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Delicia
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I am a good blend of traditional and modern values. I believe in the concepts of love and marriage and expect my guy to believe in the same. I'm nurturing, peaceful and level headed. I don't love staying up late and I don’t love to party. However, I do enjoy just sitting, talking and staring into each others eyes. I believe an ideal relationship is complete and utter comfort. We can be ourself around each other without feeling judged, shamed or boring. We enjoy doing everything together, we can happily sit next to each other doing separate things and the days just aren't as much fun without the other person by our side. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Passionate deep rooted love making and warm comforting cuddling are ever present but not expected on any specific schedule. Fights are rare and when one does happen, we remain calm, considerate and respectful of one another. We believe in talking until we've reached some sort of peace and not in childish games like the silent treatment.We don't have to agree on everything, but the willingness to discuss things intelligently and the understanding that “differences” aren't relationship “; becomes our motto. We tread through each stage of a new relationship at which ever pace feels right, not by a calendar. This journey is taken without the fear of communicating doubts or concerns which will prevent getting too far down the path only to realize one of us stopped somewhere along the way.Communication, truth (and trust ) as well as unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love will be our recipe for a lasting long-term relationship and hopefully more!I have been in other relationships, and hopefully so have you...So what I am bringing to the table is the knowledge that flossing is important ~ and laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, work for it; don't run from problems. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally ~ it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.I am a very upfront "say it like it is" and deal with the facts kind of girl. I am an awesome 44 year old female that dresses with care and has embraced my size. My mate will need to do the same. My profile declares that my body type is “prefer not to say" and I chose this because I am fully aware that the majority of men envision a perfect (or average) woman's body type as a size 0 and someone with a few extra pounds as obese. I am 5' 4" and weigh with in a range of ***— ***lbs ~ depending on the season. This places me in a pant size ***. No secrets, no illusions...love me for me or please catch another fish..I love traveling the world and experiencing new cultures, different communities and various lifestyles... Are you in?I know we are all on here to find the "one", please take the time to read my entire profile. If you contact me and I don't respond, it is only because in one way or another you didn't match one of the below listed "must haves". If you took the time to read this far I am definitely blessed and grateful, but please do us both a favor and read the following before contacting me:We all want a relationship and I am respectful of that. I only date one person at a time. However you have to be willing to let me determine when it is that I feel comfortable enough for our first meeting. I like to get to know you in messaging, then texting, calling, then meeting. I am not up to anything mischevious its just my personal preference for security and certainty.PLEASE**Non smokers only*Have no children or only children 18 & older *Note that I am not active daily, not a sports fanatic, and not a workout machine — I truly am a homebody*Know you DO NOT want kids in the future...this is important as I DO NOT and CAN NOT*Understand I am a spiritual person — with my own personal faith, beliefs and way of practicing — but I do not attend church and odds are.. I won't.*Note-- I am scared to death of motorcycles and will not get on one, and CAN NOT DATE a mate that rides one.*You have to like to travel to tropical locations and more!*My life requires someone that understands the difference between being "unhealthy" and "unable" and is not frightened by or turned off by medical complications.**Lastly, you must love pets, especially dogs! My first date could be anywhere that allows for a chance to talk, and look into each others eyes. This is my favorite way of knowing whats inside a person. The first date could be short, it could be long, but either way it should be public, yet private enough to talk. The first date for me will come after we've built up such chemistry messaging and on the phone that when I open the door and see you, we both want to smile, and for a brief moment...no jitters. (Does that really happen...we shall see)
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Keeleigh
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I\'m a fun person always on the go, but I know how to relax and still have a nice time.. Always a hard worker, but play just as harder. Looking for the same person to have good time together.
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Kelli
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
For giggles I searched through other women's profiles. Whew, some high expectations out there, not that a girl shouldn't have her standards. But damn, fixing someone else's lonely life is a tall order (same applies for men).. Wow, did have a disclaimer on here but apparently most the girls got that covered..I know a little intimidating but hey you gotta laugh once in a while...Some things I've learned from this site:Self employed = Unemployed (most the time)They no longer teach you how to capitalize when you get your Bachelors.All men love the outdoors and water.A profile that says "no drama" means you have a crazy ex.Everyone states their children are the "center of my universe" but complain about how much child support they pay/receive.95% of the women on here have face shots as their main photo, most the men have an "action" photo or are outdoors.If a woman on here has a double chin she's fat but if a man has one he has an "average or athletic build". There is something really ghetto about a man/woman over the age of 35 that still says "hit me up".Most of us view people whose viewed us just to see who passed us byIf you're looking for a "kind hearted" (which most if you are) woman/man, you probably have MAJOR insecurities.Now don't you wish they had a like button on here or am I to harsh? :I know that just sounded really jaded and angry but was ment to find the humor in some sad truths about dating online..Well, trying this again. I'm outgoing, witty, driven and can be a huge pain if the occasion calls for it. What type of "relationship" am I looking for? Gee, what's wrong with just dating to start? My ideal guy would be educated, (and no a slip of paper isn't everything), clever and a man who is secure in himself.. I have my stuff together so should you! You MUST have a car, a job and your own place! Anything else is unacceptable, I won't be someone's ride, banker or landlord..Oh BTW, riding a motorcylce is what I do, not all that I am.. Happy Fishing Guys!PS. Please no hate mail if I say I'm not interested. Really? At least I messaged you back unlike most girls.. Geez!. I can get dressed up or just wear jeans and boots, I'm comfortable anywhere I go..