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LotusOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
About myself... there's plenty of good, and just enough bad to keep things exciting. I'm loyal to the death and would have made the perfect knight if they'd let women do it. I'm a fighter when I have to be and am generous with my time and who I am. I don't have a lot materially, but I don't want for much either. I take care of my home, this hundred-year-old hobbit hole that I'll probably be stuck with till I'm a complaining old biddy, and those I love and who are in my charge get most of my attention. I have an almost gut *** support and defend the underdog, and I'll do just about anything to create harmony and fairness. Integrity is so important to me that it can border on the annoying, which leads me to......the bad. If someone called me a "pain in the ass," I'd have a hard time disagreeing with them. A cute pain in the ass. I can be a bit much and too intense. When I'm into something, I'm in it all the way. I might drive you crazy with my analyzing, debating, and discussing. But just tell me to "time out" myself and I'm fine with that. I react strongly to emotional upsets, although I tend to keep most of that to myself and withdraw a little. There's a heaping of the devil inside me, but it's always in fun, and I'm drawn to situations that'll either make people wag their fingers at me or laugh their asses off. These things are usually more fun with company, and I might have, in the past, been accused of being a bad, I would say mischievous, influence.I like when people disagree with me and don't let me get away with thinking that I'm always right. I have a strong personality and will defend my opinions or the other side of an argument just to keep the dialogue going and the thing explored. Don't let me get away with it. Stand by your opinion and prove it's right by digging out the truth of the matter. I genuinely welcome the differences of opinions and life-styles. I couldn't stand to be with someone who agreed with everything I said or let me have my own way all the time.Are you still there?What I do most of the time...I work in higher ed teaching ESL and Comp I & II. I enjoy the give and take that happens in the classroom and the different experiences that others bring to it, especially those from other cultures and backgrounds. That's where I'm most happy and comfortable, with the interaction and the open exchange of ideas.Outside the classroom...I fill my most of my spare time with various art projects, attempts at writing my own stuff, reading, long walks (about three hours a day with the pup), puzzles, occasional work-outs, PBS and BBC, watching home shopping but rarely buying, theatre shows, out-and-about adventures, reading student essays and lesson-planning, and all the other mundane crap that fills up a life. The old oak tree overtop my house keeps me pretty busy year round cleaning up after it, but we thank it for its shade and the roots which soak up the water that would otherwise be in my crawlspace. I suppose I spend a good deal of time fantasizing and day-dreaming as well. I used to a lot more when younger, and still can't help myself. Old habits, I guess. I like stories. I like getting out of "here" for a while. This world can be a little cold, lonely, scary, and caustic at times.Okay, so what am I looking for?You need to enjoy the company of women. Truly. I get it that you can't help but see us as the love-goddesses we are. You're a (straight) man. That's natural. You want us in your bed. But we can't all be in your bed and most of us won't want to be. Those are just the odds. So you really need to respect the fact that we are fellow human beings who share this space in time with you.That would be the most important thing for me. I don't know if I have a type. I've never really gone by that, and if I had to review exes, I would have to say that they were all different. Honesty, loyalty, and communication are so important, plus just being on the same page as far as expectations. Where I've had problems in the past would have had more to do with lack of sincerity or differences in values than anything else. I've tended to give a lot more than was being reciprocated, and I'm not so willing to do that anymore. If you're going to be in my life, then what is it you have to offer that's going to make my life better in some way? Yes, you have the right to ask the same question of me. I guess we'll have to get to know each other a little and decide if it's worth pursuing. I have to add here that I'm looking more for quality and compatibility over chemistry and physical attraction. I know those are important, but not as much as the former two. Chemistry can be misleading and a shallow judge of character. And I think people give it too much precedence. I am open to exploring and seeing what's out there before getting so serious, though. I might even prefer to not have the weight of a relationship at the moment, but it's got to be good for me in some way. I read somewhere that online dating is useful only for casual sex and superficial love. Perhaps. But I'd like to keep believing that something more were still possible...Happy Hunting. ...or, About You...If anything here applies, that would be great. I'm looking for more than just "says 'bless you' when I sneeze"...You’re wanting to hang out in some church basement one fine Saturday night to give it a go at Bingo and you need a date.You'd consider dressing up for me as Spider Man or Darth Maul or Tim Curry from either RHPS or Legend. Asking too much? I don't expect this right away, so it's okay, relax. Maybe someday.You want to get a cup of coffee and have a talk or check out a museum. I'm quite fond of churches and cemeteries as well. A table-chat or park bench while people watching would be nice too.You can whip me up a fine meal. I wouldn't mind helping you out in there, but a man who knows how to take care of things in the kitchen is pretty sexy to me.You're open-minded, or just bored, and would feel like sitting for me while I do some life-drawing sketches. Seriously, I’m in need of some unabashed models.You need someone to accompany you on walkabout around the city or some random small town to discover new things.You're brave.You treat others with kindness and respect.You're sincere and smart, not clever and cool.You like dogs but don't have a pit bull.You feel like teaching me how to bowl.At least one of your favorite movies is animated.You do what you say you're going to do.You don't mind someone who quotes movies and calls out the different states on license plates.You used to listen to Duran Duran and liked them and aren't afraid to admit as much.You're mature and courteous enough to be honest about what you're looking for.The Feedback Booth on Antiques Roadshow cracks you up.You love homemade cookies and can make them. Or know someone who can.Curiosity urges you to try new things and sometimes gets you into trouble.You've restored an old home and actually knew what you were doing. Or didn't but learned a lot along the way.You judge others by their actions not their words and expect the same in return.
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RemediosOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am very family orientated my kids come first I enjoy a nice night out but also prefer a nice night InI grew up on the water so liking the beach and water is a must I have been told I am a very loyal person that would give my shirt of my back to someone in need. I have a sarcastic sense of humor I have been told Looking for fun and excitement in my life if it turns Out to be more great if not hopefully I gain another friendI'm not looking for hook up if you are move onI also do not want to be involved with a married man nor a man engaged or seriously dating someone I am not that women A simple walk on the beach I would be fine with I am not the type of women that needs to be impressed by flowers expensive places of material things. I live a pretty simple life I would be happy talking getting to know you over a cup of coffee or tea
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VirgieOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am back again. I thought I found a wonderful man on here but we couldn't make it long term. So, I am trying again.I am a single mom of 4 girls and 1 boy( only the youngest three are in the house...oldest are married and happy). I work for Rite Aid and was promoted to shift supervisor 7 months ago. I enjoy my job and love my customers.I am very talkative and I love to sing. I am looking for a man who is not afraid to share his feelings....his hopes and dreams. I need a man who is understanding and patient...with my kids and myself. I have recently rediscovered my love for bowling and am currently bowling in a Sunday night league. I am not as good as my children, but I have fun.I love animals and own several. I have the normal dog and cat, but I also have a degu and a hamster. I am too old to play games, and I am looking for someone of the same mind. I would like to find a man who knows what he wants out of life and has the passion and interest to get it. I got my first tattoo on ***. I now have a son-in-law who is a tattoo artist, so I have added to my tattoos. They are tasteful and meaningful to me.There are still a couple I want to get, but we'll see what happens. I will not go over board on the ink, but I like the look of them when my hair is up, or wearing a shirt that accents their placement. I love just hopping in the car with no plan in mind...and just driving. My daughters and I play a game some weekends. I will drive in a general direction and when I hit a stop light or stop sign, they pick a direction for me to go. I have seen some wonderful, gorgeous places driving around this way....but have to say I am very thankful for cell phone gps. I would love to find a man who will offer me a decent challenge in Scrabble.I am also looking for a man who believes chivalry is NOT dead. Woman's Lib is great and all, but not for me.....you get bonus points. I enjoy singing and have been told I have an amazing voice;my vocal teacher would love to hear that since I was vocally trained for 10 yrs. Thought about doing opera....but I don't understand the languages and it bored me to tears. I much prefer singing 80's ballads and country. I am on paltalk messenger several times a week as AngelCyns42.I have lost a lot of weight since my divorce 2 yrs ago. I am continuing to lose, but will never be the size I was in HS. After 5 babies, my hips are just too big! If you are looking for the perfect 10 body, I am not her. I have my curves and I am planning on keeping them., just want to get down to a healthier weight. I take pride in my appearance and will continue to do so. Whatever we mutually decide to go with. It can be anything from a face to face meeting in a coffee shop to a game of bowling.