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Arista, 45

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About Me

Single mother of 4 amazing children that are my life ... very busy in their sports and school...love watching them play sports...hard worker looking for my soulmate and just be happy :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Makaila

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have been on and off this site for a while and have met a handful of people. I have come to expect nothing other than some interesting people watching. Everyone is looking for the perfect person and I hope that is what you find eventually.Anyway, I'm a pretty simple girl. I am a mom. I work full time. I support myself. I don't have a lot in life but when I did, I wasn't any happier so I'm okay with where I am. I have been humbled and know what it's like to do without. I know what it's like to travel. I'm a fan of tailgating and sports games. Yes I actually like and understand sports. Well maybe not golf but I'm willing to learn about the game!!I am looking to date. Not more than one man at a time but date and see where things go. Expectations have jaded my impression of a perfect relationship so I just take one day at a time. I think most know when there is a connection and when there isn't. We are all just afraid to tell the other person how we feel. I'm not specifically looking to get married again but never say never. I would like to find a man that wants a long term relationship and just see where that takes us. No pressure or expectations. I love my kids and am not interested in producing any more of my own. I'm happy to date someone that has children or not. It's rough towering over someone. Lol. I enjoy talking and getting to know people so if you think you might be interested in a girl like me, send a message and we can start the interview process. Lol. Kidding. I'm always happiest with a man that can make me laugh. Funny is cute!! Just be real. Don't try to be someone you're not. I may not be perfect but I will never be fake. It only bites you in the butt in the end. Why do that?? So let's talk and see where it takes us!!!! And just out of consideration, if I've sent a message please respond. Even if you're not interested just let me know. It's just a common courtesy. Thanks. Who cares.......make sure you have a way out if needed, but I am always happy to try new things!!!The reality is that very few contacts ever make it to a first date. I have learned to expect nothing....and maybe one day I will be surprised.

  • Lilli

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am not very good at describing myself, but here it goes..... I like to hang out with my friends, play poker, watch movies, read books, play on my phone, and go to the bar and watch MMA. I have an unusual love of bull riding....I honestly have no idea why because I don't consider myself country. I love being around my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I would like. I am definitely a jeans and t-shirt person, but not against dressing up when called for. I am just going to come out and say it....I am not a girlie girl, and I am comfortable with this. I love to laugh, can take a joke, and I believe that I have a great sense of humor (but honestly don't we all!!! LOL). I don't know if I have a favorite of all time band, but I do like Evanescence. I like alternative music mostly. I am a horror flick fan to say the least. I love pretty much any zombie or vampire movie. I like action movies and do like chick movies sometimes, but that really isn't my style. I am also a huge Laurell K. I pretty much will enjoy anything with the right person to hang out with. I am more interested in intellence than looks, but believe that you have to be attracted to someone for a relationship to bloom. I am looking for someone that is kind, respectful, great sense of humor, spontaneous, and loving. Someone that isn't primarily just interested in sex, but someone that would like to get to know me and be friends, don't get me wrong sex has it's place and I am not against it, but friends first the rest will follow. I like people that speak there minds and have an opinion. Well if you have still reading this then, please I'M me. My ideal first date....this is easy....Dinner....traditional or something interesting your choice. First time meeting someone is important it needs to be in a quite place to sit down and talk. It is a great way to start.

  • Helga

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have to be honest and say this awkward for me. I'm not accostumed to talking about myself but here it goes. I love to be out with friends and family. My closest friends (who know you better than yourself) would describe me as a passionate, self-giving, patient, fun-loving, outgoing, joyful, listener, gifted and one who would do anything for anyone. In no way am I perfect or looking for "Mr. Perfect". The greatest pleasure is getting to know someone from the inside out. Yes, I do believe there needs to be some physical attraction, but my "heart-attraction" is more important than looks. Crazy right? My Christian faith, family and friends are extremely important to me. I find pleasure in life's simple treasures, teaching "Kidzone" (children's church) and spending time with positive, uplifting friends. The bar scene is not my style, however, I do like to go out on the town dancing, to the theatre or a fancy "date night". Having not yet been married, my nephew is the apple of my eye. My motto is "live life to the fullest because it only happens once in a life time!" Love to:*Watch and cheer on favorite teams while at sporting events football, basketball, and baseball games "Go Redskins!"*Attend music concerts***> Country, Christian, Jazz, Oldies and big band*Play music ***> I'm a drummer *Spend time outdoors biking, walking the beach and hiking when up north *Play sports such as golf, softball, swimming and bowling*Chill out at the pool *Travel Desires for future husband/best friend:*Christian man, no mind games, communicator and serious relationship/marriage minded, *Honest, trustworthy, gentleman, friend and family oriented, patient, loving yet strong individual *Take interest in each other's passions, love life and it's simple pleasures Enjoy:*Craft Fairs, playing drums, gong to gym, lunch/dinner w/friends, pajama days and snuggling up to movies*wearing a favorite pair of jeans or going out for a dinner on the townNO: ONE NIGHT STANDS, SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS, DRUG USERS, MARRIED OR SEPARATED MEN! If you have read thus far let's talk! Take a risk and dare to impart on a new adventure! Cafe, waterfront coffee shop or lunch. A somewhat quiet spot to chat and get to know each other's interests.

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