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Oretha, 41

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About Me

Let's get real ... every time I get on here I feel like I'm being interviewed. LOL. I've tried this website a couple times and all anyone wanted to talk about was sex. Sent me running ...I'm a slow mover wanting to start slow ... move slow and be real. I'm NOT interested in married men...men who only want sex or to talk about sex. Confidence is nice but no need for your big Ego here. All I want is to be myself and have fun with someone who wants to talk, hang out and get to know me. No games, no lies, (no reason to) By the way it creeps me out when I have only talked with a guy for about a week and he's asking if I wanna come over or wondering why I'm not texting him back after a couple of minutes ....Slow down dang!!!! Lol :) PLEASE don't get me wrong I want to go out ..I like to text and talk...I want to get to know people. I have 5 kiddos one in college one on his way to college soon so yes four at home. I'm not intense..needy..crazy ..or full of any drama and don't want a guy to be either. I have an amazing job ..make good money and am extremely independent. I have kiddos to take care of so if you don't have a job ..please get one before contacting me. Again I have 5 kiddos ..hence (Must Love Kids) they are 21, 17, 15, 12 and 9. Four of them live at home..for most men this is the deal breaker ..for me they are my life. So if this scares or bothers you please don't contact me.. I am strong and very independent and want my guy to be the same. I'm not a skinny or average girl ..I'm a full figured woman so again if you want the model body ..keep searching cause its not here lol... By the way I'm loyal, giving, loving, extremely faithful to my guy and will bring a better half to your world. If any of this still interests you feel free to in box me. :) I'm not really sure. Something mature and comfortable....I LOVE to laugh, eat, maybe a movie? I'm really laid back not picky and definitely not high maintenance. Not a princess but really like a gentlemen and someone I can call my friend.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Devnet

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi =) I love to travel and I am very spontaneous. Love to go to music festivals and concerts. I just have to renew my passport and I'll be off traveling to other countries=!! She is my buddy. We like to go to the beach, boating or just taking a walk somewhere. I'm trying to work out more, really do not like the gym. Maybe if I had a workout buddy I might be more motivated LOL =) I guess in a few words to discribe me would be..honest, loyal, easy going, artist, animal lover, traveler and a fun hippie chic. I am not materialistic at all. Really not into the internet for meeting people but thought it was worth a look=) Thanks for looking, Peace! something fun =) Dinner and beers at first.

  • Onita

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I’m a single mother of twin boys and feeling better than I have in years. I’m looking for friends and perhaps more if I can meet the right person. I’m not ready to rush headlong into anything serious but if it happens I'm certainly open to it. I’m independent, enjoy my job, own my own home and I’m certainly not looking for anyone to take care of me or be a stepdad to my children. I’m looking to get to know some new friends, have some fun together, and possibly develop a relationship if things head in that direction.That being said I’m happy being single and just enjoying life! I have time to try new things and spend time with friends, both old and new. I'm a good listener, a good friend, and my friends tell me that I am one of the most patient girls you’re likely to meet. I’m fairly laid back and low key. I relish the simple things in life and you’re unlikely to find a lot of drama surrounding me! I do enjoy movies, some, but not a lot of TV, trying new restaurants, and revisiting some old favorites. I’m always up for a weekend away, a trip to the beach or wherever I think might be fun or interesting. But I can be perfectly content with chillin at home with a few drinks or playing some games.While I grew up in the South, I'm not really all that much of a country girl. I’m not too big on camping or fishing but it’s all good if you are. And who knows, perhaps you can try to change my mind. :-) I’m fairly liberal on politics, but I’m fine if you’re not. Religiously I’d label myself as spiritual but not really religious.I eat most anything but I’m not a huge fan of sushi. I was vegetarian but gave that up a few years ago. I enjoy different kinds of music, but I’m a child of the 80s so anything from that time period holds a special place in my heart, even the old hair bands! I grew up listening to old country and like some of the new as well. I like other stuff as well and I’d love to explore some new music. Anything you want to know, just ask. I’m open and I’d really love to hear from you!UPDATE: I think it takes more than one date or even two to get a real sense of someone. We're all nervous on the first date right? I don't think the best of a person can be summed up in a profile or revealed in a few messages or texts. Getting to know someone requires giving them a chance to be themselves and put down their mask. We all have one. “We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” – Dr. SuessI consider myself a positive, intelligent, confident, strong, good person who's able to laugh at myself, enjoy simple things, and handle whatever life throws my way. I think there's a lot more to me than would be revealed in one date or two. I've never been one to fit into a particular category. I may seem quiet at first but you can trust I'll be the one observing who knows exactly what's going on. I can be serious, practical, silly and adventurous indoors and out :) I believe in treating others as I want to be treated. I'm very happy and content in my own life and my own skin. I'd love to have someone to share that with.

  • Hosannah

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am not a materialistic gal, some call me redneck, I consider myself country. Have a grown daughter and a teenage boy at home.... Also have 2 Lab/pit mixes and a Love Bird. I am an artist and photographer, but not pro. I love farm/country life, gardening, hunting, trapping, fishing the whole 9. Would love to find someone with same interests so can enjoy together but not a must. I am not clingy, I prefer to let you do your thing and me mine but then have "our" time together. Not really good at this so I guess if interested please message me, My Grampa taught me to let the guy make the first move cuz then ya know he is seriously interested. So I guess I have Old School values lol Meet for coffee, soda or a bite somewhere so we can talk, go for a walk or dog park even if ya have a beastie too.

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