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Meghan
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I enjoy traveling, dinning, music, dancing, reading, writing constructively, reading people, and definitely conversations that are of depth. I’d like to find someone who can tune in to my language and understand me.
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Delicia
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am a good blend of traditional and modern values. I believe in the concepts of love and marriage and expect my guy to believe in the same. I'm nurturing, peaceful and level headed. I don't love staying up late and I don’t love to party. However, I do enjoy just sitting, talking and staring into each others eyes. I believe an ideal relationship is complete and utter comfort. We can be ourself around each other without feeling judged, shamed or boring. We enjoy doing everything together, we can happily sit next to each other doing separate things and the days just aren't as much fun without the other person by our side. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Passionate deep rooted love making and warm comforting cuddling are ever present but not expected on any specific schedule. Fights are rare and when one does happen, we remain calm, considerate and respectful of one another. We believe in talking until we've reached some sort of peace and not in childish games like the silent treatment.We don't have to agree on everything, but the willingness to discuss things intelligently and the understanding that “differences” aren't relationship “; becomes our motto. We tread through each stage of a new relationship at which ever pace feels right, not by a calendar. This journey is taken without the fear of communicating doubts or concerns which will prevent getting too far down the path only to realize one of us stopped somewhere along the way.Communication, truth (and trust ) as well as unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love will be our recipe for a lasting long-term relationship and hopefully more!I have been in other relationships, and hopefully so have you...So what I am bringing to the table is the knowledge that flossing is important ~ and laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, work for it; don't run from problems. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally ~ it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.I am a very upfront "say it like it is" and deal with the facts kind of girl. I am an awesome 44 year old female that dresses with care and has embraced my size. My mate will need to do the same. My profile declares that my body type is “prefer not to say" and I chose this because I am fully aware that the majority of men envision a perfect (or average) woman's body type as a size 0 and someone with a few extra pounds as obese. I am 5' 4" and weigh with in a range of ***— ***lbs ~ depending on the season. This places me in a pant size ***. No secrets, no illusions...love me for me or please catch another fish..I love traveling the world and experiencing new cultures, different communities and various lifestyles... Are you in?I know we are all on here to find the "one", please take the time to read my entire profile. If you contact me and I don't respond, it is only because in one way or another you didn't match one of the below listed "must haves". If you took the time to read this far I am definitely blessed and grateful, but please do us both a favor and read the following before contacting me:We all want a relationship and I am respectful of that. I only date one person at a time. However you have to be willing to let me determine when it is that I feel comfortable enough for our first meeting. I like to get to know you in messaging, then texting, calling, then meeting. I am not up to anything mischevious its just my personal preference for security and certainty.PLEASE**Non smokers only*Have no children or only children 18 & older *Note that I am not active daily, not a sports fanatic, and not a workout machine — I truly am a homebody*Know you DO NOT want kids in the future...this is important as I DO NOT and CAN NOT*Understand I am a spiritual person — with my own personal faith, beliefs and way of practicing — but I do not attend church and odds are.. I won't.*Note-- I am scared to death of motorcycles and will not get on one, and CAN NOT DATE a mate that rides one.*You have to like to travel to tropical locations and more!*My life requires someone that understands the difference between being "unhealthy" and "unable" and is not frightened by or turned off by medical complications.**Lastly, you must love pets, especially dogs! My first date could be anywhere that allows for a chance to talk, and look into each others eyes. This is my favorite way of knowing whats inside a person. The first date could be short, it could be long, but either way it should be public, yet private enough to talk. The first date for me will come after we've built up such chemistry messaging and on the phone that when I open the door and see you, we both want to smile, and for a brief moment...no jitters. (Does that really happen...we shall see)
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Dixee
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Ok, I'm gonna put out there, that just like everyone else I HATE this part of filling out a profile. Anyone worth knowing usually has very little to say about themselves and is more interested in getting to know the other person. However if I leave this part blank, won't it be difficult for you to make an educated decision about whether we mght be a good fit for one another?I can put the usual junk: I love to laugh, I'm into all kinds of music, ranging from country to hiphop to classical and jazz. I can put more personal stuff out there: My day cannot start without a good cup of coffee, I REALLY hate textspeak and typos, I feel it shows a lack of effort. By the way, if there are typos in this profile, I want to know (my keyboard is misbehaving terribly!) I am a cat person, but love most pets. I listed myself as "a few extra pounds" because the option "rubensesque" or "voluptuous" weren't available, and BBW implies a taller build to me. I tend to process information very rapidly and often seem to be changing the subject, when in reality, I was extremely far down a certain train of thought. I can drive stick shift! I am exceptionally good with numbers,so I work in the accounting field. I have very high ethical standards. I don't think lying,cheating,jealousy,or raising your hand to your partner when angered have ANY place in a relationship.I love to read, garden, spin yarn,and play MMORPGs (Everquest in particular) Something casual... Lunch or coffee or a local band playing live music.I am fairly laid back in my tastes..