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I am looking for a kind, strong & confident man who has a good heart, is caring, spiritual, friendly & loves to laugh.! :) I also love to hang out w friends, play cards, bbq and watch movies. Someone who is easy going, enjoys great conversation and doesn't have his mind set on one thing only. A gentleman who is thoughtful enough to open a car door for his date. (...yes I am capable of opening my own door but chivalry ranks high on the impression charts! :) I have a huge heart, am a good listener and also very playful. Someone who shares my same faith would be a plus. Are you the quiet witty type or friendly & outgoing? Either one is fine but the important thing is laughter & communication! I believe in trying to have a gut wrenching laugh every day...does wonders for the mood. And last, but most important (for the sake of both parties), it needs to start off as friendship to see if things click. I've been in some interesting situations on here where the other person was ready to get serious right after meeting. It's not a race :) So many times there are those awkward silent moments when you first meet someone bc the pressure is on to sit and chat about the general things you have in common from your profiles. So I say, let's skip the first awkward meeting and do something casual & fun ***! Yes, I realize those might be a little extreme to arrange for a first date, so darts, pool, putt putt, trivia at BWW etc. would work too. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Berry

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am very comfortable with who I am. I sometimes use the term "Healthy Narcissist" which is very different from an "unhealthy" one. It's not about ego, it's about loving yourself from a deep understanding of yourself, flaws included. (So that explains my bikini pics for starters...) I feel you should always walk into a room knowing that you are bringing your best. However, this doesn't mean with an attitude. Open your heart on this life journey.I am looking (more "open to" rather than "looking") for someone who is really comfortable with who they are NOW. However, the catch is that you are open to "change" in all aspects of your life. Change is a good thing. I thrive on change.I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST! I am very sensual and have high kundalini. I love to travel and meet the locals. Volunteering and giving back are important to me. I seek to volunteer in organizations/places that have an authentic purpose, and everyone involved has real passion. A little (or a lot) of adventure is awesome.I am an avid lucid dreamer, and I teach and write about it. "Today, Today, live like you wanna, let yesterday burn and throw it in a fire, in a fire....live like a warrior." by Matisyahu Recent fan. Love his songs, don't know much about him....but damn good songs that touched me.I am inspired by real people who have a positive outlook on life even after overcoming amazing adversity. . I see this life as a series of learning experiences, and respect the relationships I have no matter if they are brief or long. Passion, love and intimacy are not just bound to long term relationships, but relationships MUST always be respected, honored and truthful.I seek to really LIVE and give in all areas of my life. I have an intense spiritual side and surround myself with positive people who respect this life and respect people. I am spiritual, but do not believe any organized religion is the right one.Laughter...comedy. I can't go a day or a few hours without it! Surround yourself with friends or acquaintances that know how to laugh and you will be living a good life. I desire what I myself am bringing; a fit body, a quick wit, intelligence, sensuality, kindness and a great sense of humor. Respect. Understanding. Chemistry. Lust. Honesty, Openness, Sense of self, Passion, Fun, Laughs, Sweet caresses, Going out, Hanging with friends at a BBQ or a game, Kissing, Making out, Fun sex, Awesome cosmic sensual spiritual sex. Someone that can stimulate my mind as well as my body.I believe we have many soul mates for many different reasons. They can be our friends and/or our lovers.IF you actually read all of this, and you want to see if we can be friends...or lovers...or etc. In your response put the words "Lucid dreaming" somewhere. It is NOT a requirement...lol. But would maybe help.And in case you missed it...."I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST!"Namaste' *Depends on the day and time of day.

  • Danyell

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love to laugh I'm straight up I'm not on here looking for sex just like to have a good time sense of humor is a must I love riding bikes motorcycle that is free happy go lucky I'm not out looking for sugar daddy I'm very independent but being treated like a princess doesn't sound badI'm over the users and liars so if you think you're one of these don't even bother saying hi I like spontaneity!

  • Helga

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have to be honest and say this awkward for me. I'm not accostumed to talking about myself but here it goes. I love to be out with friends and family. My closest friends (who know you better than yourself) would describe me as a passionate, self-giving, patient, fun-loving, outgoing, joyful, listener, gifted and one who would do anything for anyone. In no way am I perfect or looking for "Mr. Perfect". The greatest pleasure is getting to know someone from the inside out. Yes, I do believe there needs to be some physical attraction, but my "heart-attraction" is more important than looks. Crazy right? My Christian faith, family and friends are extremely important to me. I find pleasure in life's simple treasures, teaching "Kidzone" (children's church) and spending time with positive, uplifting friends. The bar scene is not my style, however, I do like to go out on the town dancing, to the theatre or a fancy "date night". Having not yet been married, my nephew is the apple of my eye. My motto is "live life to the fullest because it only happens once in a life time!" Love to:*Watch and cheer on favorite teams while at sporting events football, basketball, and baseball games "Go Redskins!"*Attend music concerts***> Country, Christian, Jazz, Oldies and big band*Play music ***> I'm a drummer *Spend time outdoors biking, walking the beach and hiking when up north *Play sports such as golf, softball, swimming and bowling*Chill out at the pool *Travel Desires for future husband/best friend:*Christian man, no mind games, communicator and serious relationship/marriage minded, *Honest, trustworthy, gentleman, friend and family oriented, patient, loving yet strong individual *Take interest in each other's passions, love life and it's simple pleasures Enjoy:*Craft Fairs, playing drums, gong to gym, lunch/dinner w/friends, pajama days and snuggling up to movies*wearing a favorite pair of jeans or going out for a dinner on the townNO: ONE NIGHT STANDS, SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS, DRUG USERS, MARRIED OR SEPARATED MEN! If you have read thus far let's talk! Take a risk and dare to impart on a new adventure! Cafe, waterfront coffee shop or lunch. A somewhat quiet spot to chat and get to know each other's interests.

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