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Kirstie, 41
United States, Minnesota, New York Mills

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Where to start...well, I'm divorced & have one son who is the world to me, however, I feel that it's come time that I spend a bit on myself & I don't mean to be or sound selfish. I'm very active with my son & his various sports & activities ~ I've coached for years, don't any longer but am still actively involved. Family & friends are very important to me as are something that you don't seem to see anymore these days~values, morals and respect {it is something that I do stress upon my son and proud to say he agrees and will point out to me people who don't say Thank You when he holds a door}. I am an open, honest & very independent person-almost to a fault sometimes {from what I've been told} who has a big heart, am compassionate, down to earth, always on-the-go, fun, great sense of humor, easygoing, cool, outgoing, laid back. I am basically Just Me who is and does the best that I can.I'm well grounded & know who I am & what I want & know when it's time to be serious and time for fun~time to pull my hair up or just let it down. I have no problems with and can and sometimes do laugh at myself, it's fun and sometimes you just need to do that...besides, it can be a great stress reliever! Two words that would definitely not describe me are "High-Maintenance", I'm pretty low maintenance and easy going. Sometimes it’s just the simple things in life that mean the most. If you're looking for Ms. High-Maintenance, please do pass me by.Some of my likes...cooking, life-both the finer & simpler things-whether it means dressing up and going out for a night on the town or a show, jeans & a t-shirt with some beer & pizza or staying in, nice glass of red & watching a movie or t.v. show, being with family, friends or that special someone, or simply relaxing, quiet time. I am usually up for anything~well, almost anything! I love to have a good time~a great red, read, relax, watch a movie, enjoy going down the shore, the beach especially at nite~there's just something about the ocean and waves in the moonlight, out for a drink or to see a live band with friends or that special someone, go dancing, playing, watching or attending sports events. I love most music {esp., they are my favorite and I'm a huge fan}, catching a live band or just music in general, most genres depending on my mood. I love it all, well most but not a big fan of Country, though I like a song or two. Esp. LOVE my Eagles/Flyers/Phillies, etc...most or just about any sport, Little League Baseball especially! {I can hold my own in a decent sports conversation, too.}About the one I am looking for...well, I he needs to be someone who definitely loves children, whether he has them or not, that's very important & non-negotiable. Someone who is grounded, down to earth, responsible, secure, outgoing, funny, caring, not overly superficial, has a great sense of humor, knows when to be serious & when to just let loose, knows what they want from & where they are going in life-their goals, someone who is not into playing games, takes care of their mind as well as their body. Also, a person who is attractive both inside and out, loves to have a good time, whatever it may be - just be yourself. Honesty is a must & is very important-if you cannot be honest, then you cannot be yourself. Someone who values certain things & life, for what they are and what they might contain, whether good or bad, life is what it is and you can either learn from your mistakes & grow from them or let them get the best of you, myself, I chose the former. Being friends is important as is being considerate of each other's ideas, thoughts, wants & needs. Liking sports is not a must, but would be nice.I believe you must be yourself and be comfortable with who you are ~ if you can't be with yourself, then honestly, how can you with someone else?!? {it's an honest question}. I am not looking for anyone who is a player, into games or phony - just be true & be yourself. Obviously, if you cannot be comfortable with who you are, then how you you be comfortable with who you are with? This could be defined in a lot of ways, but hopefully you get the point.If any of this sounds interesting to you or you would like to know more, let me know. Wishing you much luck in your search. Ciao! Michele It would depend on the two of us and what we decide to do ~ can be anything from something simple & fun, coffee or drinks and talk, quick bite to eat or dinner, nice walk, a comedy show, dancing, the beach...I'm pretty easy going ~ let's see if there's any chemistry. Whatever we decide to do, so long as it's fun and we're enjoying ourselves, does it matter just what we're doing? It's not always about what you're doing, but rather who you're with. You'll never know the outcome without giving it a shot. Hopefully, we'll have such a great time we've already planned our next date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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French German Spanish
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