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Abijah, 43
United States, Minnesota, Northfield

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As an acupuncturist, I attempt to live a healthy lifestyle(key word is attempt...doesn't always happen) by going to the gym and/or running ***times per week and cooking simple, healthy meals. I like to go out and have fun but am very happy spending time enjoying the outdoors, hiking, running or walking or hanging indoors playing games or watching a movie cuddled on the couch. I also enjoy riding horses, kayaking (I've only been once but I loved it), I am a great passenger on the back of a motorcycle (I even come equipped with my own helmet and chaps), rock climbing (I haven't been in a while) or simply plopping down in a chair with a good book out in the sun...the training has been intense but I am really excited for the race! I typically enjoy rock music but I think my tastes are mellowing a bit(don't be fooled though...the rocker will always live in me!). I attempt to live positively so I make every effort to appreciate what I have and not complain about what I do not have or cannot change and hope to find those qualities in a mate. I am open-minded and above all, I love to laugh(even if it's at my own expense). I am told that I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor so if you offend easily, I might not be your cup of tea. I am looking for someone who has similar interests, doesn't carry baggage around with them and looks at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. I'm looking for someone who understands that relationships take two and that communication is vital to the success of that relationship. I am also looking for someone I am wildly attracted to and who is wildly attracted to me in return!A few of my favorite things: my morning coffee, my cats(I have 2 but am in no way a "crazy cat lady"...I promise!!), my home, my family and friends, passion/connection/affection, lip balm, my job (these are in no special order but getting in the way of my morning coffee might leave you without limbs...not that I am a grumpy morning person but b/c I really do love my coffee!). I think a first date when you don't know someone should be something simple like coffee or a drink with the possibility of dinner/food. It's easy to like someone on the phone but in person chemistry is either there or it's not so a quick meeting is the best way to see if it's there...and then go forward to a 2nd date(or continue the 1st if both parties are available). *****I never log off so it looks like I'm Online day and night....I am NOT...so if I don't respond immediately, it's because I haven't checked my app! ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I DONT FEEL THAT A PERSON CAN ACTUALLY PUT INTO WORDS WHAT IT IS THEY WANT I BELIEVE YOU KNOW WHEN YOU FIND IT.IM A VERY EASY GOING PERSON WITH ALOT OF LOVE TO GIVE, IM VERY FAMILY ORIENTED AND CARE ABOUT MY FUTURE,I LIKE TO PARTY A LITTLE ON OCASSION AS WELL AS JUST RELAX SOMETIMES AT HOME.I ENJOY DOING ALL KINDS OF THINGS AND HAVING SOMEONE TO DO THEM WITH IS EVEN ALL THE BETTER.I LOVE TO BE CLOSE AND JUST TALK. I FEEL THAT COMMUNICATION IS HUGE....IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO GET TO KNOW ME THEN GET WITH ME AND WE'LL TALK. THAT WOULD DEPEND ON THE TWO OF US... I AM HAPPY JUST BEING SOMEWHERE QUIET WHERE WE CAN JUST HANG OUT AND TALK SO THAT WE CAN LEARN ABOUT ONE ANOTHER IF THATS WHAT WE CHOOSE TO DO. THE FIRST DATE CAN BE SO SCARRY BUT YET SO EXCITING AND PROMISING.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love summer and anything to do with water - boating, beach, etc. I enjoy all kinds of music - dancing and trying to sing karaoke. I am outgoing and have a sense of humor. I'm a great listener and enjoy spending time with friends and family.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    To Start --I do not have a problem coming into the city***So here is goes, I am looking for someone who is around my age, who appreciates what a relationship should be about and is hoping to be done with the single life and the games that come with it ---Someone who is not afraid of compromise (works both ways), appreciates the old with the new in regards to relationships, gives respect to the person they are with, just as they would expect back. Also someone who is not afraid of their serious or silly side :) I like to have fun with the person I am with whether it is being out and about or just curling up and watching a movie, if some is good at making me smile or laugh I am all good!Though I hate that I have to put this out there if you are just here looking for a random hookup or a girl who will send sexy pictures to any random guy who asks for it, please don't contact me as that is not me nor what I am looking for. Scary but happens often on these sites.OK so now that I made my one disclaimer here it goes:)As for me I am pretty simple, not into the bar scene anymore I did my club girl days in my 20's, though I can go watch the fights (UFC/Boxing) every so often--I don't mind if you like sports, but hopefully you are not someone who can't function if their team loses. I am very close with family (but they are not the intrusive type). I am also the youngest of 3 girls-- I also have two tattoo's (back and foot) so hopefully that does not offend you.I am a firm believer in chemistry so there must be some sparks:):) I am a simple girl and will give you the world if you are right for me, but it must work both ways. My parents have been married for almost 47 years my grandparents 70 years, so I am hoping to find someone who wants that partner in life like they have. It is really that simple for me.So if you think you can be the someone I might match with, then please send me a message-Please do not be offended if I do not write you back, it would just mean I do not think we are a good match. I do wish you luck in your searches. First dates, I like to meet for drinks or dinner, I am a strong believer in chemistry so I think you can feel that right off the bat.Please do not be offended if I do not write you back, it would just mean I don't feel we are a match--again good luck with your search

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