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Phillida, 44

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About Me

If you have drama in your life, unresolved emotional or commitment issues, afraid of taking a chance, married or separated then please skip my profile. I'm a working professional, single, financially stable, no baggage or emotional issues. I'm here to give 110% of my effort to someone that is willing to the same in return, no games!I'm not here to waste my time ...... my time is very valuable. I'm here in search of a real connection leading to a relationship only, not endless dating! I'm looking to be in a commited relationship with someone.I'm honest! Straight forward, laid back, open minded, conciderate, I express how I feel...... I hate drama and avoid it at all costs. I hate to raise my voice or yell. I hate arguing but I love to debate, I'll admit when I'm wrong, I seek out answers to questions I can't answer, I have a big heart, I communicate well........I depise going to bed upset or angry..... I confront major issues *** turning away. I'm motivated, ambitious, determined and like to stay busy but I enjoy down time to relax...... I like to see visual progress in my work at the end of a day. I'm protective and respectful..... I can't stand disrespect unless I did something to deserve it, I don't like it when other people are disrespected.I'm generous to friends and family..... I'm friendly and get along with most anyone to a point. I'm confident, but not****. If I see something I want I figure out a way to make it happen. I'm passionate, sensual, and sexual. I have high standards, I have simple but usually expensive taste......I am more of a trend setter than a follower!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aggie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi! Looking for a man who I can't wait to see and find myself thinking about often. I like Sushi ,Starbucks, moonlight ,the stars, holding hands, kissing, cuddling on the couch watching movies/going to movies. I love Horror movies. Fall/Autumn is my favorite time of year. I love the spice smells, the colors of the trees...(Christmas is nice too!) I like to walk through the leaves with a sweater on a beautiful sunny fall day! I appreciate art. I enjoy most genre of music!. Send a message if interested in knowing more ;) Coffee seems like a great place to start. We can fiqure that out together!

  • Keila

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    A little about me.....warm, generous, fun, adventurous, motivated, loyal, energetic, creative, smart, passionate, intelligent, honest, funny, totally down-to-earth and mature woman who is also trustworthy and will give you my whole heart and then some, if deserving. I pride myself with being strong and independent, but am looking for that special man on whom I can lean and depend as well....I don't have a problem voicing my opinions, but definitely look forward to meeting someone who is comfortable calling me out on my sh*t when needed ;)A little about you....confident but not arrogant, knows how and when to take control but isn't controlling, has a sense of humor (and can appreciate/handle mine - I'm a bit sarcastic at times!), knows how to let loose yet is focused and motivated, loves to laugh, embraces adventure, knows how to protect his woman, is comfortable with romance, loves to show affection and is looking for a true friendship to build on.Some things that get my juices flowing....;) , laughing out loud, a man with an inviting signature smell, watching couples dance to Spanish music (VERY SEXY and always brings a huge smile to my face), cuddling and kisses on my neck, growing my business, when that right song comes on the radio just at the right time, babysitting for my best friend's kids, dimples, yoga (still working on the mind-body connection), helping those who need my help and making a difference.....I'll leave the rest for when we get to know each other :)P.S. In case you're wondering, because body type is important to you, I chose "prefer not to say" because I consider myself curvy, and that option wasn't given.....Oh, and just BTW - I'm pretty selective and don't easily give out my number (not for any other reason than that I try to be careful about who I am inviting into my personal world)....however, if I have given you the digits, PLEASE take that as an invitation to actually CALL me rather than just text.....I'm a grown and mature woman who appreciates a grown, mature, confident and assertive man, so the whole texting back and forth thing before we've even spoken is not a good look...just sayin'....ciao!Ok...one last caveat.... Please have a picture. You get to see me in all my glory (well most if it!) so it's only fair for me to see you. Thanks :) A first date can range from a quick meet and greet over a drink, to dinner and dessert, to something totally different like a bike ride, a stroll through the park or bowling...it would depend on our initial connection and how we are feeling each other

  • Lavada

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a drama-free, financially stable, intelligent, fun-loving, down-to-earth woman looking for a long-term relationship that starts with friendship and develops from there.I am looking for someone who is a good communicator with a great sense of humor. I believe that while there needs to be physical attraction in a relationship, a person's personality plays a major part in what makes them attractive. where I did some hiking with my kids - in addition to taking lots of photos. I'd love to see more - I've been on two cruises so far with my girls and can't wait for the next adventure!I enjoy going to music festivals - especially Irish/Celtic ones. I am at Musikfest and the Celtic Classic every year! There is something to be said about experiencing live music. I go to the Sands once in a while - not to gamble, but to listen to the bands. Steelstacks at the ArtsQuest Center is a very cool venue as well. I also watch football (Go Vikings!). I have two teenage daughters who are fairly independent. The older one is at college and the younger one lives with me full-time but spends every other weekend with her father, so that gives me some time to myself (that I hope to share with someone special.)On a final note, if you are conservative, overly religious, uneducated, or judge people mostly on their outward appearances, we will likely not be a good match. Otherwise, I am open to getting together for coffee or drinks, just to meet and say hello. The first few dates are where we would get to know one another and determine if we enjoy one another's company. If we hit it off and there is also a spark - great! If we hit it off and there is no spark, hopefully we've at least found a new friend :-)

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