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Helga, 43

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About Me

I have to be honest and say this awkward for me. I'm not accostumed to talking about myself but here it goes. I love to be out with friends and family. My closest friends (who know you better than yourself) would describe me as a passionate, self-giving, patient, fun-loving, outgoing, joyful, listener, gifted and one who would do anything for anyone. In no way am I perfect or looking for "Mr. Perfect". The greatest pleasure is getting to know someone from the inside out. Yes, I do believe there needs to be some physical attraction, but my "heart-attraction" is more important than looks. Crazy right? My Christian faith, family and friends are extremely important to me. I find pleasure in life's simple treasures, teaching "Kidzone" (children's church) and spending time with positive, uplifting friends. The bar scene is not my style, however, I do like to go out on the town dancing, to the theatre or a fancy "date night". Having not yet been married, my nephew is the apple of my eye. My motto is "live life to the fullest because it only happens once in a life time!" Love to:*Watch and cheer on favorite teams while at sporting events football, basketball, and baseball games "Go Redskins!"*Attend music concerts***> Country, Christian, Jazz, Oldies and big band*Play music ***> I'm a drummer *Spend time outdoors biking, walking the beach and hiking when up north *Play sports such as golf, softball, swimming and bowling*Chill out at the pool *Travel Desires for future husband/best friend:*Christian man, no mind games, communicator and serious relationship/marriage minded, *Honest, trustworthy, gentleman, friend and family oriented, patient, loving yet strong individual *Take interest in each other's passions, love life and it's simple pleasures Enjoy:*Craft Fairs, playing drums, gong to gym, lunch/dinner w/friends, pajama days and snuggling up to movies*wearing a favorite pair of jeans or going out for a dinner on the townNO: ONE NIGHT STANDS, SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS, DRUG USERS, MARRIED OR SEPARATED MEN! If you have read thus far let's talk! Take a risk and dare to impart on a new adventure! Cafe, waterfront coffee shop or lunch. A somewhat quiet spot to chat and get to know each other's interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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  • Edytha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a animal lover. I just recently lost one of my horses, so now I am down to 2. I have 1 dog, 1 "granddog" and 1 "grandcat". I listen to just about anything but rap, but most of the time country is playing. Nothing like a good cold drink listening to some country music. I do drink, but not like a fish. Maybe, if I am lucky, once a month, again, that's if I am luck. I feel alcohol doesn't make a person, does just the opposite. I have 2 children, both over the age of 18. I am a "Yankee transplant". I maybe a Yankee by birth, but I am a Southerner by choice! I have been back in Bama now since ***, after being gone for ***yrs.I have a huge heart (that people take for granted). I will do anything to help a friend (ok almost anything, as long as I don't end up in jail unless that friend is right there beside me). I am about as laid back as they come. I don't need to be wined and dined (even though at times its nice to go out). Grabbing a pizza and sitting on the couch to watch tv is perfectly fine with me. I don't have a problem with being outside (unless its extremely hot, I am still adjusting to the Bama heat). Love to cook. During the winter, I am found usually in the kitchen making homemade chicken and noodle soup or chicken and dumplins. Love to cook, did I say that? lol Always up for grilling, sitting by a fire and just relaxing.Anything else you want to know, I am pretty well an open book, so just ask! Wow! It's been a long time. I guess it would need to be some place on neutral grounds so that both parties don't feel pressured. Lunch? Dinner? Movie? I don't care for the bar scene, never know what you are going to get in a bar. I am pretty open to what the other party would like to do. Just a relaxing time, to see if there is any chemistry.

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