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Ashlyn, 42

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About Me

I am very outgoing, friendly, flirty and fun. I don't get jealous or clingy, and I don't expect you to either. I like spending time with family and friends, jumping in the truck or on the bike and taking off for the day, or curling up on the couch with a glass of wine. Occasionally I like my alone time. I enjoy reading, camping, hiking, browsing antique malls and flea markets, taking road trips and photographing whatever catches my eye. I hate the gym, and prefer fun exercise, like walking, hiking, kayaking, Krav Maga... I like most any kind of music (except rap and heavy metal), and I enjoy live performances by jazz/blues/acoustic artists. I'm not afraid to get dirty and have been known to play in the rain. I wear jeans and t-shirts to work, so I love an opportunity to get dressed up for a night out. I am compassionate, giving and loyal almost to a fault. I express my opinions, stand up for principles I believe in, and respect others who do the same. I can be really sarcastic and silly, so you must be able to joke and have fun without getting offended or embarrassed. Ideally, I am looking for someone who is responsible, with a strong work ethic, but who can still be fun and spontaneous. I like a guy who's rough around the edges but cleans up when needed. I was not blessed with kids of my own, but I find little ones to be a perfect cure for a bad day, and they seem to find me equally entertaining. (Teenagers, well--they're a bit more of a challenge.) The more time I spend with my nephews and friends' kids, the more I realize what I'm missing. So don't be shy, dads--we'll get along just fine. :-)I've been quite independent for a lot of years now. As it turns out, it can get pretty lonely. I work evenings, but have long weekends, and would love to have someone to share them with. I recently bought a camp and look forward to fixing it up and spending lots of time there. There's even stuff to do in the winter. But I've got a motorhome, so we definitely have options! I've been accused of being a workaholic. This year I took serious steps toward changing that by taking more time for myself. Now I'd like some company... If any of this sounds remotely interesting to you, send me a message. Something casual like breakfast, lunch or drinks so we can see if we hit it off. If we can find someplace to walk around while we get to know each other, it may take the pressure off and seem less like an interview...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sau

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    *****I'm looking for a long term relationship.*****Chemistry and attraction is vital to a relationship meaning I need to be able to relate to you on a physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual basis.We have to be able to laugh and have a great time together, we have to be able to trust and give each other sound advice, we have to have each other's back at all times, and of course we have to be able to satisfy each other completely. If you're looking for the same thing and you think your mature enough to fit this bill then great by all means *** isn't so much an issue for me but if you're not spiritual then that's a deal breaker.If your profile says "casual dating/no commitment" then I won't respond that's a RED FLAG that you are not looking for the same thing that I am.*****Also if you're profile is hidden another Major RED FLAG.*****Also if you are my age and never been married RED FLAG.I need someone that can fit into my life and understand me. I'm a divorced single mom with kids. So I need a family guy, a relationship type of guy, a mature guy.I'm best described as a good woman with a good head on her shouldersI'm responsible I take care of business so to speak. I'm articulate, I know what I want and I'm happy with me and my accomplishments thus far in life.I have my own condo, my own car, a good job and a bright future.I would however like to find the right gentleman to spend my days and nights with, someone who has eyes only for me and gets nervous and excited every time he lays eyes on me.Yes I have kids as most do who are my age. Yes I love them with all my heart but they are my responsibility.Their father is in their life but there is absolutely no drama. We realized a long time ago that it was no longer about us but it was about them and creating the best environment for which they can thrive and become productive, responsible adults one day. They are well on their way. They are respectful and will treat my special someone with good manners and respect.A little about me: I'm outgoing, well spoken, educated, successful, fun, loyal, interesting, classy, old school in some things, respect my elders, but I'm also romantic, sensual and down right sexy.What I would like from you is integrity, be a man of your word, be spiritual, be spontaneous, be fun, be loyal, be a relationship type of guy, be mature, have your act together ie. have your own place, own car, a decent job. The amount of education you have or don't have isn't an issue for me as long as your making an honest living. You must however not smoke, do drugs, be married. You must be attractive to me. I don't have a type per say but something about you has to lead me to a connection with you. I don't mind being with an older man but I don't want someone to mistake me for being your daughter either.I'm pretty down to earth I can fit in almost any group whether it be rich or poor or a different ethnic culture.I'm sincere and genuine but also extremely diplomatically honest.If you look and don't write then I will assume I'm not for you. If you do write be sincere and respectful. If it's not a love connection I will be polite but also not waste your time.The Notebook is my favorite movie. If you've seen it mention it in your *** I know you read my profile.Happy Fishing and Best Regards,Always Romantic Girl Coffee no need to invest a lot of money or time until we both know if there is a connection.

  • Clarice

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy my full time job taking care of our military veterans and currently working on my Bachelor's Degree. I have two girls (one in college and the other in high school) that mean the world to me. I want someone to bounce my thoughts off of and dream with - in short, I am looking for a life partner and best friend. Life is an adventure and you never know what is down, around the bend. I have pure joy and sheer excitement for my Harley- I enjoy exploring the country and staying different places along the way. I don't have a bucket list but my "bike it list" is very, very extensive. I enjoy photography and photographing nature. I also like to find new wines on my travels. Augustine is another favorite of mine.I am looking for a man who is secure in his skin, financially stable, and easygoing. I figure at this stage in life that I enjoy every moment left on this earth. I am not into drama or difficult people; I don't have time or energy to waste on those things. Sorry but I don't smoke and can smell cigarette smoke a mile away so if you smoke we will not be compatible. If you drink on occasion, ok but if you drink excessively and stay in a drunken stooper then we will not be compatible. I absolutely do not and will not tolerate drugs. If you do them, continue clicking profiles and move far, far, away from my profile. I work hard to provide for myself and my family. I like to laugh and have fun. If I have you intrigued and you want to know more...contact me and we will take it from there. If not, I wish you the best of luck as you search for your special someone.

  • Marisol

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am not your average 10 but yes I am some ones 10 looks are not every thing what is on the inside is were the true beauty is I am a very out going person I like to take walks watch sports football the most, cook sit back and watch a good movie I like to go sight seeing . I like to take trips just to see what is going on in the world .explore different place. I like to list to oldies but goodies r&b hip hop and a little rap,blues.i live a drama and stress free life no game playen that is only for the bedroom or for kids I come with a warning label.........WARNING POTENTIAL ADDICTION......ONCE YOU GET TO KNOW ME I'M A VERY HARD HABIT TO BREAK.............I'm not a woman of words, and that's what most profiles are, mere words that sound good. Think about it, better yet scan this site and most say the same things, basically what you want to hear.This whole dating scene reminds me of two games, Checkers and Chess. Checkers is simple and quick, and Chess is a game that requires time and the use of your mind. Please think outside the box and please don't text me saying you don't play games. Because life to me is all about winning and losing. It about making all the right choices.Anyway if you have read this far most likely you will push your pawn forward, and that's a very good choice because the pawn is the soul of the game of chess. I'm waiting on your move and that will determine my next move.Enjoy! Go out to dave and busters and than catch a movie after that sit back and get to no each other

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