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Merri, 42
United States, Minnesota, Minnetonka

Offline, last seen Thu, 27 Nov 2025 17:53:48

About Me

After having a few meetville dates, let me say this: just be honest! You don't have to lie about what you want. If you have certain expectations about how things need to be, just be open about that. Communicate & be yourself. I would much rather you be open & honest about who you are & what you want then tell me whatever you think I want to hear...because guess what? You don't know me yet! Now's probably a good time to let you know that I'm a strong, independent woman. While I would ultimately like to find someone to share my life with, I am fully capable of taking care of myself. I think life can be easier with the right partner. The wrong one just makes it more difficult. I'm feisty & I like to be challenged. I tend to know what I want, and I've been told that can be a little intimidating. Once you get to know me, you'll find I'm a huge dork, I'll make jokes to ease tense situations, I'm sweet & compassionate, tender & loving, and I'll be your biggest cheerleader. I have a great sense of humor, so if you make me laugh it's a very good start. I am a morning person, but I can entertain myself until the rest of the world wakes up. I love watching movies. I also always fall asleep during said movies. So, if we're on the couch watching a movie, please be prepared to have either my head or my feet on your lap. You can choose. See...I can be nice!I like all kinds of music, but country is my favorite. My stations at works are either country, Maroon 5, or sometimes a little contemporary christian...just depends on my mood...or if I'm feeling particularly feisty & want to piss off a coworker. Come on...when you work in a room full of cubicles, you have to find ways to entertain yourself. I have a Nerf gun, and I'm not afraid to use it. I have 2 daughters, ages 23 & 12. I shouldn't have to say they come first, that's a given. I prefer meeting in a public place the first time. We can meet for coffee, or a walk around the canal, or even a concert in the park...something casual and fun, where we can talk & get to know each other a bit.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Jazz R&B Middle Eastern South American
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Let's get real ... every time I get on here I feel like I'm being interviewed. LOL. I've tried this website a couple times and all anyone wanted to talk about was sex. Sent me running ...I'm a slow mover wanting to start slow ... move slow and be real. I'm NOT interested in married men...men who only want sex or to talk about sex. Confidence is nice but no need for your big Ego here. All I want is to be myself and have fun with someone who wants to talk, hang out and get to know me. No games, no lies, (no reason to) By the way it creeps me out when I have only talked with a guy for about a week and he's asking if I wanna come over or wondering why I'm not texting him back after a couple of minutes ....Slow down dang!!!! Lol :) PLEASE don't get me wrong I want to go out ..I like to text and talk...I want to get to know people. I have 5 kiddos one in college one on his way to college soon so yes four at home. I'm not intense..needy..crazy ..or full of any drama and don't want a guy to be either. I have an amazing job ..make good money and am extremely independent. I have kiddos to take care of so if you don't have a job ..please get one before contacting me. Again I have 5 kiddos ..hence (Must Love Kids) they are 21, 17, 15, 12 and 9. Four of them live at home..for most men this is the deal breaker ..for me they are my life. So if this scares or bothers you please don't contact me.. I am strong and very independent and want my guy to be the same. I'm not a skinny or average girl ..I'm a full figured woman so again if you want the model body ..keep searching cause its not here lol... By the way I'm loyal, giving, loving, extremely faithful to my guy and will bring a better half to your world. If any of this still interests you feel free to in box me. :) I'm not really sure. Something mature and comfortable....I LOVE to laugh, eat, maybe a movie? I'm really laid back not picky and definitely not high maintenance. Not a princess but really like a gentlemen and someone I can call my friend.

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