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Paulene, 41

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About Me

I'm a fun, honest, good-hearted, loyal and romantic woman! I have an 20 yr. old beautiful daughter that is my "Pride -n- Joy" & without her I would feel completely empty. Family is very important to me and I certainly spend as much time with them as I can. I have a great sense of humor and love to be around people that don't stress out over the small things in life. I am very laid back and enjoy every day whether it's a good day or bad day as life is to short to live it any other way.I am looking for something long term , however; I do recognize that it starts with, getting to know each other, having some fun and seeing where it goes. I appreciate sincerity and integrity. Please don’t portray yourself to be someone you really aren’t, just be yourself. I do not care for “games”, life is to short for this mess and I refuse to deal with it. If you are unstable and not over your EX, don't bother! Just be "real" and don't act as if your better than any other man out there available because chances are, your NOT!!I love being outdoors in the summer, enjoy being on the lake and/or by the pool relaxing & doing some grilling. As for winter, nothing like a fire going & a good movie!My favorite music is indeed country, however; Would enjoy a casual dinner, lunch and/or an evening drink on a patio somewhere listening to some live music...... YOU TELL ME!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeanie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-45

    I'm looking for a long term relationship so don't waste my time by winking or liking me if ur not going to respond to messages I send

  • Abagail

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm blessed to say that I love my job! It's an incredible industry & it helps to be an aviation fanatic as well. He's all grown up (so he thinks) at 20 years of age. Honestly, I couldn't have asked for a better child. We were fortunate not to have the teenager problems that many parents have these days.I love animals, I have a dog & 3 cats but they don't live with me. Sound crazy? LOL I visit them often.I look for the good & the positive in every day. I love people with a positive attitude & say away from those that live on negativity. I'm a responsible woman but when it's time to let the hair down and get crazy and have fun, it's ON!I'm not shy. I love learning about different cultures.I was married for 22 years, it was a mutual decision. No drama, no ugliness. We still talk and are friends.Yes, it can happen, it doesn’t have to be an ugly thing if you both are adult about it. I'm single for the first time in my adult life and looking forward to the adventures that life has waiting for me!I was my mother’s caregiver after my father passed away in ***. She had several health problems and Alzheimer’s. In March of this year, her suffering ended and is in the arms of her true love once again.I've learned not to allow things to stress me out that are out of my control. Life is full of changes; you just have to roll with it.I don't play games, I keep it real. I have no expectations, I am looking to meet new people/friends and enjoy life. I'll let things happen when they are meant to happen.Always challenge yourself to do something new, it may change your life!**********************************************************************************If you are married or a racist, don't bother messaging me, there is no room in my life for you. Just sayin'!I am a strong, independent, confident woman that has self-respect. Don't bother asking for nude photos or sex, it won't happen.***NOTE***If the site shows that I'm online, it doesn't mean that I'm sitting in front of a computer screen awaiting the next message. I could be signed into the phone app but driving, actually talking on my phone, kicking the a$$ of the person who spray painted my son's truck, saving a homeless animal or whatever.I might be home but busy doing things. Things like cleaning, cooking, shaving my legs, organizing my closets & drawers, dancing to loud music, paying bills, reading a book, you get the idea...I'll stop by the little glowing screen every now and then.If I don't respond as quickly as you'd like & you get annoyed, you might want to look for someone else who doesn't have responsibilities, hobbies, activities, or interests. Just keeping it real. Be creative and surprise me!

  • Serita

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    ok i tried the whole tell me about yourself and i cant seem to get it to say what i want. ask me ill say i am awesome. im cool ,hip ,fresh ,in the now of things and looking to live a little.meet some cool people on the way. what im not i guess might work better for me. im not your cyber girl, no i will not send nude pics. i am not materialistic or superficial. Also on the drugs question. I answered socially. Well I am ***friendly. But that is all no other drugs. And it is not a habit for me. Ita just nice sometimes. i guess if you would like to further know more message me allready!!!!! dinner and a movie. weather it be a home cooked meal and a red box movie to a resturaunt and the theatre, if the company is good it doesnt matter which. the company is what i would be interested in. I have to revise this. Although I state a redbox and a home cooked meal. I mean that in regaurds that I don't have to have a fancy dinner or a costly movie. I in no way meant that I'm coming to your house on a first meeting to cuddle on the couch of a man I have no clue as to who he is. And vise versa I'm not cuddling on the couch or other in my home with a man I have no clue of in my home. A formal meeting in a public place would be in order first. A park or that sort would be fine. With that said, dating is not about money. Nor is it about sex. If you are searching for something real its about the person.

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