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Alvena, 42
United States, Minnesota, New York Mills

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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Zariyah from New York Mills | Woman | 45 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I AM SO READY FOR MY LAST FIRST DATE!I'm looking for someone who enjoys life, likes to laugh and have fun ! Someone who I miss when we're apart. Someone who I know I can trust and will have my back no matter what. Someone who is comfortable in their own skin and knows what they want. Someone who is drama free, over their past relationships and is looking toward the future. My wishList.... 1) Attraction. Sometimes it's hard to put that into words. It's either there or it isn't. 2) Health-conscious. It shows you respect yourself and have lots of energy. I want a partner who likes to go out and do things. Baseball games, concerts, road trips, restaurants. I am open to new adventures.3) A great smile! A smile shows your zest for life and your energy shines through. 4) An animal lover. Shows you have a caring heart and a sensitive side. 5) Be genuine! Just be an all around good guy! A gentleman. Someone REALDeal breakers .... 1) Separated individuals; sorry you're still married. 2) Smokers or heavy drinkers; sorry that's not sexy. A little about me. I am an independent, charismatic, caring women who has a good head on her shoulders. I am the all american girl next door type. I might be more of a girly girl but if there is a kitten living in a dumpster....I am diving in! I am passionate about helping others and have a soft spot for the underdog. Especially the elderly and animals. So if any of the above sparks your interest contact me. I'm not good at reading between the lines. Step up to the plate and send a message. I'm definitely old-fashioned and prefer that the man make the first move. So until then, I'll be waiting!*WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.*** Something fun to break the ice!Nothing too stuffy or serious.It doesn't matter so much WHAT you are doing...with the right person you can have fun doing anything!

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  • Syd from New York Mills | Woman | 43 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm looking for a funny, smart man who knows how to be in the moment. I laugh at myself all the time and have a great sense of humor...if you have quick wit we'll get along really well. You are health concious and active. I eat really well but on occassion I do like pizza and a really great cannoli (with chocolate chips)...maybe even a coke (fully loaded). I have been active all my life and when I'm not skiing, cycling, or doing some type of sport, I'm in the gym...however, I'm not a gym nut. I really don't have a "favorite" anything. I'm a girl who fits anywhere, with any type of crowd and always makes friends. I'm open to new experiences, but love the old ones too. Being with friends is great, but I also like my alone time. I love being around kids and being goofy with them, but if you don't have kids, that's ok too. I have one daughter in her 20's and that's it for me.I'm ambitious and need you to be too. If you just like getting through the day, then we're not a match. We go around once so let's make the best of it. I'm not a drama girl...it's just not my thing. There are so many things I want to do and am looking for my soulmate to experience those things with, many of which I've never done before...that's where the adventurer comes in. I'm looking for someone who has a young spirit and I wanted to ensure I come up in the right search results and was advised to modify my age to do that. I don't want to be deceptive, just find what I'm looking for. If you would like to know more, let's connect. Let's do something easy...just meet and learn about each other.

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  • Francine from New York Mills | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a fun loving mom looking for company with no immediate commitments. I enjoy a varity of different things to do from staying in and watching a good movie to going to a sports bar and watching a nascar race.I enjoy cooking,working outside,and going to flea market' and antique shops.I have two sons ages 20 and 10.I'm a very hard working and driven person.I enjoy new adventures new foods and new people.I believe that honesty true friends and family are the keys to happiness.I'm not looking for anyone to pay my bill..I can do that myself,not looking for a baby daddy-they have one.Dont need or want to live with you,I have a home! Going somewhere mutually acceptable and just getting to know each other.

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