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About Me

As an acupuncturist, I attempt to live a healthy lifestyle(key word is attempt...doesn't always happen) by going to the gym and/or running ***times per week and cooking simple, healthy meals. I like to go out and have fun but am very happy spending time enjoying the outdoors, hiking, running or walking or hanging indoors playing games or watching a movie cuddled on the couch. I also enjoy riding horses, kayaking (I've only been once but I loved it), I am a great passenger on the back of a motorcycle (I even come equipped with my own helmet and chaps), rock climbing (I haven't been in a while) or simply plopping down in a chair with a good book out in the sun...the training has been intense but I am really excited for the race! I typically enjoy rock music but I think my tastes are mellowing a bit(don't be fooled though...the rocker will always live in me!). I attempt to live positively so I make every effort to appreciate what I have and not complain about what I do not have or cannot change and hope to find those qualities in a mate. I am open-minded and above all, I love to laugh(even if it's at my own expense). I am told that I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor so if you offend easily, I might not be your cup of tea. I am looking for someone who has similar interests, doesn't carry baggage around with them and looks at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. I'm looking for someone who understands that relationships take two and that communication is vital to the success of that relationship. I am also looking for someone I am wildly attracted to and who is wildly attracted to me in return!A few of my favorite things: my morning coffee, my cats(I have 2 but am in no way a "crazy cat lady"...I promise!!), my home, my family and friends, passion/connection/affection, lip balm, my job (these are in no special order but getting in the way of my morning coffee might leave you without limbs...not that I am a grumpy morning person but b/c I really do love my coffee!). I think a first date when you don't know someone should be something simple like coffee or a drink with the possibility of dinner/food. It's easy to like someone on the phone but in person chemistry is either there or it's not so a quick meeting is the best way to see if it's there...and then go forward to a 2nd date(or continue the 1st if both parties are available). *****I never log off so it looks like I'm Online day and night....I am NOT...so if I don't respond immediately, it's because I haven't checked my app! ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lolicia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I work for the Army & love my job. So far, so good...meeting some great people and enjoying my surroundings. I'm laid back & love when someone can make me laugh until tears stream from my eyes & I snort! I'm positive & straight forward & expect you to be, as well. Be up front about your past...we all have one -feel free to ask away at mine . Intelligence, confidence, sense of humor & adventure, knowing what you want & a bit of a (fun) sarcastic sense of humor. A great smile & nice shoulders never hurts, either. :)As far as interests - shooting, reading, historical areas, music, cooking, cars, exploring new places, hiking, traveling & getting back into the gym. I have 2 dogs & love to get out with them. I'm not a club person, more comfortable in a pub type place. Please, dear God, don't send me photos of yourself with your bits & pieces hanging out, or the shirtless bathroom photo with the towel draped low, lol. Seriously, lol...I have no idea what's up with that, but it's just as bad as girls with that stupid pouty face, lol. If you're separated, still have a need to keep tabs on your ex-wife or have a jealous streak, please pass me by. :)Thank you! Get together for a coffee or drink, have some laughs, play things by ear.

  • Inocencia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    How hard can this be? For me, it comes down to simple basics--the things we learned when we were young: be honest, be reliable, trustworthy, a good listener, cherish and love your family and friends, remember we are all different, but different is not "bad," never judge anyone--we all have opinions and in this country we have the liberty of "freedom of speech," however, sometimes it's best to keep our thoughts to ourselves. Never hurt with intent, never spread rumors--if that's how you play, get out of the sandbox. Always be a lady. Always be respectful of those younger and older. Common interests can be helpful; however, learning new things is always exciting and sometimes more rewarding when you share the experience with someone.Top of the list: laughter is a must! I laugh at myself all the time and to laugh until your face and ribs hurt and you're crying because something is just so funny, now that's what I consider the best it can get.I am a drama-free woman. I have seen too many woman who feed the drama pool, hook up with men for all sorts of reasons--liking them, loving them or enjoying being with them, are not at the top of this list and that's just wrong!I enjoy nature and all the beauty it brings us.--perfectly prepared delights in a cozy, romantic setting.I enjoy dancing and most music. I can't get into "gangsta rap and I don't twerk." I love exploring new places, photography and architecture. I can do ball-gowns, sweats or my favorite, jeans and a white tee. I would enjoy meeting a man to hang with doing whatever--or doing nothing together.So there you have it. If anything I wrote strikes a cord, let me know. Thanks for stopping by and reading ~ Andie ~ 1. Find someone "online" you are attracted to.2. Converse online.3. Talk on the phone.4. See if you feel any "vibe."5. If so, continue talking.6. Find a mutual "happy" place to meet.7. Perhaps have a drink, coffee and be "present."8. If this feels good, then continue....

  • Hortencia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Updated ***Ok any questions I guess you will just have to ask me, most of the important questions are in my profile (that's if anyone bothers to read these things) I have met quite a few people on here that have become ( I consider) good friends! To be honest I am looking for that special someone that just blows me away and would eventually love me with all their heart and soul just as I would them! What ever happened to happily ever after and people standing by each other through good and bad? A good friend once told me that, that only happens in fairy tales! Well I'm looking for my fairy tale and sooner or later I will find mine! I'm not asking for marriage (if it comes to that then so be it) I'm just asking for someone to call my own that I can love unconditionally and be loved that way as well! Is that asking for too much? I have 3 beautiful children who are my life, an 18 yr. old daughter and 2 sons 11,4. My friends all tell me that I'm a great person and a very caring and loving person who would do anything for anyone and they can't believe that I haven't found that special someone yet! Just to let everyone know that once I meet someone on the sight, if we hit it off and it ends up going beyond two dates then I stop surfing on this site and I don't talk to anyone else for the plain and simple fact that I give myself 110%. I'm dead serious when I say I am looking for a commitment! I hate being alone and I want someone to spend the rest of my life with. Thank you for taking the time to read this! on the first date i would like to go some place where its not too noisy but where other people are around so it doesn't make either of us feel uncomfortable. i am a kind of shy person but once i am comfortable around you, you might not be able to shut me up lol.

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