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Melissa, 45

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About Me

Hi there! Thanks for stopping in... I am a mother of two fabulous boys! I love watching them play sports..of course I'm their biggest fan. I'm a special ed teacher and take pride in helping my students achieve their goals. I have a good job and do the best I can in life..just a squirrel trying to get a nut, ya know?From what I'm hearing on here, women are pocket diggers! Not this girl. I've worked hard to achieve my goals and expect you to have done the same! It is important to me to be healthy..I try to eat right as much as I can but enjoy good food, which is why I work out about 5 days a week! I'm looking for a friend first, to develop a solid foundation and then after that anything is possible. I try living my life as glass is half full. There is little room in my life for bs, so if you are a player, move on to another opponent..I'm not interested. I don't date just to get a free meal and I'm not the one night stand type..we'll leave that to the crazies! I'm honest, respectful, energetic, fun and take pride in how I look. I love doing a lot of fun things and consider myself pretty athletic. I'm the boy my dad never had, but can dress up like the rest of them! I'm not afraid to say that the man I'm looking for must be clean, at least a shower a day if not two..if I can, you can.. It's ok to floss and brush for two whole minutes. I love to kiss so thats non negotiable! Cleanliness is next to godliness! You must be respectful and know how to treat a lady, and at the same time be ok with me taking care of you! I don't mind hanging on the couch, but if you're a couch potato, move on. Active men only! You must be an honest person and be able to communicate. We may not always agree on things but we must be able to talk things out and most of all hear each other. A good fight is ok cause making up is the best part! I have a ton to offer the right man and at this point of my life I certainly know what I don't want. I'm not looking for perfect just someone perfect for me! If you don't have at least one recent pic without sunglasses and can't actually make out the color of your eyes, don't bother contacting me. Don't mean to sound harsh but this is a sight where we all look first for the attraction. There's someone for everyone! At least I hope that's true! If I'm not the fish for you, good luck fishing! We all need a little luck right? How about my private jet?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    As an acupuncturist, I attempt to live a healthy lifestyle(key word is attempt...doesn't always happen) by going to the gym and/or running ***times per week and cooking simple, healthy meals. I like to go out and have fun but am very happy spending time enjoying the outdoors, hiking, running or walking or hanging indoors playing games or watching a movie cuddled on the couch. I also enjoy riding horses, kayaking (I've only been once but I loved it), I am a great passenger on the back of a motorcycle (I even come equipped with my own helmet and chaps), rock climbing (I haven't been in a while) or simply plopping down in a chair with a good book out in the sun...the training has been intense but I am really excited for the race! I typically enjoy rock music but I think my tastes are mellowing a bit(don't be fooled though...the rocker will always live in me!). I attempt to live positively so I make every effort to appreciate what I have and not complain about what I do not have or cannot change and hope to find those qualities in a mate. I am open-minded and above all, I love to laugh(even if it's at my own expense). I am told that I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor so if you offend easily, I might not be your cup of tea. I am looking for someone who has similar interests, doesn't carry baggage around with them and looks at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty. I'm looking for someone who understands that relationships take two and that communication is vital to the success of that relationship. I am also looking for someone I am wildly attracted to and who is wildly attracted to me in return!A few of my favorite things: my morning coffee, my cats(I have 2 but am in no way a "crazy cat lady"...I promise!!), my home, my family and friends, passion/connection/affection, lip balm, my job (these are in no special order but getting in the way of my morning coffee might leave you without limbs...not that I am a grumpy morning person but b/c I really do love my coffee!). I think a first date when you don't know someone should be something simple like coffee or a drink with the possibility of dinner/food. It's easy to like someone on the phone but in person chemistry is either there or it's not so a quick meeting is the best way to see if it's there...and then go forward to a 2nd date(or continue the 1st if both parties are available). *****I never log off so it looks like I'm Online day and night....I am NOT...so if I don't respond immediately, it's because I haven't checked my app! ;-)

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am looking for a man with a fun personality, tall, good looks, likes to adventure out and also loves to stay home by the fire, He needs to have a warm heart and can make me laugh.I have children that fill my days with laughter and lots of love. I have two horses and love to ride on trails and do hunter paces. I'm not over the top like some equestrians I just love my horses. I embrace life for what it is worth and I don't take anything for granted. I believe you should love like you have never loved before and enjoy every day that is given to you. First dates are always awkward and uncomfortable until you get to know each other. I think doing something such as rock climbing, race track is much more relaxing than going to dinner or lunch for a first date.

  • Lia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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