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About Me

My photos range from several years ago to present. I have not changed much over the years.I seek and value in the important things in my life. I work in a difficult job with a very diverse population, so I have seen pretty much everything, and experienced a great deal of it myself. My belief is that we all have baggage, luggage, skeletons (whatever term you want to use). The question is what do you do with that stuff? Throw it in the ditch, burn it, lug it around, let it rule your life? I try to learn from it. Some lessons take several times to get, but we all get there eventually. I'm comfortable in my skin. For all those things have made me the person I am today - good, bad, or indifferent. I have been at my current job for over 13 years and for the most part still love it. While my work is very important to me, I try to balance things off by taking time off as often as I can.I love to travel near and far. Road trips are fun and traveling off the beaten path, if time allows, is always my preference. Because I am a southern girl at heart and soul, sand and sun are my favorite places to go and there are lots of beaches I have not explored yet! Time to get back to it! On my thrill-seeker side I am on personal venture to ride as many roller coasters as I can. good food, drinks or a good cup of coffee!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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