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Abijah, 43
United States, Minnesota, Northfield

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As an acupuncturist, I attempt to live a healthy lifestyle(key word is attempt...doesn't always happen) by going to the gym and/or running ***times per week and cooking simple, healthy meals. I like to go out and have fun but am very happy spending time enjoying the outdoors, hiking, running or walking or hanging indoors playing games or watching a movie cuddled on the couch. I also enjoy riding horses, kayaking (I've only been once but I loved it), I am a great passenger on the back of a motorcycle (I even come equipped with my own helmet and chaps), rock climbing (I haven't been in a while) or simply plopping down in a chair with a good book out in the sun...the training has been intense but I am really excited for the race! I typically enjoy rock music but I think my tastes are mellowing a bit(don't be fooled though...the rocker will always live in me!). I attempt to live positively so I make every effort to appreciate what I have and not complain about what I do not have or cannot change and hope to find those qualities in a mate. I am open-minded and above all, I love to laugh(even if it's at my own expense). I am told that I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor so if you offend easily, I might not be your cup of tea. I am looking for someone who has similar interests, doesn't carry baggage around with them and looks at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. I'm looking for someone who understands that relationships take two and that communication is vital to the success of that relationship. I am also looking for someone I am wildly attracted to and who is wildly attracted to me in return!A few of my favorite things: my morning coffee, my cats(I have 2 but am in no way a "crazy cat lady"...I promise!!), my home, my family and friends, passion/connection/affection, lip balm, my job (these are in no special order but getting in the way of my morning coffee might leave you without limbs...not that I am a grumpy morning person but b/c I really do love my coffee!). I think a first date when you don't know someone should be something simple like coffee or a drink with the possibility of dinner/food. It's easy to like someone on the phone but in person chemistry is either there or it's not so a quick meeting is the best way to see if it's there...and then go forward to a 2nd date(or continue the 1st if both parties are available). *****I never log off so it looks like I'm Online day and night....I am NOT...so if I don't respond immediately, it's because I haven't checked my app! ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single woman of 2 youngest children. I like to dance, roller skate, have fun with my kids. I like a variety of music. I am a simple, easy going down to earth country girl. I am who i am and want to be that person. My love comes from the inside which also is my beauty of my personality.We all have been in that sad horrible place before. I am devoted to my children and will remain. I would like to give that devotion to a special man in my life. I am not a one night stand or a toy. I do not play with others hearts and i will not tolerate mine being played. I am here to hopefully find a man who seriously wants a real girl and relationship.I like to smile and make my partner smile, I want to be the ear and shoulder that he comes to when needed, I like the special surprises and dinners with the romance, I would like to give that in return, I want to know that you have my back as i have your back. I have been on other sites and all didn't do anything. Just a bunch of BS. I decided to try this one. The things i hate and get disturbed about are guys who, say they want a woman who is loving, fun, loyal ,outgoing and has personality. Well k when one does come along and you make a effort then they don't want to bother. It also is funny how during the week if one does decide to bother when the weekened comes around you don't hear from them.If you are honest and true to your word and really do want a relationship and someone who is real, loving, wants to have fun, wants to be romantic, devoted to their man. well hear i am.Sorry i am not a famous model or own a mansion or even a expensive car but i am loyal, honest, fun,loving,nice looking, independent and more. Want to find out send me a message.Final verse of it all, if you are not serious about finding someone or being real with me, then please move on. I do not want to be just admired or a placement until a better, skinner or model comes along. I am looking for a serious, honest and willing partner for life. I want real and honest responses. I have been on here for awhile, I have found a few, but I do not want temporary or just to be a fill in. If your profile says you want a relationship, then please be real to your words. I am not a mean person, I have a big heart, but I want to give it to the right person. Please do not say you are interested and wanna meet and then do not live up to your words. I am a honest, fun, loving and good hearted woman and willing to make a partner happy. The other person just has to be as willing. I am not a little kid or teenager, I am a grown woman. So if you wanna be real then please drop me a line, if not move on and I wish you the best of luck. Simple, coffee, dinner, a walk by the lake or beach or in a park

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  • Sharlene from Northfield | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to sing, classic literature, and poetry.I am looking for someone that wants a relationship.I don't date fat guys or black men I prefer my men tall and fit.I love to fish, horseback riding a long walks in the park. I'm not opposed to trying new things.I am not a barbie I am a curvy girl but I'm not lazy on working out everyone will tell u I love to laugh and have fun. I like baseball my favorite team the reds since I was old enough to understand t.v.I love all kinds of music especially country I love the new and old love johnny cash and patsy cline.I like to go out and play sports too I like volleyball I used to play in school a little.I love to play pool anyone for a game or 2.I think someone needs to show me how to golf. Coffee, or lunch and a movie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    hi guys thank you for stopping by I just want to let you know I'm going to college I don't care about pass or fail my house has roaches smells like dog s*** and cat p*** I don't bother cleaning it its a filthy mess I live like a pig I'm very controlling I love to b**** and I do want to see your phone and your phone bill to see who your calling to make sure you're not cheating on meI'm a very possessive personI let my kids do what they want I do hang out in bars I love to cheat I have a boyfriend but he doesn't know I'm on hereif you like to be controlled I am the lady for youI don't care like I said if I pass or fail college I don't care of ever work again a man can support me PS you better not have any other girlfriends I'm the only lady you will be talking to I will look at your phone and your phone bill and you're not going to waste your money either I want to look at your bank statements I don't care of a first date ever comes the man will pay for them and we'll decidegood luck to all you guys out there if you get with me you will have a miserable life

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