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Abijah, 43
United States, Minnesota, Northfield

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As an acupuncturist, I attempt to live a healthy lifestyle(key word is attempt...doesn't always happen) by going to the gym and/or running ***times per week and cooking simple, healthy meals. I like to go out and have fun but am very happy spending time enjoying the outdoors, hiking, running or walking or hanging indoors playing games or watching a movie cuddled on the couch. I also enjoy riding horses, kayaking (I've only been once but I loved it), I am a great passenger on the back of a motorcycle (I even come equipped with my own helmet and chaps), rock climbing (I haven't been in a while) or simply plopping down in a chair with a good book out in the sun...the training has been intense but I am really excited for the race! I typically enjoy rock music but I think my tastes are mellowing a bit(don't be fooled though...the rocker will always live in me!). I attempt to live positively so I make every effort to appreciate what I have and not complain about what I do not have or cannot change and hope to find those qualities in a mate. I am open-minded and above all, I love to laugh(even if it's at my own expense). I am told that I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor so if you offend easily, I might not be your cup of tea. I am looking for someone who has similar interests, doesn't carry baggage around with them and looks at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. I'm looking for someone who understands that relationships take two and that communication is vital to the success of that relationship. I am also looking for someone I am wildly attracted to and who is wildly attracted to me in return!A few of my favorite things: my morning coffee, my cats(I have 2 but am in no way a "crazy cat lady"...I promise!!), my home, my family and friends, passion/connection/affection, lip balm, my job (these are in no special order but getting in the way of my morning coffee might leave you without limbs...not that I am a grumpy morning person but b/c I really do love my coffee!). I think a first date when you don't know someone should be something simple like coffee or a drink with the possibility of dinner/food. It's easy to like someone on the phone but in person chemistry is either there or it's not so a quick meeting is the best way to see if it's there...and then go forward to a 2nd date(or continue the 1st if both parties are available). *****I never log off so it looks like I'm Online day and night....I am NOT...so if I don't respond immediately, it's because I haven't checked my app! ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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