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About Me

I am currently crazy busy because I have children under 11 years old....I think I just heard footsteps of you running away...but really it is a blast. I have enough love and interest to have an official adult, not another child, in my life! I would love to talk about adult interests, common goals, fun activities and be involved with another adult. I am a graduate from a div. II University, and played basketball on scholarship for that school. And love all sports! The more active the sport the better, both playing and watching...don't u think? Living in a small town sucks as a lesbian.,not because of the people I associate with...but because there"seems" to NOT b another lesbian in my vicinity , ha, ha! So dating locally is difficult. I am fun-loving, positive, and very caring; as well as a jokester and sarcastic at times. I don't really care about distance of the person who may b interested in me, as we may get along sooo well, that we could overcome any and all obstacles. Eventho I may want to physically see you early in the friendship, this in no way means I'm interested in diving right in ....to ANY thing! Aren't we all creatures drawn to each other by appearance ? I have been told I have great eyes. I love strong hands but a soft heart. I would love for that person that I'm ultimately with, to b able to stare deeply into mine. I desire love to b not only in word, but in deed. Stupid, little, daily...deeds. If you feel some connection to what I am saying....drop me a line or two, I'm waiting! If I could pick my ultimate first date, it would probably be sitting on the beach, just talking, getting to know one another. Fortunately for us, we would have had this site to break through some of that blind-date awkwardness, right? As we talked, in person, we could then choose to walk to a beachside restaurant and continue our conversation. If things continued to go well, we could continue into the night maybe hanging w some friends (urs or mine...prob not BOTH, yet. Haha) or a movie where we could hold hands...and call our first encounter...a date. A small kiss, when back by ourselves and possibly the chance to spend the next day doing something fun/active! Sports, riding quads, or motorcycles, bikes, whatever.....let's just see, shall we??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hilaria

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    What is it people want to know about me? Well, I'm a simple person! Here are some things I DO NOT put up:1) Head games2) Dishonesty3) Promises u can't keep4) DRAMA5) Judgement6) Jealous Exes!!!!!!!!I'm a hard worker! I earn a paycheck just like everyone else. I enjoy spending my time at the beach when I'm not working. I also like to dine out occassionly, would like to meet new friends and hang out. I'm not much into the bar scene anymore-too old for that! I want to meet someone who understands life isn't a "GAME"! Been thru enough "GAME PLAYING" relationships, im looking for a "TRUE" person who knows what she wants. If u are this person, feel free to send me a msg. But if u are a person who does any of the above plz move on. DO NOT WASTE MY TIME!!!! My first ideal date would be meeting in a public place, but not too noisey, to have some drinks and get to know one another. Don't want to have "yell" to talk or hear the other person talk. Maybe also have a quiet dinner and maybe a stroll on the beach or whatever my date would like to do. I can be easy going for whatever is suggested for a date.

  • Reatha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Oh, what to write here? I'm multi-faceted and oh-so-diverse. I've been an educator my entire adult life, in various capacities. I appreciate someone who is intellectually gifted, compassionate, and tolerant. I love reading, gardening, and photography. I love finding local music to enjoy with coffee. I'm a mama first, but my children are turning into teenagers, so their increasing autonomy means more availability for social time for me.My strengths: I'm a kick-ass single mom, raising my kids alone for all their lives. I'm responsible to a fault...I am cautious to make sure all my t's are crossed and i's dotted. I am happy to listen to others and take their views into perspective. Things you may find to be weaknesses: religion...this can be a bugaboo issue with me. I'm a bonafide agnostic, through and through, and I have little personal use for most organized religions. That doesn't mean I won't respect yours, but don't expect to win me over where religion is concerned, particularly Western religions. I do allow my kids to attend church if they like, though, so let that act as a testament to my open-mindedness on the subject. Now, with that out of the way...politically, I'm quite liberal. I openly admit having a hard time with most conservative-minded folks. If that's you, you may choose to scroll on by. Coffee. I'm a sucker for decent coffee.

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