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Victor, 43

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About Me

I have a passion for life and I don't let things get me down, at least not for long. I am honest and straight forward. I have learned that life is going to consistently throw you new challenges. So you just have to brace yourself, and when they hit, do the best you can. The motto I live my life by states that "Without integrity, nothing works." This little phrase makes a lot of choices and decisions quite easy. NOT saying I always make the right decisions, but at least it gives me a guideline; so when I realize I made the wrong decision I have no one to blame but myself. I love my children more than anything and am constantly evaluating my service to them. At this point, it doesn't matter what I want, it's all about them. Favorite places I have visited...## Nice but didn't get to experience much of the culture.I cherish my old friendships and love making new ones. I can adapt to about any social setting from casual to formal and I enjoy both. Whether we are sipping wine at the theater, drinking beer at a dive bar, scotch at a cigar bar, or soda at a sporting event, I am versatile and will enjoy myself. To me, having someone I can believe in and feel safe enough to be myself around is the the most important. I love sharing dreams and exchanging ideas on how to make those dreams come true. I am very supportive in a relationship. What catches my attention is an intelligent man, and if he smells really good he's really got me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Berry

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am very comfortable with who I am. I sometimes use the term "Healthy Narcissist" which is very different from an "unhealthy" one. It's not about ego, it's about loving yourself from a deep understanding of yourself, flaws included. (So that explains my bikini pics for starters...) I feel you should always walk into a room knowing that you are bringing your best. However, this doesn't mean with an attitude. Open your heart on this life journey.I am looking (more "open to" rather than "looking") for someone who is really comfortable with who they are NOW. However, the catch is that you are open to "change" in all aspects of your life. Change is a good thing. I thrive on change.I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST! I am very sensual and have high kundalini. I love to travel and meet the locals. Volunteering and giving back are important to me. I seek to volunteer in organizations/places that have an authentic purpose, and everyone involved has real passion. A little (or a lot) of adventure is awesome.I am an avid lucid dreamer, and I teach and write about it. "Today, Today, live like you wanna, let yesterday burn and throw it in a fire, in a fire....live like a warrior." by Matisyahu Recent fan. Love his songs, don't know much about him....but damn good songs that touched me.I am inspired by real people who have a positive outlook on life even after overcoming amazing adversity. . I see this life as a series of learning experiences, and respect the relationships I have no matter if they are brief or long. Passion, love and intimacy are not just bound to long term relationships, but relationships MUST always be respected, honored and truthful.I seek to really LIVE and give in all areas of my life. I have an intense spiritual side and surround myself with positive people who respect this life and respect people. I am spiritual, but do not believe any organized religion is the right one.Laughter...comedy. I can't go a day or a few hours without it! Surround yourself with friends or acquaintances that know how to laugh and you will be living a good life. I desire what I myself am bringing; a fit body, a quick wit, intelligence, sensuality, kindness and a great sense of humor. Respect. Understanding. Chemistry. Lust. Honesty, Openness, Sense of self, Passion, Fun, Laughs, Sweet caresses, Going out, Hanging with friends at a BBQ or a game, Kissing, Making out, Fun sex, Awesome cosmic sensual spiritual sex. Someone that can stimulate my mind as well as my body.I believe we have many soul mates for many different reasons. They can be our friends and/or our lovers.IF you actually read all of this, and you want to see if we can be friends...or lovers...or etc. In your response put the words "Lucid dreaming" somewhere. It is NOT a requirement...lol. But would maybe help.And in case you missed it...."I love people in general, but I am mostly attracted to fit, tall, black, confident, smart men AND fit, sexy, smart, confident woman. Having an open mind and a kind heart are a MUST!"Namaste' *Depends on the day and time of day.

  • Samantha

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hello...I never thought I would get on a dating site as this, but being that I don't do clubs and I don't meet many men at work in the nursing field, I figured "why not, it can't hurt anything." I am divorced with 3 children. I love being active with my kids and with their sports and activities. I attend church every Sunday, which is important to me. I enjoy movies, bowling, spending time with friends and family, cookouts/BBQ's, traveling, and lakes/ beaches, rafting, canoeing, fishing. I would like to meet a man with the same interests as me, my best friend. Someone that is family oriented, financially/emotionally secure, honest, and is looking for the same in a woman. I am a fun, witty person and enjoy being around people that make me laugh. I would like to meet my special someone that I can laugh with and live a fun happy life together! I think for the first time, have coffee and strike up conversation..

  • Shannon

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I love to travel,meet knew people,go yard saleing and shopping, etc. Maybe go out to dinner and a movie or coffee shop.

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