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Arnita, 42
United States, Minnesota, New York Mills

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About Me

ok, so, about me...I am a fairly sarcastic person & tend to appreciate that in others. I need to be able to have an intellectual conversation with someone but also be silly & stupid sometimes. I am compassionate & empathetic. You don't know what any other person is or has gone through, and I think it's important to remember that as you go through your own life.-love the snow & snowboarding but also love just sitting on the beach & reading a book. I couldn't live in a place where the seasons didn't change. I like to be outside on a deck drinking beers, having a nice dinner with some wine, laying in bed listening to the rain, walking outside while it's snowing, cuddling on the couch, going on a long walk, hike, or run and having that exhausted but great feeling of accomplishment at the end. I can't cook - at all - just being honest :-) I love my Doc Martens, and all of my tattoos &;..but the hat is a must! ha ha) I like sports - live or on TV, watching football in the fall with a bunch of friends or going to a baseball game in the summer! I like all kinds of music but NOT country (with the exception of Johnny Cash) and mostly alternative...Social Distortion, New Order, the Smiths, Metric, Offspring, Keane, Spinnerette... I have 2 children who are with me 50% of the time. They mean the world to me & we are absolutely a package deal. There is little that is more important to me than helping them become kind, genuine individuals. I am not looking for someone to be a father to my children. They have a father & he is a good dad. I am here looking for someone for me. Someone that I can connect with. Wow, there's so much more to me that can't be explained here. If you want to know anything, just ask... :-)Please don't contact me if you ***have taken a picture of yourself w/your cell phone in your bathroom mirror or ***I can see shotguns in the background of your picture. coffee or a drink, walk or hike.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a simple person. I do not need a lot. I have many hobbies, crafts and sports. I like to walk and watch sports. I love spending time with friends and family. I am not a late night bar goer, but I do like a dinner and drink. I work long days and prefer those days to come home , watch a game or movie and go to bed. On my days off I love being outside and just walking the boardwalk, park, especially my dog. I love going to lunch with my family or friends. I love sitting home just watching tv or doing some kind of crafts. I love simple shopping and visiting new places on day trips. I love to travel to AZ to visit family and friends in VT. They are my favorite places. If you are a person who does not like the night life , but enjoy a nice dinner and drink. If you like to watch sports and shop for simple things. If you can smile, laugh, and surprise me with visits and small gifts I will do the same. I prefer pools over beach. Getting along with my family and friends are important and I will do the same with yours. Being confident in oneself is important, but not conceded !I am not a princess, I will not dress to impress. I will dress, however, for the occasion. But I wear what I'm comfortable in. I don't care what others think. If there is someone out there that seems the same I am yours to contact. I don't play games and I tell you how it is. I like honesty and I want it back. Good or bad. I love animals and you need to respect that. I don't like negative people. Pet peeves of mine: lazy and cheap! i don't make a lot, but i am never cheap. I work very long days, but i get done what i need to get done on my days off. If we have things in common then Please let's give it a chance, send me a message :). Oh and if you open up your bio with how attractive and smart you are, then why are you on here? Bad news stay away thank you!... Just saying.Oh and please contact me with a message. I don't respond to meet me or favorites. I rather you just say hello:) Coffee or a walk I think is great. Would love to start chatting via *** first. I do believe you can screen a lot. But no more than a couple weeks before we meet if things go well. Simple and not stressful. Friends first and see where it goes. Worst case coffee and thanks for your time. No worries :)

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