each other and then see where it goes from there.

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