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Vonda, 45

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About Me

I work a lot of hours and I do not have the typical Mon. - Fri. ***job, so it is hard to get out and meet new people. I have been in the same job for 21 years now and have actually learned to deal with the hours. I do like to get out and enjoy my free time when I have it. I have been in 2 long term relationships and a couple of short ones and would like to find someone that could turn into a long term realationship again. I do not plan to jump into anything with anyone over night. I hope to meet someone that I can get to know, realize how much we have in common, and someone who will bring new interest as well. I am a very loyal to my friends, family, work, and that special somone. I believe in blunt honesty no matter what the subject is. I am nowhere near perfect and would never expect that from anyone else as long as honesty is there. I enjoy a nice trip to the beach, but a cabin in the snow covered mountains would be my favorite. I do love to travel and hope to do much more. I have recently started enjoying art and music festivals and try to attend as many as I can. I enjoy just about any music but lean toward singer/songwriters in small venue. VERY casual. If I had the option, I would actually like to skip the first date. Not that I don't enjoy getting to know someone, it is just a nerve racking situation at times. That is why I prefer it to be casual. First meeting - yes that is a better term :) ....meeting at a local restaurant with an outdoor patio, enjoying a glass of wine or cold craft beer and some appetizers wearing the most comfortable jeans I own. If that goes well, there will be future opportunities for a more formal "date"

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    im an inspired, creative, free spirited, one of a kind, child at heart forever. I love art, to make and admire. I am positive, intuitive, dont have to see it to believe it. I am honest,funny, grouchy when sleepy. I am indepedant please also be secure !! And honest.i enjoy all kinds of music favorite is danceable and hip hop. For a first date...maybe an intimate dinner...we could feed each other if we have the chemistty...then some crazy fun karoke. !!

  • Kyleigh

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

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  • Belita

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    I believe open and honest communication is key to any type of friendship. Please send a message if you want to know more.I am a kind hearted woman who gives of her time freely. I have a good sense of humor and love to make people laugh. I can be goofy and playful one moment and serious the next. I am very responsible, passive, caring and loving. Looking for someone who takes charge of situations and makes decisions. I don't have much to offer except, loyalty, honesty and affection. I am shy at first and don't generally make the first move. Once I open up I am unstoppable. I am trusting, naive and easily manipulated. I am not considered the "intellectual" type, but love a good conversation I am looking for someone who doesn't play games with my head and won't abuse their power over me. I relinquish control to the person I am with.I am looking for friends to hang out with or at least talk to. I am not in a rush to meet the wrong person. Been in too many failed relationships with people due to moving too fast. I understand that it takes time, mutual patience and open, honest communication to build a lasting friendship. If something more comes from it, so be it. I believe in honesty, integrity, loyalty and honor. I say what I mean and mean what I say. My pet peeves are people who say they will do something or make a promise, but don't keep it. Also persons who are hypocritical. If you are looking for a "girly" girl or someone to play head games with ... Move on. If you are looking for a soft butch with a good heart send me a message. First date would be considered after a good period of communication. First date to me would be somewhere safe like dinner, lunch or coffee.

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