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Vonda, 45

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About Me

I work a lot of hours and I do not have the typical Mon. - Fri. ***job, so it is hard to get out and meet new people. I have been in the same job for 21 years now and have actually learned to deal with the hours. I do like to get out and enjoy my free time when I have it. I have been in 2 long term relationships and a couple of short ones and would like to find someone that could turn into a long term realationship again. I do not plan to jump into anything with anyone over night. I hope to meet someone that I can get to know, realize how much we have in common, and someone who will bring new interest as well. I am a very loyal to my friends, family, work, and that special somone. I believe in blunt honesty no matter what the subject is. I am nowhere near perfect and would never expect that from anyone else as long as honesty is there. I enjoy a nice trip to the beach, but a cabin in the snow covered mountains would be my favorite. I do love to travel and hope to do much more. I have recently started enjoying art and music festivals and try to attend as many as I can. I enjoy just about any music but lean toward singer/songwriters in small venue. VERY casual. If I had the option, I would actually like to skip the first date. Not that I don't enjoy getting to know someone, it is just a nerve racking situation at times. That is why I prefer it to be casual. First meeting - yes that is a better term :) ....meeting at a local restaurant with an outdoor patio, enjoying a glass of wine or cold craft beer and some appetizers wearing the most comfortable jeans I own. If that goes well, there will be future opportunities for a more formal "date"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rana

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Well, let's see... I'm really into my garden and house. I like the "do-it-yourself" approach to life, so I'm often splitting and stacking my own firewood or canning tomatoes, beans and salsa from my garden. I love being in the woods hiking, camping or drinking a g-n-t and painting my toenails by the river. I make a point of getting somewhere in nature at least a couple of times a week, especially in the summer. Its important to me to spend a lot of time with my family and friends. I'm really lucky to have such good ones and life is too short not to appreciate them every chance I get. I like my work/job and try to be good at it, but its not even remotely the most important thing in life to me. Never been big on the 9-5, 401k approach to life. I haven't dated in a while. Feeling settled and grounded now and wouldn't mind opening out into the world a bit more... Coffee... A drink... A walk by the river...

  • Merritt

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    I am a single parent who has 2 kids who are getting old enough i can start thinking about going out and having a fun time. I enjoy getting out in nature, watching movies, just sitting around talking and people with a great sense of humor.I enjoy lots of different types of music including country, classic rock, and music from the 80s.I am looking forward to enjoying my personal time meeting some new interesting people. On a first date I would feel most comfortable meeting in a public place like a restaurant, coffee house or bar for a drink or dessert so we could just get to talk face to face and see if it seems like we could "click" as a couple or perhaps just pursue a friendship.

  • Reatha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Oh, what to write here? I'm multi-faceted and oh-so-diverse. I've been an educator my entire adult life, in various capacities. I appreciate someone who is intellectually gifted, compassionate, and tolerant. I love reading, gardening, and photography. I love finding local music to enjoy with coffee. I'm a mama first, but my children are turning into teenagers, so their increasing autonomy means more availability for social time for me.My strengths: I'm a kick-ass single mom, raising my kids alone for all their lives. I'm responsible to a fault...I am cautious to make sure all my t's are crossed and i's dotted. I am happy to listen to others and take their views into perspective. Things you may find to be weaknesses: religion...this can be a bugaboo issue with me. I'm a bonafide agnostic, through and through, and I have little personal use for most organized religions. That doesn't mean I won't respect yours, but don't expect to win me over where religion is concerned, particularly Western religions. I do allow my kids to attend church if they like, though, so let that act as a testament to my open-mindedness on the subject. Now, with that out of the way...politically, I'm quite liberal. I openly admit having a hard time with most conservative-minded folks. If that's you, you may choose to scroll on by. Coffee. I'm a sucker for decent coffee.

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