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Melissa, 45
United States, Minnesota, Northfield

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Hi there! Thanks for stopping in... I am a mother of two fabulous boys! I love watching them play sports..of course I'm their biggest fan. I'm a special ed teacher and take pride in helping my students achieve their goals. I have a good job and do the best I can in life..just a squirrel trying to get a nut, ya know?From what I'm hearing on here, women are pocket diggers! Not this girl. I've worked hard to achieve my goals and expect you to have done the same! It is important to me to be healthy..I try to eat right as much as I can but enjoy good food, which is why I work out about 5 days a week! I'm looking for a friend first, to develop a solid foundation and then after that anything is possible. I try living my life as glass is half full. There is little room in my life for bs, so if you are a player, move on to another opponent..I'm not interested. I don't date just to get a free meal and I'm not the one night stand type..we'll leave that to the crazies! I'm honest, respectful, energetic, fun and take pride in how I look. I love doing a lot of fun things and consider myself pretty athletic. I'm the boy my dad never had, but can dress up like the rest of them! I'm not afraid to say that the man I'm looking for must be clean, at least a shower a day if not two..if I can, you can.. It's ok to floss and brush for two whole minutes. I love to kiss so thats non negotiable! Cleanliness is next to godliness! You must be respectful and know how to treat a lady, and at the same time be ok with me taking care of you! I don't mind hanging on the couch, but if you're a couch potato, move on. Active men only! You must be an honest person and be able to communicate. We may not always agree on things but we must be able to talk things out and most of all hear each other. A good fight is ok cause making up is the best part! I have a ton to offer the right man and at this point of my life I certainly know what I don't want. I'm not looking for perfect just someone perfect for me! If you don't have at least one recent pic without sunglasses and can't actually make out the color of your eyes, don't bother contacting me. Don't mean to sound harsh but this is a sight where we all look first for the attraction. There's someone for everyone! At least I hope that's true! If I'm not the fish for you, good luck fishing! We all need a little luck right? How about my private jet?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Camping / Hiking Canadian Caribbean Irish Vietnamese Documentary Drama Western
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